What do you do for your lady during her period

Any suggestions would be helpful

Give warm enema and back rub get her to climax seams to help

It depends on your woman's needs. Does she have trouble with cramps? Making her a cup of red raspberry leaf tea (not just raspberry flavored) can help her. I recommend Traditional Medicinals Female Toner tea. It's delicious and really helps to reduce cramping and pain. Does she have trouble with water retention? If she does, it might help to massage her feet, ankles, calves and lower back. A hot oil massage to her abdomen and pelvis can be soothing as well. Warmth is always good, so a hot water bottle, warm bath, heating pad or other source of heat can help relieve pain. Calcium, Vitamin B, Vitamin D and Vitamin C the week before and during menses can help. If she's anemic, an Iron supplement can help. Evening primrose oil, flax seed oil or an Omega 3 fatty acid can also help. Barleen's Essential Woman was a great help to me when I had periods. You can find it in the refrigerated section of your health food store.

As far as sex, if that's what you're wanting to know about, it depends on how she's feeling. When I had periods, my needs would change depending on pain location and level. Sometimes sex would help alleviate cramps, but other times, the mere thought of touch would be enough to make me curl into a ball and stay under the covers. You'll have to let her tell you if she's up for it. Orgasm can help, but sometimes it might be too much for her to handle your penis. So masturbating her or pleasing her in other ways might help. You may have to put your own pleasure and orgasm on hold until she's feeling better. If you're good to her, it will be the worth the wait as she'll know that you're a gentleman who cares for her and aren't just wanting to satisfy your own selfish needs. As far as breast stimulation, you'll have to ask her if she would like it and how she'd like it.

Do what you can to pamper and spoil her and make her feel loved. She'll appreciate your attempts and you'll both feel better in the long run.

One though after reading egirlky's post...

Take care of her... you can always masturbate :-)

I send mine out to the Menstrual Hut till it's over. It's a bitch because I have to find someone else to cook for me during that time.

The Cave Man

Good response, Egirl. And, Caveman, you are sooo funny (McDonald's has drive-thru).

I sometimes enjoy sex and sometimes I don't want to think about it. But a hug, an "I love you", snuggling, or even a nice back or body rub would be enjoyed (hope he reads this).

But take care of her (ask if you aren't sure). Put up with the cranky, bloated, and whatever other symptoms she has. They will go away and your girl will return.

I want to recommend that you not do what my ex-husband did once. He left the house for a while and came back with a bag from the grocery. Out of the bag, he took out a couple of Skor candy bars, a box of Midol and a box of tampons and said, "Here, honey. I think you need these." He actually meant it in a nice way. He knew I had a painful cramps that kept me in bed several days a month and that I loved buttery sweets. It was early in our marriage and he just wanted to give me something to take the pain away and comfort me. I was never bitchy at that time of the month. I was just in pain. However, me being the fun and sarcastic woman that I am, I teased him mercilessly about it, as if he had said it to me in typical insensitive man fashion instead of the sweet and caring husband fashion. I couldn't help myself. 😃 Poor guy.

My boyfriend is pretty generous sexually during my period, mostly because I get super-horny while I'm on my period and he likes to take every chance he can get! Guys, if you can deal with the mess, put a towel down and have some fun! Depending on your girl's level of libido, she just may appreciate it!

Being a lady I can tell you that a warm enema helps

An enema might not be the answer for all women. During certain days of my periods, I had so much pain in my abdomen and pelvis that any type of added pressure, from having a full bladder or taking an enema was enough to put me on the floor, writhing in pain. I had endometriosis and pelvic congestion syndrome (possibly due to the Depo-Provera shot I used for birth control), so I experienced extreme pain. It sometimes felt as if I was carrying a bowling ball in my uterus. Even the insertion of a nozzle into my rectum or a tampon into my vagina hurt so badly I needed to take Aleve for the pain and a Xanax to help get me off the ceiling. It took many years of suffering before I got my diagnosis along with learning that I have four times the normal amount of a neurotransmitter that translate any sensation as a painful stimulus. I'm just glad I had I a hysterectomy and don't have to deal with periods anymore. Besides, not having to worry about birth control or "that time of the month" makes all my fun completely recreational and worry-free. It's like having a brand new sports car to drive. 😃

My pain may be different than most women's pain, but don't discount what your lady tells you about hers. If a woman tells you that an enema won't help her, believe her. Don't push her into trying it since you read that it helped others. Every woman's body is different as are her symptoms, pain level and ability to deal with pain. So cater to your lady as she needs and be good to her. Women are born nurturers, but there are times we really love having someone take care of us.

