Embarassment

Women more so then men are conserned about both noide and odor. After administering an enema allow her privacy right away. This should help

Just thought I'd add my two cents worth...

My girlfriend is extremely reticent about anything anal...she was given a lot of suppositories when she was little and anal contact brings back strange memories for her...however, she has a tendency to make "noises" in bed and she gets really embarrassed about it. With me she's fine as i've helped her to see it doesn't bother me at all, but soon she's going on a girly holiday with friends and would be mortified for them to hear anything.

The upshot is, we've decided to try giving her enemas to see if that helps...i'm obviously extremely happy about this! but she's extremely worried about the noises etc from it so i've agreed to go for a loooong walk after administering each enema so she can have the place to herself and feel more comfortable...i think it's important to make the receiver feel as in control as possible (unless they specifically don't want that)

Sorry for the slight ramble...enjoy your enemas all...

Doc

I still do not understand. My girlfriend came over she said she had not had a BM for 3-4 day . (She knew that I used the enema because the bag was on the bathroom door.) I asked what she wanted to do she said I need to have a BM today, I asked do you want me to give you an enema? Yes was her answer. With out going into the enema I gave her it was under 1Qt. Gave it very slow about 15+ to give it to her. She relieve herself came back in the bedroom lay down. The first thing was how embarass she was to be given an enema by a man. I still do not understand why . Then the next thing is do I need to take 3 enema. The whole thing just is very strange. If you asked for an enema & know what the enema is going to do ( Make you have a BM) Why be upset after what you asked did what an enema does to who ever it is given. Does anyone have to tell me why.