When out and about I wear Northshore supreme with double liner ,if you wear one type of diaper all the time people are change blind ,they are used to your shape.if you switch up diapers ,it's more noticeable then any bulk .
One good absorbent diaper is all you need ,i know wether it's bladder or bowel my diaper and plastic pants will control & contain whatever my body throws at it .
Also nothing beats confidence & knowing the limits of your diaper ,i have at times wore my standard double lined for 26 hours ( trips to the doctor are long distance 14 hour days ,without time or place to change ,yes there are bathrooms on the bus , they will not accomodate a wheelchair , so I taper off my bowel medication so I am sure there will be no huge blowouts on the road to need to clean up but can't, once I get home ,i can take my medication and within 2 hours my bowels empty .
And since I have a 500 pound metal ass ,no diaper can make my ass look any bigger ,due to my protective restraints you certainly can not tell I am diapered by what little of my crotch is visible ( although you'd be an idiot to not assume I use diapers or have a laser in my pants vaporizing it .
But I am serious I haven't always been in wheelchair ,but have been Inco 26+ years your confidence and attitude will carry a stay puff marshmallow of a diaper.