Pleasure Exam

I've heard of women having problems having orgasms going to sex therapists/doctors and given erotic material and told to masturbate in the exam room but I was wondering if anyone had ever experienced this.

I often fantasize about my Gyno doctor asking me to masturbate so he can monitor how well my clitoris responds to stimulation. I also like the idea of doctors testing the amount of pain my labia can withstand during the exam as well.

Anyone share any of these fantasies? Any comments?

Hello enzee, and welcome.

I give my patients the choice of have a "sexual responses" exam as well as the clinical exam. The sexual responses exam involves going beyond the clinical and into sexual stimulation and response. It usually involves whether and how the patient reaches orgasm. It can involve the patient masterbating, or the doc stimulating various eroginous zones.

I would say that 80% of the play exams that I have conducted involved masturbating the patient to orgasm.

I cant imagine a doctor doing that. I never had that kind of experience. It is embarrassing but very arousing even to consider it.

I can see that happening during a play exam, but I think the majority of women would have a problem doing that in a real exam.

I've never done this, but here's something that might be of interst:

http://erotic-clinic.zity.biz/forum/index.php?topic=4815.0

If I went to a Play Doctor, I would like to have a pleasure exam. If I wanted a strict "real" exam, then I could go to my real MD.

So, I would want a realistic exam with a little "extra".

Heather, West Coast USA

I agree with you. Play is play, and a real MD would never take a chance even if encouraged by the patient. 😎 Dr.Gerry

I agree. Play is play, and a real is real.

I have undertaken pleasure exams in a play type role with my wife.

I have never heard of a exam like this being done...but I have also never been to a real sex therapist either.

Decades ago it was not unusual for a doctor to stimulate a woman to orgasm as a treatment for "hysteria".

Toward the end of the 18th century a doctor estimated that a quarter of all women suffered from hysteria. The diagnosis was exclusive for women suffering from nervousness, insomnia, fluid retention, weakness, faintness and a myriad of other symptoms. The cure was pelvic massage or manual stimulation of the genitals by the doctor until the patient experienced hysterical paroxysm.

Stimulating a woman to orgasm was time consuming and required skills that were difficult for physicians to master. By the late 1800's the vibrator was invented primarily to manage this difficulty and reduced the time required to achieve paroxysm from hours to minutes. Many gynecologists became rich as a result of being able to treat many more hysteria patients. Wikipedia has more information on this most interesting malady if you're interested. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria

Although I prefer my play exams to be ultra-realistic, the one area that crosses the line is that I eventually orgasm. These include both play exams with my husband (often separately later we will have actual sex) and exams with other play doctors.

I have thought about " sex therapy" play. There are as I understand it types of sexual therapy that include observed intercourse or even sex with surrogates (usually the later for males, I believe) Perhaps others can shed light on this area of medical care. I would guess there are some forms of that therapy where masturbation is prescribed.

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I've thought about this idea too. Don't know, guess I'm a little skeptical of the whole observed sex thing and all that, but I'm guessing that it happens. I can't even physically talk about sex (meaning outside of this site effectively) so I can't imagine talking to a stranger about it, or doing somethings in front of them. Really interesting thouugh, seems like it would be fun to play out.

I dont think that happens in reality in a real doctors office. Unfortunately 😉

Like Flyfisher suggested -

I've never done this, but here's something that might be of interst:

http://forum/index.php?topic=4815.0

i think you should review this older topic and subsequent posts

I did hear of doctors asking patients to locate their G spot in order to perform a G spot shot. This injection makes their G spot more sensitive and they have orgasms with more ease.

It's sound good, but i think is impossible in a real visit today, but i know that in particular psyco therapy can do this

I’ve read accounts (not eroticized) of procedures used by sex researchers in the seventies and eighties that involved a combination of medical examination and sexual stimulation, often to orgasm.

I believe this type of research still goes on but isn’t publicized.

I did write a story about it.

http://nifty.guiltygroups.com/nifty/lesbian/encounters/sex-therapy/

Jackie

I think California has a type of manual sex therapist. I was watching "Anal Massage" by the New School of Erotic Touch. One of the actor couples was in this line of work, and the presenter (Chester Mainard) was as well.

Observed masterbation is always part of my exam . Fits with my desire for humiliation.

But that only comes as "play exam" right bijane ?

In a real medical/clinical setting. I would keep physical contact to the absolute minimum.

In a pleasure setting, I would do everything possible to bring my patient to the state of orgasm.

Once i saw an episode from Oprah there was a woman who had problems reaching an orgasm.

she went to a sex therapist who gave her a vibrator covert with a glove.

she also got some sort of mask which showed erotic images.

the room looked like an exam room and she layed on a exam table as well.

unfortunately they diddent show the rest.

If the patient wants this then I am always happy to accommodate. It can easily be added onto a normal vaginal exam.

I agree with the majority on this one, for the most part "pleasure exams" belong in the realm of role play, though I know there is always the possibility of such instances in sexual therapy, depending on exactly where the level of professionalism lies. There can be a fine line between a truly professional sex therapy establishment and a fetish establishment which appears professional. The bottom line is, the individual would know the difference.

Hello everybody.

I am pretty surprised reading about possibility of such exams on "usual" gyno session, I was always thinking about it as part of sexual therapist job.

It's definitely one of my favourite fetishes, was interesting to observe how Japan AV producers started to explore it in massage series like ... hmmmm ... 5 years ago? And now it became an established branch if AV industry.