Would you change your circumstances if possible

We all have our reasons for wearing diapers. Mine is through choice. I was wondering how many of you would opt out of diapers if you had the choice?

If I were in a position of having to wear them say for a medical reason, I would certainly not want to have that reason but I would still wear diapers. I wear 24/7 by choice not for pleasure just for the convenience of wearing and using as opposed to using a toilet. so if I no longer 'had' to wear them, I imagine nothing (my attitude towards wearing them) would change in this respect. I would think however someone who actually needs them for a medical reason or who wears for pleasure only might have a very different outlook.

I would still wear diapers if I had a choice seeing as I don't have a choice it doesn't really matter anyway.

I went for many years wishing that I had not obeyed my Aunt and she followed through on the threat to diaper me. So now, after many years wanting to wear diapers, I've reached a point in my life where I wear them because i want to.

Actually I might. Although where I am in life (wife, kids, job, location etc) have probably all subconsciously been influenced by my diaper desires, and generally I am very happy, had my desire not been there and I had a "normal" or perhaps mainstream interest in girls I imagine my love life would have been far richer over the years.

If I were able to simply change my sexual attraction to the "normal" heterosexual attraction, and nothing else, I think I would have had many more partners, and been able to achieve much closer sexual union than I have actually achieved.

Our diaper desire is fairly selfish - if the partner has no interest then there is no real payoff for them so casual sex isn't really a starter. Even where there is a deep emotional attachment to ones partner, without a shared sexual interest sex becomes far more give and take than a shared pleasure.

Given that it is not mainstream, I believe I was far more circumspect approaching girls, and far less ready to share my thoughts and desires for fear of rejection - not of me as a person but me as a sexual being.

Even now, whilst I have a wife I love, she has no interest in diapers and so our love life is virtually non existent. As a sexual being, I live only in my fantasies. I am only grateful that whilst my interest is not mainstream, it is not actually illegal. Imagine how hard it would be if it were - we wouldn't even have a website like this. What would it have been like to be a homosexual fifty years ago?

I would definitely not want to be dependent on nappies . I wear them for fun , as and when I wish and that is how I want it to continue . The only circumstance I would change if I could, would be to have more opportunities to share them with someone special as nappy time shared is so much more fun 😃

As skippy said, I wear diapers by my choice and I enjoy them very much so I have never and do not plan on changing my choice of loving all the time I can get well diapered.

I dont have a choice, but i enjoy wearing it but i dont really wanna stop wearing if i got a chance to stop wearing diaper. 😄

Well, I for one can say that I have tried to stop wearing them because my wife does not agree with or understand my interest in diapers. However, I continue to return to wearing and will probably never stop again.

Oh yeah, stop. Then i could be like everybody else, the people i envy and loath, the dumbness and ignorance towards life would seem bliss to this. the only thing kinky about me then would be nibbling on GF ear. its a fucked up world - i know if i didn't have the fetish i'd be like everybody else and present their lives seem a doddle ... but this is also the masses, ignorance , stupidity , trade this slightly hightened sense of awareness for that..?

I will make it short ! no

There were many times in the past when I wondered why I couldn't be normal like other people. I had a lot of hangups. But now, I'm much more comfortable with myself. The only reason I now would want it to go away is if it starts to really interferes with my life again.

I am 60 years old and I have been an AB and a cloth diapered and plastic pantied one since I was three and several times I have felt guilty and tried to give up my babish ways only to feel greatly depressed and realized that I am an adult baby for life. So good luck to you

When I was younger I may, no scratch that I would have said yes, change me ( pun intended ) Now I am sure that I will always want to wear and use my diapers . Today my answer is - "No Way" don't change me( pun NOT intended ) I will always want to be changed. 😁

I will always want to be in cloth diapers and plasatic pants especially when I get so old that I will actually need them,then I could openly wear them without feeling guilty or ashamed 😮 😮 😮 😮

The only circumstances in which I want change, is when my diaper is wet.

Thumper you are that old so have at it already, you know you want to.

