Getting my girlfiend to try

I have told my girlfriend about my diapers and she has accepted it even though she thinks that it is weird, but i have asked her to at least try wearing one just once to see how it feels, and if she doesnt like it i would never ask her about it again, does anyone have any idea on how to get her to just try?

Make a bet with her on something OR you can always do the whole if you do this for me i will do something you want me to do for you. then ofcourse either way discuss what you both want the other to do. Who knows she may come up with something you dont know if you will like and then you both could like what you have to do for the other.

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but i have asked her to at least try wearing one just once to see how it feels, and if she doesn't like it i would never ask her about it again

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I'd suggest you stop over-promising. If you are seriously DL, "never mentioning it again" is not a likely happy solution.

I basically agree with psykira about the "do domething for me and I'll do something for you" trade, but would add that you might want to start generally exploring communicating about and trying embellishments to straight sex, instead of fixating on DL play. "Walk before you run" sort of thing.

(You don't specify whether you two do or do not at this time, I'm just guessing it is more "do not" than "do".)

I think hoping that one experience in a diaper is going to convert someone who never even thought about this before seems overly ambitious. Having a relationship where alternative sex play is part of the scene is likely the foundation you need to build towards acceptance and enjoyment of DL fun.

With my x I just keep telling her how good a diaper felt dry and wet. Then one day out of the blue she said she wanted to try it, and then she was hooked. But everyone is different and there can be a million ways to get a g/f to try

I'm going to have to agree with what a few people have said. There are two basic things to do. First make sure the person is comfortable with the idea that your into wearing diapers. Second tell them if you will do this for me I will do something for you that you would like to try no matter how "weird or kinky"you think it is.

I have seen to many people say well you can force them into it by saying things like if you dont do this then its over..yada yada. Or even simply flaunting it in front of them when they are totaly uncomfortable with it.

That is a sure fire way to lose a great partner lets face it we all have desires that some people do not like or even view them as "sane" dont push it and take it slow let her get use to the idea first then go from there.

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You have to make some kind of deal with her. thats pretty much the best way to do it.

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Just tell here and go see from there.

Good luck 😄

There are many ways to get someone to try something new: you can make bets, dares, or even just plain say do it for me just try. Say it would make you happy for her to try it and u'll do something for her if she'll do it just once.

I got my g/f to wear once. She didn't seem to like it too much, so I haven't asked her again. She doesn't seem to mind me wearing once in a while though.

I would go step by step.

at first i would somehow remind her that you would love her to try a diaper in a very subtle way

e.g. you could leave one or two diapers on the bed so that she will see them. if she is curious she might try them

The only thing I can think to add to this rather comprehensive list of suggestions and help is move slowly and don't inundate her with it.

From personal experience I have discovered the quickest way to sour potentially new territory is by getting eager from the beginning which can lead right into excessive in the other persons eyes.

Mention it, discuss trade, be very, very patient and work at the other persons rate of comfort, be prepared for stop periods where you have to back off and most of all, don't pressure. If your partner is very precariously toeing the line for you anyway, pressure, or any semblance of, will drive them permanently away and leave a sour taste in their mouth.

Also, be prepared to find yourself in a position whereby she might accept your taking part in them, she might be supportive and even encourage you to do 'as you like', she may not wish to participate and ask that you do it on 'your time'. If this is the case you will have to ask yourself if that will meet your needs and move on if it doesn't, because it rarely evolves positively from there (it can become a vicious cycle of pressure, whining, demands, sulking and attempts at coercion if you aren't feeling fulfilled).

Yes true, otherwise it might be the end of the relationship. but do you want to stay with someone who won't respect you anyway?

Truth or dare! Solution to anything!

I'd suggest you stop over-promising. If you are seriously DL, "never mentioning it again" is not a likely happy solution.

This may be the best piece of advice you will ever receive. There is a lot of good stuff here. Don't pressure her, truth or dare, be ready to reward her if she goes through with it by doing something she likes, and be sure to compliment her and thank her. People like the you look awesome that way and thanks so much for humoring me with this response.