For those who are incontinent

I use to have a full void, or urge incontinence that I'm diagnosed with, also urinary retention, neurogenic bladder, I was encourage by my PCP, urologist, a special friend on here who is a Nurse to move in with my caretaker friend, and have the Foley catheter inserted, oh yes as my PCP told me 50% of her chronic Foley's need diapers also.

I have been dealing with urinary problems for some time now. In and out of the doctors office and the root of the problem has never been truly pinned down. Multiple urodynamic studies and cycstoscopies to no aval. I have delt with urge incontinence, urinary retention which ment urinary catheters (ugh!), nightime wetting, I even have a Medtronic bladder stimulator in my back that at times feels like someone's squeezing my balls so I have to keep it on low so it doesn't help so much. Now, I am dealing with some bowel incontinence. So officially I have a neurogenic bladder. I had epilepsy as a youth and many accidents and injuries not to mention concussions ( I just had surgery 3 weeks ago to repair my damaged shoulder) all thes accumulated injuries are what I believe has led to the situation I'm dealing with. While I am not a abdl I am dealing with the situation the best I can, I hope that one day I can find a woman who can handle the issues I deal with. I have a lot of love and caring to share and I don't want to be that kind of guy who lives off a woman, I could be a stay at home dad since it is easier to deal with the medical issues. I am not a not a crazy cat person but my felines can only can give back so much affection. Things tend to get quite depressing at times...

I sometimes leak then other times have a bad wetting have urge incontinence.

Slow continual unstoppable flow

No I do NOT leak or dribble. I experience an Overactive Bladder with Urge Incontinence as well as night time voiding. So when I void, I VOID.

I tend to dribble constantly and rarely leak as I become aware that my diaper is getting very wet so know I need to change. However I’ve had a really bad day today and have flooded several times. As soon as I’ve changed I’m really wet again - and during my last change I actually peed all over the floor before I could get my dry diaper on. ?

I am a constant slow leak with occasional complete diaper extinction events.

My bladder never truly empties unless I do it with a catheter ,so I cath every 4 hours to remove the stale urine that's building up in there,and since I am opening my clothes anď diaper i get changed into a new diaper at the same time ,i almost never use all my diapers full capacity so when my bladder is triggered or some thing takes priority I know my diaper can handle control whatever my body throws at it . I am overall more aggressively diapered 24/7 ,I would rather wear Noah's than need it and not have it .

I started out with "shy bladder" in my late teens - unable to pee if anyone was around me in a restroom. This progressed till I had to always be along in a stall. But it was like me mind was working against me, because I soon found that I couldn't come to a complete stop - instead the fear of leaking a few drops, cause me to dribble. I had to stuff my underwear with a soft paper towel. That was before all the pads for women began being widely sold - I switched to them, and I combined my interest in women's panties with wearing these pads, as a tight pair of women's nylon briefs holds a large pad perfectly. I've been doing that ever since when I out and know I have to use a restroom.

I was born with an undeveloped bladder and I continually slow leak into my nappy and as a result I have weaker bowel muscle from wearing all the time

It's a constant dribble. But if I sit or am still in one position too long and I get up, I may experience a gush

My wetting accidents that I had, already three years ago, were only the result of my obstinacy in not going to see my doctor,I had noticed that after I peed in the toilet and having my pants zipped, I washed my hands, immediately I felt the heat spreading a quantity of pee in my underwear,without the possibility of going to the toilet in time. I wet my under -clothes only by turning on the tap.Shortly after, I had a lot of bladder problems at night, when I fell asleep,I had no control. This is why my wife decided to make me wear cloth diapers for the bed and a disposable diaper when I go out.Always with plastic pants 24/7.Since I got used to it now,I like to wear my diapers at home and my wife has helped me a lot to accept that I am in my diapers so that it is conclusive. She also makes me wear onesies for big babies,they are very comfortable and help keep my diapers from sagging even when very wet.?

If I sit very very still, I can stay dry.

Lots of times, I don't even know I am peeing til I feel the warmth spreading.

In addition to my every night bed wetting, I now tend to dribble constantly throughout the day. Because of this, I now have to wear diapers pretty much 24/7.

Me too: "OAB / urge incontinence, which results in both a steady flow or dribble, bladder spasms followed by a full release or emptying of my bladder at the most inappropriate times, which is why I wear diapers 24/7"

See I posted here back in Nov 2019, only a few post down. Glad I'm still here. Thread is very slow growing. All the same as far as what I wrote back then.

I’m a dribbler, just kinda constantly throughout the day. I don’t really really feel I’ve gone until my diaper is wet/warm.

But like some of the others I do have heavier wetting kinda randomly too

I have been having increasing problems with urge incontinence. I've been working on Kegel Exercises and that seems to help, unless I'm in a spot that I can't get to the bathroom in the next 15 minutes. It becomes increasingly difficult to prevent leaks. Usually it is just small amounts, and then the bladder relaxes, but sooner or later, it's going to have to get rid of a significant amount. I've started wearing pads just in case.

My night time bedwetting restarted about 15 years ago. I was a bedwetter until I was nearly 18 so no surprise here. At first it was only occasionally but over time became a nightly occurrence. Like others, as I've gotten older I tend to leak into my diapers more than I am aware of. I've always enjoyed the feelings I have when I wet myself so I don't care so much for this new thing of trickling without being aware at first. I can still sense the warmth that surrounds my pp when my diapers are wet though and I do love that.

For the longest time it was classic OAB/urge inco. It was manageable from little to my mid 20s. Then it gradually got worse. Tests, drugs, internal/external caths, everything short of surgery. Cystoscopy showed stretch scars. At one point I had just over 700ml capacity. I settled on diapers as a management tool. I thought that I typically flooded, but a few weeks back I was having some 'skin air time' and just started to leak. No idea when that started because I'm normally diapered all the time.

So that's a new fun to add to the list!

For me it’s a combo of an OAB and urge. It gers worse when I HAD stress, so it plays up mostly all of a sudden. One call to the doc for meds and I am good again.

Spike