Sphincter concerns

I have a lady friend who is on the cusp of entering in to enema and anal play. But.....she is concerned that with both enemas, especially larger diameter nozzles and anal toy / penis penetration, that she will, at some point, have issue with sphincter control should this be of any concern?

It will go back to normal size as long as you don't abuse it by inserting ridiculous things in repeatedly. But people can lose their control with older age as I've seen in the hospital regardless of multiple insertions-you can lose feelings back there that tell you if you are stooling. Nerve endings can be affected so remember that down the road if you notice any changes in your ability to control the sphincter. If I'm off on this, I'm sure someone will correct me.

Sphincter control should not be an issue so long as one uses common sense. Do not use greatly oversized objects,( ie. those huge oversized dildos you sometimes see in porn video.)

Use plenty of high quality lubricant. Do not engage in the use of oversized objects on a frequent basis. If you do, it is possible to damage your sphincter and cause the loss of control of your bowel.

As long as the nozzle isn't any larger in diameter than the average bowel movement, say 1" diameter, it should not be an issue. The key is not to insert anything that is too large to be comfortable.

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The sphincter is a really elastic muscle and quickly returns to normal.. You would have to do years of play with giant plugs and stretching to have any effect on it. If you are using standard to medium nozzles and butt plugs once in a while there is no problem...

This is probably a good post for Susie to reply to, but no one has heard from her since she and her husband entered their playroom for the holidays..... must have been a good one!!!

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Actually, this wasn't a sexual extravaganza like last year. We took the girls on vacation along with two of their girlfriends for a week and got two NON-adjoining rooms, so we did have some privacy, although I suppose its possible they were outside our door listening for grunts and moans. (We don't do anything in hotels involving screaming or things that make noise like whips because that obviously draws unwanted attention. We save that for times when the girls are out of the house for the weekend or some similar occasion.) Anyway, they already have plans to be away for MLK weekend, so we'll be busy raping and flogging each other then.

So here's my reply to your deserving post: As long as you have worked up to large objects, like fists and big dildos over a long period of time in the same manner as a gymnast works out and develops their muscles to do front to back and side to side splits, your anal sphincter will return to normal in a minute or two and will be perfectly able to hold any enema you want. Continence is not a problem. My husband is perfectly able to hold his enemas after he gets a good fisting from me. For example, if you take a novice gymnast who has never done a split before and hold her shoulders and forcibly push her butt down to the floor into a side to side split, she will have torn leg muscles. Likewise, if you take a giant dildo or fist and jam it in, with or without lube, the anal ring will be damaged. It's all a matter of training and building up to larger sizes.

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As long as the nozzle isn't any larger in diameter than the average bowel movement, say 1" diameter, it should not be an issue. The key is not to insert anything that is too large to be comfortable.

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WHOA!! You can get things WAY bigger than a 1" bowel movement up your butt and not have any problems as long as you build up to larger sizes. You need to see a film where someone, male or female gets anally fisted. You'll see, after they get their de rigeur shot of the gaping orifice when the fist is removed, it closes right back up again. If it didn't, in the person's next film, their ass would already be gaping open!

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Like a two inch Butt plug?

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😮 😮 😮 😮 Who would do that? :😃

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My husband and I would! 😁 😁 😁 😁 And not have any ill effects.

Why do people stick extremely large things in their orifices anyway? Is it for personal pleasure? (Is the desire generated by secret advertising campaigns sponsored by the people that make"The Super Butt Plug" and by the chemical companies that make the latex used to make giant sextoys?) Do they actually like the feeling of being stretched to the limit and the limit just keeps getting bigger as they stretch to the limit. Is it a pleasure pain thing?

I do not understand why I am supposed to be stimulated by the sight of a woman with a 2 liter Pepsi bottle in her vagina. I don't even understand why the woman with the baseball bat in vagina is exciting. My little man penis is no competition for that bat. How much duct tape would I have to wrap around my dick for the Pepsi cunt lady to even know something attached to me was inside of her I think my interest in these kind of things is how far people can take things without tearing themselves in half. It like the car crash, That's gross but you can't look away.

I like the occasional stretch. It's different. And it feels *awesome* 😃

"The Amazing Ty", you know, the lady that really can fit a Cadillac up her coochie (and ass, and urethra ... at the same time), says that she has never had an issue with crapping or peeing herself. Every other person in to large objects reports the exact same thing: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Even Kirk Johnson doesn't have any problems!

