Feeling of submission during enema

During my entire adolescence I was under the medical supervision of a Female Physician who use to give lot of attention to my bowel movements and always believed that it is the key to my good health.

During any irregularities reported, she would immediately ask me to visit her clinic and administer a 750 ml enema in my rectum and make me expel in the attached toilet.

Although during my routine examination, she did not always examine my genitals, but during enema giving she would always make me totally naked and ask me to lie on my side facing the wall.While stripping me,she would explain to me that she had to do this embarrassing task just to save my clothes from getting spoiled,in case I fail to hold the liquid in my abdomen.

Lying naked,sensing the warm soapy liquid rushing inside my rectum and feeling the soft palm of my Female Doctor massaging my abdomen would make me feel totally submitted to her and wish her to take total control over me.I never understood the reason for such psychological change that used to take place in my mind while getting enema from a woman.

This sense of submission and dependency would lead to some sort of attraction towards my Female Doctor though she was much older to me but I never dared to express that.

Can you share if you had any such experience while taking enema from females.

Absolutely! I have had two recent proffesional ladies who specialize in this. This is a compilation of several actual sessions, I hope you enjoy, I sure did. To condense and get to the point I have disrobed and have been shown the full/fat punishment/pleasure bag awaiting me hanging from the shower head and dripping water from a douche nozzle that has had and additional hole bored in the end; I have taken some verbal chastizing about the size of my penis and my infantile mentallity.

She pushed me into the bathtub onto my knees and slaps some vaseline on my anus and slides quickly and positivley the nozzle into my rectum. She started the flow and makes me stand, turn, and place my knees on the edge of the tub. She then says: "take the nozzle in your hand, asshole, and present me with an erection." There is no choice. I slide the nozzle very slowly in and out until my senses tell me that is the exact spot where the nerve ganglia are and my dick stands proud. She then grabs my dick and jacks me to orgasm saying: "Lose your manhood, you pathetic male, make that sperm come out!"

I always felt submissive to when I was 17 and a 30-something nurse was treating me for chronic constipation. She would always have me lay down with naked from the waist down. She spent a lot of time palpating my colon and stomach. She never used glove until she would give me a rectal exam which lasted a full two minutes. She invariably would press against my prostate. She would give me at least 3--sometimes 5 enemas. She liked me on my back and would have be draw my legs up for the insertion of a colon tube. Afterward, she insisted on applying a special ointment to my anus.

I have a definite feeling of submission from the female who is giving me the enema. She is in control and decides when to start and stop the flow, when to make me take more while crapming or stop so the cramps will subside, how long I have to hold it and when I can release it. She is totally dominating the situation. If she moves the nozzle around she can even make me very hard and there is nothing I can do to hide it from her.

There's no other greater feeling and erotic sensation then to submit to an enema.Especially recieving. Even when I adminster myself an enema thers is nothing like it.But, I really wish I could find an e-mate that meets the same criteria as mine. :😃

I am happy to say that my "boy" loves being given an enema whether it is one he likes or not. I love to hear him moan with the cramps and with his belly full. He just loves his MissStress and his enemas to be had together. I just seem to make them that much better : ). But sometimes he gets them just to have the cleansing and fullness. The enemas are just a part of his submission to me.

Do you ever switch and allow him the same satisfaction?

Although I'm a dedicated giver now (whenever I can), I do remember fondly the times I got enemas as a kid, and the wonderful feelings that caused. When I first started getting them, I hated 'em, but that didn't last long. Soon I began appreciating the warm feeling as my mother filled me. A couple of times I even faked being sick in the hopes I'd be given an enema. Those days ended when I was about 11. Durning an enema, I sorta got a mini-hardon (which I didn't really know anything about at that point). My mother didn't say anything, but that was the last time I was given an enema.

I recall being given soap suds enemas while draped over my mother's lap from as early as I can remember. She used a red rubber bulb syringe with a black nozzle and would have the syringe in a sink full of hot soapy water that was in easy reach from where she was seated on the closed toilet seat. She would call me into the bathroom and take off all my clothes and then give me multiple injections of the hot soapy water. She must have done a fairly good job at my early enema training because I recall being summoned into the bathroom and going willingly and not putting up any type of fuss. None the less, I do recall being embarrased during the procedure, which for some unexplained reason heightened the excitement. As a matter of fact, being required to submit to an enema is one of my earliest childhood memories.