As things are right now it is my choice to enjoy diapers.

This is a good question, sadly I have avoided the topic for a little while, I decided to read it and now post.

For me, I would change a few parts of my circumstances, but not the ones or the way you would think. If i could type out this post and have it come true tomorrow this is what i would change.

I want a need for diapers anytime I fall asleep, either I wear a diaper when i go to sleep even for a mid afternoon nap on a day where i just feel drained, or i will wake up in wet clothes GUARANTEED, I would want to be able to find a close store, be it a pharmacy or a medical supply store that i could order ANY of the brands I know online through them and be able to pay cash, i would like to make it to where those i live with both knew about me being a DL, and were either supportive or at least were OK with it, as an extra, i would add that type of thing in for the fact I transgender so I would be able to live as female and no longer have to hide it, as well as being able to find a girl that was into this as well and that was a very good personality match, attractive too would always be a plus, and of course, removing any scent from my weewees and poopoos so if I did it no one would no even if they were right next to me(of course that is only if i don't leak or noisily mess) as well as those i reveal it to (which would be like family and friends) would be fully OK or supporting of it, and not even care if I am wetting or messing by choice not diapered.

And for those who like telling people "If you don't have a need to wear them don't want one it isn't as fun as you think" I don't care I WANT to be to where if I fall asleep for even a few minutes, that I will wet. So don't waste your time trying to tell me that although I seem to that in truth I probably want to try it, NO I WANT it permanently. If they came out with a pill, that you could get from a pharmacy for free no Rx required, and taking one before bed would cause you to wet the bed anytime you fall asleep for the next 20 hours, as well if you get the small bottle and take it all quickly, (15 pills in under 10 minutes) that you will permanently lose bladder control every time you fall asleep, I would get the big bottle and take 15 at once, I would have the rest just in case it didn't work the first time, or it wore off, no hesitation.

I am incontinent now, and have no choice about wearing. I was an AB long before my incontinence began, and wore as often as possible. If I wasn't incontinence, my answer would be yes, that I would stay in diapers forever. I am 57, and have been pretty much diapered since I was 5. Very long story.

When I die, the people close to me know that I am to be buried in my diapers and plastic pants.

Just a little trivia!! Most people are, that is buried in plastic pants and diapers. Just look on the mortician's supplies, suppliers pages.

I too have put it in my will and my sister-in-law,who is a nurse and who knows about my wanting to be a baby and is willing to put me in my best cloth diapers and plastic panties when I'm buried

I wouldn't change anything... unless I wet it.

I never want to give up wearing my diapers and plastic pants.i've been through the binge purge cycle many times but now I just wear without worrying and don't ever want to give up being an infantalist I enjoy it so much and it's who I am

Some days I wonder why I like to wear and use diapers. I wonder what is wrong with me. Then I wonder who cares. Then I wonder, since nobody cares, why I don't wear them all the time.

Then decide it is because I like them and there is nothing wrong in doing what I like to do. Pass the powder, please. 😮 😃

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I use corn starch. Talc is not as healthy. The girls probably now that already.

I would not quit diapers. I think needing them 24/7 with no control would be incredibly inconvenient. I like wet diapers and in the past I would poop my diaper. But in all of this, I control when it happens. Giving up control would be very hard.

No change for me, been in love with my cloth diapers for 55 years no reason to change

No way I am happy in my nappy now and plan to be this way for the rest of my life. A happy and contented bedwetter and more than comfortable with my increasing daytime incontinence.

I am not incontinent, but I use diapers for convenience in a job where bathroom breaks aren't easy to come by. Sometimes I worry about how much I spend on diapers but I have had enough discomfort and near-accidents that I know it's worth it.

I would not want to be dependent on diapers 24/7. There are plenty of people who are incontinent and with diaper fetishes who would much rather not be incontinent. But if I was incontinent and had no choice but to be diapered 24/7, I'd be accepting of the situation.

When I was younger I probably would have, but over the years I've now grown to accept that my diapers are part of who I am, and I love them accordingly.