Female Posters

I have noticed that the vast majority of the posters on this and other boards are men. Yet at least one board, http://www.voy.com/61704/ Women's Enema And Douche Forum, it thrives while banning men. The ladies are interested but how do we get them to post here? What can the we do to let them know that they are welcome?

Why don't I feel outnumbered? Could it be that I only read and respond to the topics that I think are of interest to me and in so doing, I interact with the other women on the site because they are reading the same threads I am?

There are a ton of real women on this site guys...trust me!

I have a feeling that many of the *women* who belong to that women only site are actually men. I've chatted with several and when they mention that site I ask how THEY know what's posted there and they come clean and admit that they pose as women on certain sites. Yet I have never chatted or met a woman who poses as a man. I wonder why that is?

I have one idea, I think that all of the real females already on this site should try to inform other possibly interested females to enter and check this site out. I heard word of mouth is the best advertising for results. Ladies please spread(no pun intended) the word. We need some equilibrium here and do not want a male dominated site to develope. Couples needed also(couples seem to be the real minority here).

I am definitely a real female and I agree that we need to find a way to get more females to post on this site.it is a great site and everyone treats each other with respect.

As a real female, and half of a real couple, I definitely feel that my husband and I are a minority on this site. There often seems to be strings of the same topics and comments going on, without a lot of diversity of experience or expertise being shared.

I originally joined the forum at my husband's urging, because he felt more women needed to be represented on the site.

I signed up, and ever since, have received strings of vulgar emails and propositions from male users. It seems that the more active I am in the forum, the more messages of this nature appear in my inbox.

If you guys want to see more women, you have to stop treating them like pieces of meat. If we wanted to be treated that way, we would go to other forums, like FetLife and Tribe to do our chatting.

Show respect. I am obviously married, and have stated it in many messages. Not to mention, that NaughtyDoc has also made it clear that we are a couple. Some people either don't actually read our information, or just don't care.

Women will share more and be more active if they don't feel like they are being pursued by every lecher in the forum.

Doc and I will continue to urge our female "enema" acquaintances to join this group, but it is up to the other users how those ladies get treated, and whether or not they stick around!

P.S. - Sorry for the lack of postings since last spring. Super busy all the time. But I do try to keep up, and NaughtyDoc gives me updates on what's going around! I will try to be more active, to keep my female voice in the discussions!

Thank you for posting your observations MIssNaughtyNurse. While there are quite a few of us civilized gents here, there are also a few uncivilized men who give the rest of us a bad name.

The irony is that their approaches rarely work with real women, but they may get some thrill from talking to a "cross-typist" - a male who trolls boards with a woman's name.

These selfish little wankers are actually driving away many women from taking a part in the discussions here, yet they don't realize it because in their world all males behave that way, and then they wonder why they can't get to know any women of quality.

I hope other women will join in this discussion. Hearing the same story from others might help work toward a cure for the problem.

I suspect that the males (I hesitate to call them "men"), who write notes the like which naughty nurse describes, know better and simply don't care. The email is not about the person they are writing to, but all about themselves and the opportunity to be anonymous in their expectorations via email. Few of those senders would ever publicly behave that way to a potential partner and those that do ... well.

I value the openness and courage of the women who post here because, frankly, you do expose yourselves to the these abusive people. I don't know if there is anyway to stop these assaulting emails. I know that as a man I have never had to be subjected to anything like it.

I don't post often, but I wanted to add this thank you to the women who brave all of this. Please know that you are highly valued by the rest of us.

Though I do enemas, its not my main kink. I signed on because the members are working on maintaining a respectful community.

Anyway, nuff sed outa me. Party on.

Many men appearing to be women, don't be misled

If you know of someone in particular, you have only to report it to the Webmaster, as it is against the rules.

I must agree with harry--we need to find a way to get rid of the "ick"--they give us real guys a bad name--I confess I do not have the answer--but if the ladies would stand up--I would certainly be suuportive

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Thank you for your comments.. I understand your feelings about respect. I am new to this site but not new to enemas... I also noticed that there are generally more men that post than women. Everyone wants and needs respect. Showing respect to women on this forum will encourage more women to post. Being a man I appreciate learning and understanding more about the enema experience from a woman's perspective.

I too am a newbie here, and to enemas in general, but I can tell you I listen and read all of the posts and respond to ones that I think are pertnient to what I am looking for. I agree, females can add the touch to a forum and insight that we men dont always think about..I personally like it here, yall seem very civil and informative!!

Thank you!

I as well am very much a lady and am on this site for it is what both myself and my husband enjoy immensely. We have a very open relationship as swingers. We have over 10 couples as well as several individual women with whom we entertain at our house for we do not have children except our dogs. We both enjoyed the beautiful world of water prior to meeting and after getting together has only broadened its adventures for us. I have been a bi-sexual woman since end of middle school as a tester of the water so to speak to once reaching high school it became a full on no question l like women!!!

