For those who are incontinent

When my bladder gets full I go uncontrollable. It just happens. That's why I wear 24/7. I'm used to it now. Diapers have become second nature to me.

Sometimes i drip other times I pee a lot.

I was totally incontinent after prostate surgery but dried up slowly after 6 months. I now have some stress incontinence when I exercise, ride my bike and other times.

I always have to make sure I am completely done peeing before zipping up or I will have wet pants, but I can go without pads or guards most of the time.

At times I like to wear diapers around the house. As soon as I start putting the diaper on I start leaking and I continue leaking while I am wearing the diaper.

It is like a conditional reflex. Has anyone else had this happen to them?

In my case few months ago I was diagnos having an overreactive blader so it is imprevisible and at least between 200 and 250 ml It is a complete void and it hapens many time in a day I wear cloth diaper for bed and disposable diaper on day time if I go out. Always with a plastic pant.

I leak spurts and dribbles all day and night. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants at home, ABU Space diapers when away from home. I stay every weekend in a motel, and when sleeping there I cover my disposable w/ regular cloth brief underwear and plastic pants. The briefs sop up any leaks when sleeping on my side, and the plastic pants keep the bed dry when small leaks happen. I've been incontinent for about 30 years, and my ABy side helped a lot to accept that I'd be diapered forever.

I've had major urinary surgeries which caused nerve damage, including a loss of some sensation for bowel movements. It's impossible to tell between gas and loose stools, creating some truly accidental messy diapers. But other times I just fill the seat of my diapers for the pure enjoyment of it! I've been enjoying diapers since I was about 6 or 7 years old.

I also wear onesies I've had custom made for me by a lady in Atlanta. They're very comfortable, and do help keep my diapers from sagging as badly when they're wet and messy.

Binkey

Like most here, I have the classic overactive bladder and urge incontinence. Everything is cool and the a sudden GOTTA PEE!!! If I'm close to the bathroom, a frantic dash, a hasty pants drop and a huge aaaaaahhhhh!!! will keep me dry. If I'm out or can't get to the bathroom quick, I can count on wetting. It's kinda like trying to hold the water back in a garden hose. I can hold it for a while but the pressure just keeps getting stronger and stronger till the pee just forces itself out no matter how hard I try to hold it back. Once that happens it's like losing an arm wrestling match. I let go and flood.

Funny thing though, if I can hold on and push past the urge attack, the urge just disappears. It's like I never had to go. Weird... The problem with that though is I know the next urge attack is right around the corner and going to be even stronger. This keeps happening every five to ten minutes till I either make it to the bathroom or wet my pants. The older I get the less I seem to want to fight the whole thing. So, diapers and rubber pants. All's good then. Well, maybe not quite. Lots of diapers to wash........lol

I have constant flow into my diaper. When I have worn a catheter, I have just aimed the end into the diaper. With a catheter one has no control whatsoever. Right now, I am wearing a wet and messy Northshore supreme brief. About to go to the drugstore with two pairs of plastic pants on top for no odor.

Almost all of my wetting in the morning I can feel and make it to the bathroom in time. Number twos are almost always done in my diaper without warning. I will be starting to wear mild protection during the day also. -- Maybe abena flex special which are made for bowel loss and can be worn in public easily.

I am very embarrased about my diapers. My parents only have the slightest clue although they have their suspicions about my diapers, because I go to the bathroom so often around them.

I wore diapers during grade and middle school. I even remember wearing them on cross country. I would urinate and deficate at any time. Then I gained control as an adult and now at 40, I had prostate surgery and am UI BI and impotent. I almost always awake now with a wet and pooed diaper. I'm wearing a wet and soiled Northshore Breathable breif now. I usually try to wear a brief for at least 4 hours. I also usually wear briefs to the Dr. He knows all about it and I even removed my brief once and started to urinate on the floor. I need to stay diapered. I also have an issue with peeing out the side of my brief. My penis is fairly long soft and flops around inside the brief. I would like some ideas about imobilizing my penis so it also aims down.

