Do you, as a woman, look at porn on the net?

One by one i watch all types of porn bdsm, gay lesbian romance n all. even shemale too. If I didn't watch i will never get this information.

I learned more from reading/looking at (image) porn than from most serious books/articles on sexual behavior when I was young. With modern day porn it is of course often a question of what kind of stuff one watches. There is absolute junk and very well made serious material as well. And oddly, for me at least, watching amateur porn often seems to be the best aligned with reality. One can learn more than you'd think from that kind of stuff.

I learned more from reading/.

i also read online forums and all regarding this stuff but even reading and watching plays different role. But nice information always will get from books

i also read online forums and all regarding this stuff but even reading and watching plays different role. But nice information always will get from books

That is correct. You will learn nice and scientific and socially polite information from books.

But when it comes to the true practicalities of sex, I sure do wish when i was young that I'd had a bunch of amateur videos like you can now find to show me how to act, move, position, prepare, clean up, smile, laugh and simply get around to engaging in the business of actual physical sex. These would have been a very good compliment to book knowledge. They would have given me very good ideas on what kind of fun sex things to do that you just don't find in books. And I'm not talking about fetish stuff either, think of for instance how or how far to spread a partner's legs ...

It's like learning woodwork. You can buy umpteen 'How To ...' books on woodworking, but seeing it properly done helps much better.

What a question? I watch alot of porn as a woman. And what's wrong with it? Absolutely nothing lol. I love it 😃

What a question? I watch alot of porn as a woman. And what's wrong with it? Absolutely nothing lol. I love it 😃

I think it is a very relevant question. None of the ladies that I know have anything less to say about porn (of any kind) than total condemnation. Certainly when we are in a group. A chorus of disapproval is all you will hear. Even one on one, they have nothing good to say about it. I have never heard one of my female acquaintances ever admit to watching or looking.

Some of my male friends will admit to it.

That sounds like my wife's opinion and all her friends. I think they felt a guy was using it to replace them and that pissed them off. I think if I could watch it with her we could use it to improve our sex lives. She has such a negative opinion of it that would never happen.

I got sick of it because so much of it seemed fake or poorly acted. There were a few that were very erotic but very few.

I do but not that often, I have nothing against it but its just not that high on my list

Your going to get very biased results with a survery on a fetish website as 100% of women here will look at porn i am sure.

Not sure reflects the general population of the un-enlighted folk

Your going to get very biased results with a survery on a fetish website as 100% of women here will look at porn i am sure.

Not sure reflects the general population of the un-enlighted folk

Here on Zity there is the virtual guarantee of anonymity. That can't always be said of other kinds of surveys. And in any case as I've noticed so often, when in group, people will invariably default to the safest and most conformist position on such matters. Meaning in this case never admitting to watching porn and to declaring it an affront to feminism and women the world over.

But then again, it's fair enough as I too don't admit to my medfet activities when in a group either. One on one is a bit different, although here too you can count on gossip of one sort or another spreading around amongst your friends anyway.

None of the ladies that I know have anything less to say about porn (of any kind) than total condemnation. Certainly when we are in a group. A chorus of disapproval is all you will hear. Even one on one, they have nothing good to say about it. I have never heard one of my female acquaintances ever admit to watching or looking.

That is my experience with my vanilla female friends too. Porn just isn't an acceptable thing to view.

I enjoy good vanilla hetero and both male and female homosexual porn.

Good porn is that which has a decent plot, no stupid circumstances, good actors in good physical shape (fatties in porn are a turn-off) and no fake loud moaning. Well toned bodies are always a pleasure to watch.

I also really enjoy watching BDSM porn from sensual to severe, especially those involving various forms of torture, cutting and blood.

I love not only watching porn but also collecting rare and good quality porn. I enjoy all M/F and F/F spanking porn, lesbian BDSM and gyno fetish porn.

There’s a curious polarisation of female responses here, between those with a typically male type ‘Nothing wrong with it!’ answer and others here or elsewhere saying it’s unwatchable, gross, exploitative, false etc.

A common female response against porn that I’ve heard is that women like the feel of men’s genitals but not the look of them, which they find variously odd/silly/unaesthetic. Not many women are caught trying to peek at men undressed. Their sexual responses are often more gradual and not aroused by a script (if indeed there is any) where a plumber drops his trousers as fast as his spanners.

But ‘Life Imitates Art’ as they say and the internet has brought porn to a generation of women who previously might have seen little (it wasn’t always that available for a guy back then). Many women feel judged against the impossible looks and behaviours of porn stars and see it as giving men unhelpful expectations. ‘It’ll just give him ideas’ as one lady complained to me about her husband viewing it.

But I’m well aware that many other women will completely disagree. Are these the maybe younger, or at least more sexually confident ones? I’m sure there are plenty of exceptions, as have already posted here. As someone said, the ladies on a sex forum are probably not the vanilla majority. But as a man, I’d really be very cautious about how a woman might react to porn.

Yes I love watching woman being humiliated, imagining I am in their place

Yes I love watching woman being humiliated, imagining I am in their place

Just like in main-line movies, there are dozens and dozens of genres of porn and who knows how many productions, amateur or pro. As a genre, there is no such thing as all-encompassing porn. It can be vastly different, one vid from the other.