Nothing could make you more submissive than to be put on your back and your legs pulled back and spread. Since that leaves the anus wide open, it was my mom's favorite position to lube my hole and slide the black nozzle into me for the enemas.

😉A few years ago when i was 19 yrs old and just got my first apt i was sort of blocked up real bad and knew i could have taken the enema myself, but i got a funny felling and asked myself why not let a nurse do it just to see how it would fell so i looked in the phone book under visting nurses and struck pay dirt on the 4th call, Yes at that time some nurses were in the phone book under visting nurses a thing that is not there today.

Well any way she asked me some questions, i told her my problem and said i dont know how to do it, Well she said i can come over tonight at 7 pm and help you and that the fee would be 20 dollars and sure enough this girl came over, she was about 25 yrs old and i was so dam nervous and actully surprised that she even showed up.

The first thing she asked me was were is the bathroom so i showed her she then pulled out her own equiptment which was one of those big barium enema bags with a long green ribbed nozzle on it, She filled it to the brim and added 2 packets of castile enema soap and put on a pair of latex gloves, she then asked were can i give this to you and i said the living room couch, She got out a plastic sheet and layed it on the couch with 2 bath towels and hung that big thing on my coat rack, Then she said pull your shorts and undies down and lay on your left side.

I was expecting the nozzle to go in but nooooo She lubed up her finger and stuck it in me and kept reaming my butthole and i said what is that for and her reply was i just want to loosen up the impaction a bit, She reamed me for about 2 min and her glove was coverd with poo poo, She went back into the bathroom and came back out with a claen pair of latex gloves, she put ky on the nozzle spread my cheeks and put it in the whole lenth the thing looked about 6 inches long she then gave it to me the entire bag full i did say it hurts a bit and she just said breath deep i have to get it all in you.

I was also hard and dont know if she seen it as i was on my left side but i am sure she did know, She made me take that entire bag of soapy water and made me hold it for 5 min, then she pulled out the nozzle and said now go and i did and pooped my guts out on the john.

Well when it was all done i payed her with some small talk and found out she was married with 2 kids!!!!! Curses i thought as this would have been the perfect girl for me, But anyway that felling of domanation and hulmilation by her was the most enjoyable experince i ever had, A no nonsence nurse who seen her duty and did it.

She even let me keep the equiptment for future use.

I don't normally submit to my boy in that way. As I said it something he enjoys so I'll let him have mine too. But he would greatly enjoy the experience of his MissStress being with full belly and underneath.

I enjoy the feeling of being over a ladies knee and her giving me an enema. I guess after reading this thread it is a form of submission.

In one community I once lived in I connected with a colonic therapist. She was young and very attractive. Her techinique was gravity flow and massage. After filling me three times with tap water [on my left side, back and right side] she would give me this devious grin and say: "Now lets see how full I can get you!" She would have me lie on my back and massage the water up and around my colon. She insisted on giving me gallon and would not stop after that until I begged her. 😮 One time she actually got me to take five quarts. She would talk about my erection but never touched it on purpose. :'(She finally closed her business and I moved away.

The act of receiving an enema is always a submissive act when in the context of a D&S relationship. Giving is always a role of domination. Just my opinion

If enema is for sexual pleasure or punishment reasons. Act itself is a submission. A nice butt exposed front of you awaiting for you to penetrate. And you control when the person can expell. Oh! yeah! the whole thing is submission.

Control and Trust are two very important aspects of shared enemas....Being able to relax and enjoy the experience, without worry..Trust is so important....The CONTROL the giver has over the receiver..Being it total control of their bowels..Is such an intimate thing..It requires trust also to give yourself totally to someone that way .

I love being taken care of by a tender loving caring nurse. You have to be submissive to let that nurse give you an enema.

I hesitate whether it is a sbmission or not. The sense of submission goes through your head. If it is accepted there - it will be classified as submission, If you tend to feel erotical towards women given enemas and not men, then given by a man I will endure it while given by a woman - I will enjoy it. Submission? It is a game played by two or more (preferably willingly), while all have it in their minds. Otherways it is mechanical.

