This is a good question, sadly I have avoided the topic for a little while, I decided to read it and now post.
For me, I would change a few parts of my circumstances, but not the ones or the way you would think. If i could type out this post and have it come true tomorrow this is what i would change.
I want a need for diapers anytime I fall asleep, either I wear a diaper when i go to sleep even for a mid afternoon nap on a day where i just feel drained, or i will wake up in wet clothes GUARANTEED, I would want to be able to find a close store, be it a pharmacy or a medical supply store that i could order ANY of the brands I know online through them and be able to pay cash, i would like to make it to where those i live with both knew about me being a DL, and were either supportive or at least were OK with it, as an extra, i would add that type of thing in for the fact I transgender so I would be able to live as female and no longer have to hide it, as well as being able to find a girl that was into this as well and that was a very good personality match, attractive too would always be a plus, and of course, removing any scent from my weewees and poopoos so if I did it no one would no even if they were right next to me(of course that is only if i don't leak or noisily mess) as well as those i reveal it to (which would be like family and friends) would be fully OK or supporting of it, and not even care if I am wetting or messing by choice not diapered.
And for those who like telling people "If you don't have a need to wear them don't want one it isn't as fun as you think" I don't care I WANT to be to where if I fall asleep for even a few minutes, that I will wet. So don't waste your time trying to tell me that although I seem to that in truth I probably want to try it, NO I WANT it permanently. If they came out with a pill, that you could get from a pharmacy for free no Rx required, and taking one before bed would cause you to wet the bed anytime you fall asleep for the next 20 hours, as well if you get the small bottle and take it all quickly, (15 pills in under 10 minutes) that you will permanently lose bladder control every time you fall asleep, I would get the big bottle and take 15 at once, I would have the rest just in case it didn't work the first time, or it wore off, no hesitation.