Have occasional strong urges with release when trying to get penis out sometimes before that. Incontinent pads prevent wetting my clothes, I wear them a good part of the time.

I literally can be both, from a dribble to outright release of urine.

I suffer from the gambit. Somedays I just dribble...other times I get the urge to go just, to explode half a second later.

I have urge incontinence so can go both ways so must stay diapered to keep accidents small.

I can't really tell. If I concentrate very hard I occasionally feel myself passing urine for several seconds but the amount that this happens is not enough for how wet my diapers are so I am most likely slowly leaking a lot too.

I have an almost constant dribble.

I have constant dribble accompanied with sudden urge with no ability to make it to the restroom in time.

For me it is either a strong sudden urge to go without being able to make it to the bathroom or I will just go without any feeling of it happening

I leak small amounts sometimes and full releases other times. If I am not in diapers and plastic pants my pants would be soaked. Sometimes my wife will send me to the store without them and I always come back with wet pants. Very Embarrassing.

My Incontinence is overflow. My bladder has a mind of its own. It will go when it thinks it's time. I often have no sensation of peeing. Most days I'm surprised to find my diaper full.

I dribble but sometimes a steady stream comes out.

My incontinence is only at night while I'm asleep so it is impossible for me to know all I know is that sometimes I will wake up in the morning and my diaper or underwear whichever I am wearing which ism depending on whether I had been having recent issues or not will be wet

I don't dribble I release all at once. Generally I have no idea I am doing it until I feel the warmth spreading in my diapers. With incontinence my bladder has become smaller so I void more frequently and obviously pass less urine.

Mostly a moderate dribble all day. So constantly leaking.

Depends on what I am doing. If I am up walking around, it's a steady stream but if I am sitting or lying down for a period of time, I will leak a little bit when I stand up, it gushes out like everything.

I can guarantee wet underwear by turning on the tap to do the washing, a trip to the seaside also guarantees a wet nappy.

If I am sitting and the wife runs the tap I will wet on hearing the running water whether or not I want to.

Walking, running or any position barring one can result in wet underwear.

The only time that sometimes I will not find my bladder doing its own thing is if I am sitting on a hard chair and my urethra is held shut by my position on the seat, stand up and off it goes.

OAB / urge incontinence, which results in both a steady flow or dribble, bladder spasms followed by a full release or emptying of my bladder at the most inappropriate times, which is why I wear diapers 24/7.

Hi

I am member from sweden and I´ve got my incontinence from a neurologic disability I have had since my childhood. It´s completely out of control everytime I am in public sitations or if I do any activities. I can´t control it at all and suddenly without a warning sign I wet myself. If it´s really bad I flood the diapers in a couple of minutes up to one hour.

Normally its like an urge or when I get in certain sitting or laying positions I'll just feel like I have to suddenly go sometimes, I do dribble after peeing so if I didn't wipe off well enough and I wernt wearing some type of pad I'd probably have at least damp to soaked underwear and wet pants. Bowels sometimes I'll just feel like leakage back there to suddenly needing to go to at worst case a spasm will have it slip out, again no pad back there then I risk some kind of stains.

For me, it's a slow, almost continual drip. At home, I can usually keep it under control for awhile by using "guards" (male pads worn inside my briefs), but once it begins, control is thereafter a lost cause. I used to carry an extra guard or two in my jacket pocket or van glove compartment when away from home, but more recently have simply been wearing diapers instead whenever I leave home to travel, shop, or just to walk about town. Nighttime is a different matter, since the urge to relieve my bladder is so frequent when I'm relaxed, so I always wear diapers at night.

Hi All, Thanks for candidly sharing your situation. I'm curious (not yet regularly inco, but a really small bladder) why you males choose diapers over an external cath; no I haven't tried one yet? I wear for fun at the moment, but usually wear for longer trips down the highway.