I told my partner about my medical fetish in the first weeks of our relationship. He was the first partner I've ever told about it.
Happily, he's very open-minded, and we've played around with enemas and a speculum, and the white latex gloves, which was kinky as hell! But, he's admitted that he doesn't reeeeally see the turn-on. And I think he'd be somewhat embarrassed, if I asked him to wear a lab coat and let me call him "doctor".
I'd like to talk to him about it, but as another poster said in this thread, I'm still afraid to talk about my fetish - it's been my 'dirty secret' for so long.
What I'm trying to do (while I drum up the courage to broach the subject again), is understand the feelings a white lab coat and a stethoscope bring out in me, and why.. If I can explain it to him, he might see how wonderfully kinky my fetish is, and start enjoying it as much as I do.
😁 But every time I sit down to think about why it excites me, I wind up getting totally distracted! *siiiigh* Damn. 😉