Yes, indeed. My last lady friend, when her period came I came too! LOL. Please excuse the pun. She'd grab a fluffy green towel and me. Hey, fellas, that's life. Celebrate!

We had wild sex during her time. She would be greatly relaxed afterwards. As for me, my nuts would be dragging the floor.

My periods are a little different from month to month. There have been a couple where a nice warm enema was just the thing. For me it is not more than a quart and the longer I can hold it the better I feel. Most months I don't have problems and feel especially horny. Depending on the day it can be a bit messy so those are the only times when we use a condom. Otherwise I am always sure to keep a couple of fresh tampons in the nightstand.

My wife was especially frisky during her periods. she wanted sex often and we had great fun. All kidding aside I think the sex helped her in some way during her periods. She always seemed to feel better after we had sex.

Neither of us had a particular thing for period sex, but by the same token we did not let her periods stop us from fun in bed. We always kept a big red towel by the bed, and put it under her at that time of the month. Only real change was I did not go down on her then, not enough vampire genes I guess. The periods stopped with her hysterectomy years ago, the sex did not. 😉

Wow egirlky, thanks for the advice.

still trying to figure out the best things to do for my fiancee :s

My wife has me take care of her by changing her tampons and keeping her clean . She makes me wear one when she does. Like today she pulled down my panties and had me put a kotex tampon in while she watched and spread my cheeks apart it was a big turn on

My wife and I have enjoyed her periods for years. She's old school and wears napkins most of the time. She also enjoys the older school combination of a tabbed napkin and belt. She's sexually at the top of her game while menstruating and loves for me to give her oral sex. She's clean shaven with a clean and petite body. She likes to wear high heels, garter belt and stockings with her tabbed napkin (Either Kotex or Modess)and walk about the house like this. I love watching her in the kitchen cooking dinner! I know what dessert will be.

gynylon28

A nice, slow, warm enema definitely helps with cramping.

I do suffer from PMS so a warm baking soda enema does wonders for me. Not only does it relieve my mild constipation, but the warmth in my lower abdominal regions feels wonderful. After my first day I am usually pretty horny and enjoy having sex then. It can be quite messy so a nearby towel gets its use.

Most of the women I've known have been especially horny during their period. Earn your red wings! Get a little extra iron in your diet! I love it! IMO, it's the best time to go down.

Many women i have known do become very horny when they have their period. ive always been a proponent of "whenever the mood hits". a couple of other thoughts..if the flow is too heavy perfect time (as if there were not a perfect time)for anal. my other thought is that if god didnt want us to have sex during a period she would not have created towels.

This is a good question . i havent had a period in 5 years now and i wont have 1 for another 5 years so . my partner cant do anything.

but i never get moody or uptight . i never cry or anything on my periods of old .

yay for the marina coil !!!

My wife does not want to be touched

you feel embarrassed

The day I get to give my husband red flight wings is the day when pigs start to fly! :😃

I clean the kitchen, she takes an E in and cleans up in privet and

I let her know how much I love her! Seems to work for us.

Tanks to everyone who replyed to my question. They were very timely and helpfull. I now understand her feeling during her time.

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I had a girlfriend who was especially horny during this time. We called it our "special treat". She would come in to the bedroom wearing a towel and I know the treat was about to be served... I would go doen on her and she would beg for me; I would come up to her "as is" and I mounted her for an especially joyous ride.... I do miss that! :'(

Went to the store and bought a timed heating pad. That way, she can lay on it and fall asleep without worrying about burning herself again.. I brought it to her house as a surprise in the very beginning of our relationship. She still uses it.

Other than that, I'll go buy her more pads (she doesn't use tampons) if she's on cycle and runs out for some reason. Rub her, massage her, cook for her, etc...

She's very appreciative of that during her cycle and pays me back 10 fold in "services" on and off her cycle.

Some years back, I would enjoy sex with a towel under her bottom. It never held me back, and I kind of enjoyed the extra lube. A few times I even went down, and she loved it. (So did I.)

I guess I'm damn lucky, because when my wife's on her period, PMS isn't that much of a problem. She gets a little irritable, but I'm usually able to comfort her by giving her full body massages. I knead the back of ther neck to help with the headaches and rub her lower abdomen to ease menstrual cramping. I once dated a girl that was far less accomodating when she got PMS, but you know, it's understandable. A bitch a woman can be when she gets like this, but it altogether isn't her fault, and thankfully lasts just a short time. We men can also be cantankerous bastards to the women we should be treating like queens, but they put up with us as well.