Therefore, women being humiliated is not a common characteristic of porn. Perhaps the only common characteristic that porn has, is that it is about sexual activity of just about any conceivable kind. Lesbian porn to begin with certainly does not humiliate women, amateur webcamming porn shows couples who are obviously very much attached to each other and who perform with humor and love. Vintage porn is usually cute and charming, often naive but endearing. Gyno porn is is mostly quite respectful of women and a celebration of the beauty of their bodies. And there is all kinds of gay porn where obviously no women are humiliated ... he he.

So just saying. The media loves these kind of blanket statements. Members here should be more knowledgeable of the great variety.

I watch porn on the net, perhaps 6 or 8 hours a month. My husband does the same. We then compare what each get turned on buy. Then we pick something we might want to imitate in our bed room. The hard part is getting him to narrow down his choices. Hubby like most men think every close up plumbing shot is their favorite.

My favorites are watching men's and women's faces at the moment of penetration and at the climax.

Dita

I have to add to this because it is funny when you watch the sheriff's face and they all wanted to laugh. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlcRuGFZR98

Definitely.

My favourite is rapey porn but most is so cheesy so I prefer to read that stuff.

For visuals it's usually humiliation, daddy girl stuff, masturbation and large insertions.

I read way more porn than I watch though.

Yes I watch pornhub and xnxx.

My favorites are large toy and extreme insertion anal play, Roxy Ray, siswet , anal acrobats and hotkinkyjo type of vids. Female performance only.

These I play while doing the same, or at least attempting the same kind of play. Not to reach orgasm, just playing along. Those who know me a little, know that I usually play for 3 hours or more.

To get in the mood, or while doing prep enemas, I usually turn to anal sex vids. My enemas prep takes 45 minutes to an hour.

To get myself to orgasm I usually watch blowjob's with facials, which is after I have satisfied my anal stretching pleasure.

Except for the obvious blowjob's vids, I pretty much only enjoy female performers.

Don't get me wrong, I love dick, but looking at most guys in porn vids don't turn me on.

It happens sometimes, but then I need to have a lot of time and be in that special mood. I watch amateurs in different scenarios

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I have often imagined having sex with my doctor. So I started watching some nice reality doctor porn videos on https://thepornclinic.com and I got so hooked that now in my intimate moments I can't stop watching them, sometimes I even subscribe to paid sites.

I like to wach Hentai and sometimes extreme stuff then try things out that peak my curiosity.

Not trying to be offensive here and I’m more amused by this than anything cause I love most of you, but I’m larfing at all the guys on here mansplaing why women like porn. 🤣🙄😂

Not trying to be offensive here and I’m more amused by this than anything cause I love most of you, but I’m larfing at all the guys on here mansplaing why women like porn. 🤣🙄😂

That was too funny!

Not trying to be offensive here and I’m more amused by this than anything cause I love most of you, but I’m larfing at all the guys on here mansplaing why women like porn. 🤣🙄😂

Sometimes getting a totally different perspective, a different view on things can be helpful in understanding things in general. It is often referred to as ‘thinking outside the box’ and in many situations is considered a valuable tool for gaining insights or coming up with less than obvious solutions.

Just as female-based insights should never be dismissed out of hand because of the gender of the person doing the thinking, the same applies to male-based insights.

Wow, I really love watching porn. 💕

Reading about it or watching it, looking at pictures. As far stories, they have to be fairly well written. Started reading at an early age with brothers Playboy etc. (as I posted here before). And what I want to read, authoritative, nonconsensual, (nothing violent, mean or cruel) depends on what I am in the mood for, reading or viewing.

Amateur porn is the best. Vintage can also be excellent. The dirtier the better.

The polished professional porn, glitzy, glamour, ‘ooh baby, ohh baby’ girl posing for the camera crap is awful, IMHO. sickening to watch. If I were a man and had a boner, it would just kill it. Instead of making me wet, it is like the Sahara Desert.

But seriously, BDSM, spanking ass or pussy. Breast “torture”. Again, depends on my mood. Sometimes I like to watch two men playing with a female in a BDSM scene with some sexual under or overtones. I imagine myself there being thoroughly molested.

Other times I watch the woman being humiliated, pussy spanking, fingering, anal and or vagina. Double penetration, two on one. Being made to deep throat one or both men. Her body being nothing but a tool for their (or his) pleasure, a vessel for cum. This is a fantasy for me.

Then the part I can NOT see myself in, but is hot as hell, is when someone, male or female, urinates on her. Could be her face (no thank you) or her bound and spread open legs on her slit. For some reason, that makes my lady parts tingle.

Hope this helps, scientifically of course.

I like to wach Hentai and sometimes extreme stuff then try things out that peak my curiosity.

@Bad_Princess Am I being impolite to ask what peaks your curiosity. You certainly have peaked mine…🌹❤️

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Things that peak my curiosity. The way a girl is tied, What she is tied to. Enema injection method and volume. Torture devices that look different. Most are able to be builtand fun to try out. Sometimes it is the positioning that is different for something I already do. I like trying it out. Most Hentai things are doable. If one has the daring to try.

I have always loved to watch porn, especially with a partner. I think it can start an important dialect, as to likes, dislikes and desires. Or just enhance the mood..

Yes