I've had some pretty big stuff in me, and I've never had an issue either. In fact, the worst thing related to this is that after some play involving olive oil, some didn't get out after playing, so it leaked out overnight (your body thinks it's a fart, so it doesn't mind relaxing to let it out when you're asleep). It was a very small amount though, and nothing got stained or anything like that. And the fact that I leaked probably had absolutely nothing to do with the wonderful stretch I had hours before going to bed.

The human body is a very robust machine, it can handle a lot more than you can imagine before it breaks. It just takes some self confidence.

If taking 3" butt plugs caused problems, there would be much more information about those problems out in the open, and there just isn't any.

The really big issue comes when you tear the ligaments and tendons that hold your colon/rectum/vagina/penis/whatever in place. That doesn't heal all by itself. But that's completely different from just slowly stretching yourself allowing your body to grow accustomed to the intrusion.

Regardless, the only time you should be worried about this kind of stuff is if you are actively testing your limits of what you can take. Otherwise your body is built to handle it, and handle it it shall.

Gazeebo: With all the stretching you are talking about, have you ever had your doctor look at your ass and say "What the hell happend here?"

Woman who have had babies sometimes don't return their original factory condition. Is this because the stretching is so extreme and it happens over a relatively short time. I know the feeling of a large nozzle being inserted into me and if the pain is proportional to size I do not know how women make it through childbirth. More power to them!

Do you think, with enough time, and possible a different pelvis, you could stretch yourself enough to get an object the size of a newborn human baby through your orifice and have it return to normal size (after some time)? For the object I was going to say a bowling ball but a human baby is probably smaller and more flexible and squishy.

When you do these great stretches where does the extra needed skin come from. People have anal pucker but that only allows for so much expansion. After training yourself to being able to take large objects do you think you have more anal pucker? I have seen medical cases where they are going to need more skin for some operation. They will put a balloon under the skin to stretch the skin. I think it actually grows more skin. Maybe this same effect is happening as you use larger objects.

Sorry to be asking so many questions. I have never had the urge or desire to stretch myself to the limit but I have always wondered about the physics involved.

Looking for a gag for you mouth if you try this --- Fred

Scientists have speculated that is it an ever expanding universe. Does that mean thing are getting bigger?

Enema nozzels will not do this. i would be more concerned if you were getting fisted every night or sticking big things up there. even that, i think takes years for anything to happen. this muscle is very elastic and goes back to normal shape. 😁

What about inflatable butt plugs - can they do any damage? i'm talking normal size inflatable BP, nothing ridiculous.

Only if they burst while in your rear. Could cause rectal bleeding.

what about inflatable butt plugs - can they do any damage? i'm talking normal size inflatable BP, nothing ridiculous.

Only if they burst while in your rear. Could cause rectal bleeding.

I have had inflatable devices like double balloons in latex and silicone pop while in my rectum at least ten times over the last twenty years. There is absolutely no problem at all when this happens other than being out a hundred fifty bucks. The air and enema solution along with feces just blows out your anus and makes a mess. I never had any soreness or a bleeding problem and neither has my husband.

I agree, I have spent many hours at enema play, and the hole goes right back to its normal self within a day.

A little sore maybe.....ha! ha!

If you use medical approved enema nozzles as these barium tips (http://ns2.customwebdesigners.com/enemaproducts.htm) patient's sphincter does not run any risk, even with inflatable types. A good lubricated nozzle in expert and delicate hands can not cause any damage.

Patient cooperation is crucial: a good technique is to ask the patient to relax while lubricating the nozzle. When you are ready you can lean gently the nozzle tip on patient's anus as if you knocked on a door. Then ask the patient to bear down when is ready: when you see the anus ring relax push the nozzle slowly twisting it.

I am sorry to have to tell you that " Klystra " stopped all activities .

Catalog is still there , that is all what is staying from Klystra , alas .

If you use medical approved enema nozzles as these barium tips (http://ns2.customwebdesigners.com/enemaproducts.htm) patient's sphincter does not run any risk, even with inflatable types. A good lubricated nozzle in expert and delicate hands can not cause any damage.

The link you posted is to a web designer’s test page made many years ago for a company that is no longer operating. As Arthur says, Klystra is dead.

I'm sorry that Klystra closed down.

I posted the image link just by way of example.

I'm looking on the net if some vendor sells nozzle of this type: if I will find something I will post the link.

Thanks for the replies!