And in regards to the posters who wish to send me messages of ill mannered writings. Well, its what both my husband and l deal with daily as part of our jobs.

I looked at Zity for years before I decided to finally make an account and post something. i have just always been scared of being discovered. This is not the type of place where a "good girl" has an account, or be interested in the things that I like. My guess is that many women who would be interested in Zity are probably just nervous about having an account here and being discovered. After a couple of beers one afternoon, I signed up while reading a thread. Someone I met here said sometimes things change for a woman after she turns 40, which I had never thought of but that's right about when I signed up.

Allie...I remember when I turned 40, I was concerned that life was passing me by. Someone said to me; "Cheer up, Life begins at 40"....they were right.

Now its your time. Enjoy the fact to you can really be you on here, and no one is shocked!

I do not want to be recognized by known people either. but unfortunately I get pb post sometimes from men who really are not nice. I would rather not post too much publicly here.

did not sign up for more access after a long log-in but unfortunately this does not work in this way either.

some men can unfortunately not do normally

As a lesbian i would obviously prefer to talk to other women about my interests and would certainly love to see more women posting here. having said that though i want to compliment the men ive met here as always being respectful. i will add also that i have not been hit on or been bombarded with inappropriate messages. thank you guys i appreciate your integrity.

I have been on this forum for a lot longer than I should have but then time flies when one is having fun. In my time here, I have only had trouble with 2 or 3 people and for some reason they left shortly.

In my time here, I have been asked where I live, other personal questions and several times would I be interested in meeting them. The answer is NO. I am married to a person who has a fairly high profile, we do a great deal of charity work, yes I have changed some details about us as has everybody, And the best thing is in the last 15 years, I settled down before I was to be found dead, changed my lifestyle, married a wonderful man and am now a proud doting granny.

The best thing one can do is to accept the person on this forum to whom they say they are, take some of the postings, however wierd, as a grain of salt, read and respond to what interests you. And when one starts taking it too serious, close down your account and move on. And someday I will do just that.

Following some bad online interactions a long while ago, my wife decided to completely opt out of registering and posting on fetish sites. I'm in charge of showing or summarizing what could be of interest to her.

Tillie: I perfectly understand. I really cannot afford to have my online persona connected to my real identity.

I've been in and around Zity Biz for a long time. I've had bouts with men or I assume they are men who desire to get way to close to home. I don't do e mail and I have no intention of meeting any person for a cup of coffee or breakfast at Tiffany's or McDonald's etc. I'm here to have some fun with like minded people and remain anonymous as to where I live and what my phone number is.

I've dealt with some really nasty people and their nasty messages. I salute our Webby for helping me when this type of problem arises. The administration here does a great job at keeping this very special web site a mighty fine place to be.

Over the years I've been alerted by my very special internet detective who keeps a close watch over the photos I share here that someone is pirating my images. Digimarc Photo Copyright Protection does a great job watching where I'm posted. I've never had any other web site other than Image Fap show my photos illegally. These Image Fap ass holes pirate my photos from the Zity Biz web site. I'd guess those people would have to have had a membership here? That pisses me off but the fault is not here. The fault is with the people! A thief is a thief and those type of people I can do without. So we track them down and they are removed from Image Fap.

I do enjoy showing my photos. Sorry for the silly addition of the Sun Glasses but it's the only way I can maintain my anonymity. Those images were never intended to be shown. They would have remained a secret between my husband and I. With Zity Biz and like minded people who think like I do I'm very happy to show those photos. They are as close to the real McCoy as one could think perhaps? I'm dolled up a bit to add a special fetish touch to what I believe is pretty close to what folks might like here. To everyone who sends me messages or adds a remark I'll say "I Love You all" To the others who still bother me for a get together the answer is no!

I'm a happily married lady. I'm the wife of a retired Orthopedic Surgeon from the University of Michigan. He reads a few things here but never shares in his thoughts. He has no problem with me being here as long as we stay silent as to who we are and where we live. He is very active in Alcoholics Anonymous and the rehabilitation of physicians that are not currently in practice due to substance abuse, patient abuse and emotional and mental problems. I'm a mother, grand mother and a loving wife! I do what I do here because I'm one of you and not ashamed one bit. This is the way I'm wired and I'm okay inside my heart, mind and body. And I'm A Real Lady and proud of it!

Many Blessings To All The Fine Ladies Here and all the Fellas also!

Great post, Gynedoll. Thanks for being here.

I think that some of the men are to aggressive when it comes to females. Example if you are in a chat and a female enters I ha e seen the men in the room say hey lets go private. I think the gals gets get tired of that. Just my two cents thanks.

I try to say "oh look there's a lady, better go polite and cut down the vulgarity". I try to succeed as well, but there are times.

Fortunately the ladies here are forgiving.