Did your diapers ever leak in public?

My worst experience with leaking in public was about 8-9 months ago (July 2017). I was in the middle of moving and had to get my uHaul rental extended. Now, this story is interesting because it's a double whammy.

I pulled into the uHaul parking lot and I accidentally scraped another guy's bumper with my giant 24' truck. He saw me scrape his bumper and called me out on it. As I got out of the truck, I noticed that I mega-leaked out of my diaper and onto the seat of the truck. Good thing they have vinyl seats or this would have ended up deep into the seat. My jeans (somewhat dark in color) were flat out soaked. No moons, just a whole bum with not a dry spot on it.

I stood in line with this guy who was adamant about filing insurance so he could get his bumper paid for. Diaper is leaking, bum is wet, stood there for like 30 minutes while the insurance thing was being taken care of.

After that was said and done, I got extended on my uHaul contract. Luckily they didn't inspect the inside of the uHaul (or the back of my pants). All in all, it wasn't too bad, but it was embarrassing nonetheless. I can't wait for my next misadventure, buahaha!

No matter how prepared you think you are leaks eill always happen, how you handle the inevitable leaks can make or break your social status .

Yes mine have leaked in public a couple of times. You just never know when its going to happen, just try to do the best you can.

Yes at the beginning when I started wearing diapers, my pants had the small, half-moon shaped wet marks on the front of my pants that indicate that my diaper had leaked. My wife saw him and told me in the middle of the supermarket you did not put my plastic pants, a lady who placed items in the counter is to turn abruptly to look at me, she made me a little smile, I was dead ashamed, I went out immediately to go to the car, when my wife came out of the supermarket I told her that she did not have to shout it on all the roofs I'm wearing a diaper, she tell me it's up to you to see and next time make sure you put on a plastic panty. You can be sure that now I still have my plastic pants on my disposable diaper in public!

You are not wearing and are not incon if you don't leak sometimes...it just is inevitable

I’ve have had a bunch of times. No way to prevent it. No matter how prepared you are.

Recently I do seem to be having more problems with leaks, thankfully they are usually only small ones just leaving me with "damp" patches on the trousers which have not been noticeable so far.

My stretch pants have stopped a lot of the leaks becoming serious and the PUL pants keep it from flooding out quickly as that would be very noticeable.

I will be exploring more absorbant nappies in the future if my trying a catheter does not works for me , although I will "have" to remain nappied anyway due to number 2 issues that seem to be increasing in frequency?

Yes several times I have had minor leaks. I am in a wheelchair. So it was in My seat. I don't think anybody besides My husband or caregivers noticed. But its just depressing. Most of the times it happened was before I had accepted the need to wear a full overnight brief when I was out. I have had a few messy leaks as well but thankfully it was in the privacy of My home.

Any of us who are incontinent and wearing 24/7 have leaked in all sorts of situations. When I was working full time I often participated in meetings most of which went too long.

One I remember took place in a restaurant where the table server constantly refreshed the beverages. I was concentrating on the discussion and failed to pay attention to my diaper. I have little to no feeling of when I wet. When I noticed the wooden seat getting wet, I excused myself and changed my diaper. I returned to the table with several paper towels and dried the seat. I received a few inquiring looks but decided not to explain my predicament. No one said anything and the meeting kept rolling. My episode was quickly forgotten.......except by me!

Life happens. It's too short to worry about things you cannot change.

Having someone who is in diapers 24/7 we have encountered this more than once.

Yes, when at a local marina with a female friend. We had walked from my home and I hadn't paid close enough attention to my liquid intake - a final coffee did it - and lotsa walking didn't help. Chalked it up to yet another learning experience. What will be will be 'n no big deal.

Diaper leaks are impossible to avoid, when wearing and using diapers 24/7.

I have had wet pants at the most inconvenient places, and although I don't aim for my Diaper to leak, sometimes I have just wet more than I thought, where my diaper is saturated, and then my bladder releases again, and pee end up running down my thighs, or if minor just makes me have a wet half moon

I've had leaks multiple times. It's a good reason for me to wear dark pants because I think it isn't really very noticeable in darker clothing. I mostly leak when I wear too long and I am driving. I usually wear a pull up and plastic pants. Diapers are less likely to leak, but the pull ups are easier for me to get on.

Yes many times sometimes i was lucky and they dried other times not so lucky and i was seen

Oh yeah. I don't really feel that bad about it any more.

One day last year I had been out for the day with one of my DL friends, on the way back to his house I wet my nappy, a thick cloth nappy with plastic pants over it. After a coffee I set off for home, needing another wee and also some fuel in the car. As I drove I wet my nappy again thinking it would hold a second wetting, after all I can wet my cloth nappy 2 or 3 times a night with out any leaks. I pulled into the petrol station and started to fill the tank, As I walked to the shop to pay I felt the dampness at the top of my leg around the back where my plastic pants sat. OPS hope it's not too much. When I got in home I had a quick look in a mirror OMG how wet! 2 half moons just below my bum on the back of my jeans.

