Spanking. Help! I have to choose my own implement!

Okay, a very good enemate has introduced me to the pleasures of spanking lightly, but I have been naughty here, and now I have to choose my implement for our next session. I need help! Any suggestions?

Obviously there are any number of implements to apply to the bottom of a naughty lady. But since you are just starting out I would recommend

A paddle ball paddle with the rubber band and ball removed. It is light but stingy.

A 15/18 inch wooden office ruler...available at most office supply stores. Also light and stingy.

Both of the above work well for OTK.

If its "Bend over!" I would recommend a beach paddle (They come in a set of two for playing some kind of ball game at the beach). They are about three times the size of a ping pong paddle. They look like they would certainly provide a naughty lady with a hot pink and warm bottom.

If you are into leather, make sure the belt is over an inch and a quarter wide and not too thick.

Also after a good bare bottom warming, I would recommend a nice tepid enema to "cool things off. A little bottom massage with some Aloe Vera lotion while the enema is being administered might also add to the tender "after care" to your well spanked bottom.

Let us know how things turned out.

Somehow I think you are going to have a very warming experience in more ways than one.. 😁

Sure, go ahead and grin about it, but that is not helping to save my ass, now is it? 😉

Hmmmmmm, now I didn't think the purpose of your question was in the mode of "save my ass...please". If your enemate is going to use an implement to spank your prim, pert, posterior, then to save it you might consider rubbing a lot of "Ora-gel" on the target! 😁 Otherwise I guess you will have to "Grin and bare (spelling correct in tis context) it!" 😉

The best instrument that I had was a Japanese made 50 cm ruler. It was flexible and you could really lay it on or be gentle with it. I bought it at a sewing center. Said it was for my wife. HEH HEH

Go to a marine/boating store and get a few sail battens. (Marine stores are a cornucopia of S&M toys at reasonable cost, even better than a food store, yes a food store!) They come in varying lengths, widths and thicknesses. They can be thin, light and stingy or heavy and stiff to beat the crap out of you, leaving you with heavy welts and black and blue marks. They aren't expensive either. With a little imagination and artisitc flare, you can make them into beautiful S&M toys. Cut them with a hack saw and use sandpaper to round and polish the cut edges.

HA! Last summer, I was in West Marine, one of the salesgirls (in her early thirties) tried to pick me up when I was buying pretty new red and blue braided 3/8" line. (In a marine store, it's called "line", not "rope".) She asked what I was going to be tying up. I told her, my husband, she said, no, really. I told her I wasn't kidding and she asked if she could join in!

Get away from that light spanking crap get a real paddling, it will do you good.

How about a large wooden spoon...

The rods from a horizontal blinds...

Those old paddles for paddle ball games...

19" wooden rulers...

slippers...

flip flops...

It's been nearly 2 weeks now and we haven't had a report of any sort from Lady Di? So Lady Di, do you have anything to report?

Gee, thanks a bunch for your concern for my ass! >😢 😄

The deadline for choosing has come and gone, and thankfully his choice on ebay has been sold out from under him. 😁

It will be a while before he can get me over his lap, as he has to fly 3,000 miles to be with me. 😁

When ever i get a spanking before my enema its with either a hair brush or woodend spoon, and always nude otk. Strict mommys know what all naughty boys need

On occassion I have been known to make paddles to warm bottoms, was there anything special he had in mind? 😁

Wow Lady Di he was being serious! Although that leather paddle might have been a bit long for effective otk use. I think he had in mind you being bent over the back of a chair or sofa. Anyway I think I would celebrate by taking a really good series of enemas with your favorite nozzle and recipe!

You can find a nice selection of spanking implements online at the London Tanner dot com.Some really nice paddles as well as authentic English leather spanking straps of all kinds.I have 3 paddles and 5 black leather straps of different kinds.Good quality workmanship and material.I enjoy them all.

Try getting a plastic paint stirrer, the holes give the sub quite a sensation like a mini truro terror

If he happened to be in a fraternity or has a friend maybe he could latch on to an old frat paddle, good and sturdy for a well warmed posterior, makes it nice and pink

Hi got a very nice rubber paddle here which i use to get to the bottom of things

Being spanked warms the bottom. When my lady has run a 2QT enema in my bottom then starts to warm my bottom and keep doing the spanking the enema cramps start it is all I can do with each hit the cramp at the same time I do leak a little.

Hi got a very nice rubber paddle here which i use to get to the bottom of things

Paddles are nice but hands are best. Soft at first then harder and harder. maybe then you can use a paddle.

The worst is the hair brush, it stings so much. That's what you get for being cheeky. 😉

I'm much more of a flogger kind of girl. However surely that man of yours Lady Di has been to sort you out. I'm sure you can provide him with plenty of distraction, if not tie him to the bed and have your way with him.

Hand then strap!

I prefer ping-pong paddles to those paddle-ball toys. A ping-pong (table tennis) paddle is thicker and sturdier and padded with rubber. Many (most?) of them have a textured surface which produces a wonderful sensation and coloration on the deserving bottom. Those paddle-ball toys are too thin and flimsy, IMO.

Although my most prefered implement is the open hand.

Floggers can be nice, too. As can crops, if you're careful.

I laid into a lady friend with her crop once. She was quite the pain slut. I never came close to her threshhold.

If i can't get the hand (my favorite) I prefer a wooden spoon or a ping pong paddle.

No natter what though, my all time favorite is a good ol' fashioned otk spanking, either naked or with my panties down and skirt hiked up with the givers leg thrown over mine to keep me still.

Laura, what about a nice thick leather paddle to warm the bottom...

😁 😁

Ah laura...a girl after my own heart. But what do you call a good spanking? A pink bottom, a hot pink bottom, a red bottom, or a crimson bottom?

Yeah............ping-pong paddles. They work great and are easy to procure!!

I think hand is the best. and maybe a ping pong paddle.

Hmmm, so many to chose from. Like a kid in a candy store. Personally, I like a warm hand myself, but the kitchen offers many wonderful tools as well. Wooden spoons, spatulas, etc...