The best way I know to make my "boy" submit is to tie him to the four corners of our bed while I watch his belly bloat with an enema. I have done this to him on his back, this is the best viewing and playing position and I have done this to him on his belly. (This position also plays into a session I have done to him by making him masturbate while he retains the enema I gave him. This involves him getting the enema (no moving allowed ) and my spanking his butt to make him masturbate harder and better.

Well, this is not quite easy, what you describe Misstress.

On his back - difficult to give him an enema.

On his belly - difficult to masturbate him.

The best position for both "tasks" is knee-chest position.

You have access to everything and master the situation..

I think that the feeling of submision is so important for pleasure. I mean you have to get into a submissive position for access to your little hairy button and then some pressure has to be applied to open the tight anul muscle. A dominant male will be deciding how deeply he inserts the nozzle and what kind of nozzle he will use as well as how long he will expect you to hold it. Spanking may have occurred or be about to occur... Fussing and fretting won't work with a dominamt male - it will just lead to more time over the knee or filled to the point of explosion!!

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I think that the feeling of submision is so important for pleasure. . . . .

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Not at all.

Submission is only important for the pleasure if is is important TO YOU.

The pleasure of an enema is independent of any dominance or submission. Some people like the D/s and others do not, enjoying the enema solely as a shared activity with a loved or trusted one.

Er, I said "I think"because I was actually talking about how it IS for ME!! When we post on here we are always just talking about our own experiences. Der....

I love the thought of submitting my self to a partner, to allow that person control of my most intimate needs. Bent over, unable to see what's going on, just feeling hands on my butt and anus. Asking permition to evacuate, being embarrassed by the noise and smell coming from my backside.

Would love being force my men or women to bend down then given a large volume enema using a didlo nozzle. the fucked by their cocks or yhe women's strap-on didlos

Enemas are all about submission for us. Being told that it's time for your enema. That's it. No negotiation. No discussion. It's time. Having the cheeks spread and the anus thoroughly lubricated. And simply having no choice in how much, how soapy, or how long. Being told that cramps are part of the process that's just the enema doing its job. The submission is a very hot part of being enemaed.

The D/s fantasy, with a touch of masochism thrown in, is the kinky part for me. I love it when she tells what to do, makes me take a larger volume than comfortable, makes me endure the cramps, makes me hold it as long as she thinks necessary...

Yes.

I am by nature and reputation a Dominant person in real life and in play and exploration. I am known as a Master to many.

Those who know me know that I rarely do to anyone else anything I have not actually experienced - either as a form of exploration or to know what it feels like or because I like it. And I must admit that from early childhood, I have liked enemas.

I was raped (by RC priests when I was a pre-teen) and before that my mother used Dr. Kellogg's cure for what ails you liberally. Like many of y'all, ran away from those maternal enemas until I realized that there was a strange and wonderfull [pun intended] feeling to be had by going there.

Butt - because of the rapes, I have had life-long trust issues.

I suppose that, like the hero Parsifal, I am an innocent fool who learned compassion through adversity. Whatever the reason, people tend to trust me to help them become whole - to explore their dark side, to live in their bodies.

Unhappily, my trust issues keep me from finding guys who are OK with giving me enemas, so I end up taking matters into my own hands.

Once in a while I find someone who is into enemas, butt it doesn't seem to work out for them to administer them to me.

So, I keep on keeping on. And I train others in enema lore and in the wonderfull world of kink.

It is about the Power Exchange. Read Guy Baldwin's book: Ties that Bind, especially the second-last chapter - Fear Is the Enemy.

It's all good if it's Safe, Sane, and Consensual - or Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

MD

I went to a summer camp when I was 15 and had to report to the camp clinic when I arrived. Two nurses ran the clinic and told me to undress, except for my underpants, for a physical. After undressing I was told to lie on the exam table. After checking my heart and lungs they insisted on taking my temperature rectally. I was shy and very embarrassed and asked them to check my temperature orally but they insisted that I turn over. They turned me over and pulled my underwear down. One nurse held me still while the other inserted the thermometer in my rectum afterwhich she did a rectal exam. They told me that I needed an enema and a shot in my bottom. I had never had an enema and I was really afraid of needles so I told them I did'nt want a shot or an enema. Both nurse's voices became very firm and continued their exam. I got a shot with a huge hypodermic needle and the enema with a large plastic syringe. I never went back to the clinic again.