I have no idea how many or if anyone saw and noticed my wet jeans, but no one said anything

A couple of times when I have been sitting for a long time as prostate removal damaged some nerves making it difficult to know if my bladder is leaking or not. Fortunately I wear black pants so it wasn't too noticeable. I always carry a bag containing spare pull ups but changing can be difficult in the confines of a standard toilet cubicle.

Never. I admit, I was never a heavy wetter, so, not likely.

Yup!

This was in Berlin a few years ago.

I went to the cinema with a good friend to see Logan (one of the X-men movies, and IMHO, one of the best / darkest they've ever made).

We decided to pad up. Before the showing, we sat down in the Sony Center for a few drinks first.

A few beers later, we went to see the film.

We all know what beer leads to, so I did a few big wettings during the film.

After we exited the cinema late at night and were on our way to the Potzdammer Platz underground station, I noticed a rather dark stain on the front of my jeans. I don't think anyone saw. It was high up, and I had my jacket pulled down over it as best as I could 😃

Yup!

Out to dinner with coworkers… I hadn't worn M4's in a long time so i wasnt aware of their capacity and pressed out leaks while sitting. It made getting up and leaving quite a bit awkward, but luckily the lighting was dim, and don't think anyone realized.

Here's an interesting twist to this: Have you ever gone out in public in your diapers and INTENTIONALLY wanted them to leak so it would be obvious that you had on wet diapers? A couple of times, years ago, when I was extremely daring, I put on fairly thick cloth diapers but no plastic pants, then pulled on a pair of fairly tight shorts--usually a pair of grey “sweatshirt fleece” ones--over the diapers. I'd then go to a big department store, all the way to the back, then let loose and soak my diapers then try to calmly walk back out of the store before the wetness made it through the diapers and got the shorts obviously wet. Generally, just as I was nearing the door, I'd see the front get dark and wet and figure the back was as well. By the time I got to my car they were usually completely soaked through (I'd brought along a plastic trash bag to sit on so as not to get the car seat wet). That was a rush, to say the least, and I'm sure that several people had to have noticed though I can't recall hearing any comments along the way. I used to call this activity “Diaper Roulette” because it was a game of chance--will I make it out without being noticed, or not?

Here's an interesting twist to this: Have you ever gone out in public in your diapers and INTENTIONALLY wanted them to leak so it would be…

Man that sounds like fun! And quite frankly something I would like to try, but never dare to 😅.

At first they did all the time. Now I have learned how to prevent leaks. It still happens though bo Matter how hard I try to prevent it.

I was in Walmart one day and I had wet my cloth diapers are few times and they were close to being maxed out. They were starting to leak past my plastic pants and I had the dark half moons on the back of my pants. I was walking down the isle and a woman behind me passed by she stopped and said I think you need to check yourself in the restroom, I think you are leaking , She smiled and winked and went on

I’ve had my diaper leak in public or at least a small wet patch somewhere on my shorts or jeans. It is always a risk especially if the diaper is well used. I remember once being at work and it leaked onto my chair fortunately the chair of was dark cloth and my jeans were dark.

Diaper leaks are inevitable if you were diapers often, no matter how careful you are when you put your diapers on. It just happens once in awhile, especially when you are out and moving around a lot. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants and my wife and I are careful when she pins my diapers on and pulls up my rubber pants, making sure the rubber pants completely cover my cloth diapers, but once in awhile when we are out shopping or just doing a lot together, she notices a smiley face on my bottom and lets me know. I do enjoy wetting in my diapers so much that I sometimes lose track of how much I have wet myself since my last change. Or I just have an unusually big potty. We always take a diaper bag with us when we go out in case she needs to change me. I kind of look forward to time when she changes me away from home. I feel so naughty knowing what I did or knowing someone might see me having my diapers changed. My wife thinks it a little sexy to change me, and wipe my privates hoping I might get a little aroused.

Diaper leaks are inevitable if you were diapers often, no matter how careful you are when you put your diapers on.

I have tried cloth diapers and have not had much success with them. I do all my changes myself and can't seem to get the right fit for the protection I need. I had many leaks wearing cloth diapers. I nothing but high quality disposable diapers with minimal leaks. Leaks are just so embarrassing especially in public.

For me, a leak most likely happens when I am sitting. If I drive a long time in a wet diaper I am likely to get some ‘press out’ a narrow wet spot on each side of the middle seam of my jeans. I try to keep track and change before it happens, but sometimes I wait too long. I am not aware of it unless I check, so I have to remember to check.

Yes my terry nappies have leaked on a couple of occasions. But as I wear dark coloured jeans no one seemed to notice

Yes they have leaked in public. It was my first vacation with my (now) wife in Berlin. I remember us riding a cab late at night, being a little drunk … having to pee. I peed my diaper and felt my pants getting wet. I didn’t react to it on the outside, but inside I panicked a little. Fortunatly the seat was leather and it didn’t stain the surface and my pants were absorbent enough to not leave a puddle/wet spot. As we got out of the car after paying the cabdrive, my SO saw a look on my face that she didn’t inderstand. I told her that I‘ve leaked. She laughed and then told me to get changed when we got back to our room.

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