Rectal and prostate-exam - your feelings

What exactly do you feel during a rectal exam?

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable?

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly?

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam?

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam?

What do you feel during the prostate is touched?

Which position would you choose if you could and why:

bending over the table

knee-chest-position

laying on your left side

Thank you for this. The next time I examine my regular partner, I will clinically ask him these questions as he lies naked in front of me.

What exactly do you feel during a rectal exam?

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable?

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly?

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam?

First time I had it done was by a real medic who I met in the parc. He examined my prostate to check if it was ok but only in play but he used all the correct terminology

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam?

Yes ow that hurt

What do you feel during the prostate is touched?

OO thats nice

Which position would you choose if you could and why:

knee-chest-position

Like to be on my back looking up at him then I can see his pleasure while doing it

Bent over and finger enters with force and pushes P spot hard, not the gentle erotic way when playing for pleasure. That not even covers the treatment for P cancer with Rad seeds, no pleasure but under anesthesia for that, just sore afterwards

What exactly do you feel during a rectal exam? Initially I feel anxious and rather exposed as I am positioned for the exam. The first sensation is that of my buttocks being spread by his hand and then his finger pressing on my rosebud. His insertion is slow but steady and deep. It is in no way painful but can feel uncomfortable unless i relax.

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable? Insertion sets the tone!

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly? Slow.

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam? 18

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam? Just that it was normal.

What do you feel during the prostate is touched? Slightly

Which position would you choose if you could and why: Bending over. Just feels different. I can't fully explain it.

bending over the table

knee-chest-position

laying on your left side - Have done this too and it feels okay; not at penetrating for some weird reason.

After the genital exam is done I'm told to roll onto my left side. Then I feel my cheeks being spread apart and I know I am being looked at. Then I can usually see my doctor go to a cabinet and get a disposable packet of lube and watch as he lubes his finger. When he comes back he doesn't say anything. I feel my cheeks being spread again and his cold slimy finger touching my anus. Then still with nothing being said I feel his finger firmly entering me as he slowly and steadily pushes it into my rectum. I can feel his finger slide through my anus and my sphincter. I can feel the pressure in my rectum increase as his finger enters me deeper. Then I can feel his hand touching me between my cheeks on the outside and the pressure from his finger on the inside. Then I can feel him twisting his hand between my cheeks and his finger moving around on the inside of me. Sometimes I can hear him comment to himself, this year I heard him saying to himself, prostate is very minimally enlarged and good rectal tone. Then once again I could feel his hand moving around between my cheeks and the finger that he had inside of me moving around before I finally felt his finger sliding out of my anus as he was withdrawing his finger. Then I was told I could get dressed.

Thank you for this. The next time I examine my regular partner, I will clinically ask him these questions as he lies naked in front of me.

Yes, for sure, why not ?? - maybe a good start for the following play !!

Female PCP has never performed a dre on me, as much as I would like her to lol.

My male urologist does one at every annual visit. I am always bent over the table with my pants down. He spreads my cheeks, touches my anus with his lubed finger, then firmly pushes in as far as he can. Sometimes it is uncomfortable, and other times it is very pleasurable. I wish he would go in slower and stay in longer!

What exactly do you feel during a rectal exam? I usually had rectal exams lying on the table. When the doctor told me to bend my knees to my chest I felt anxious and even a little embarrassed. Next I felt her cold, lubricated finger pushing on my anus and sliding in.

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable? For me, no discomfort for both insertion and removal.

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly? She usually rests her finger against the anus and then inserts it slowly.

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam? I was 33 years old.

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam? Yes, I answered the doctor's questions. She asked me if it hurt when she pressed on the prostate.

What do you feel during the prostate is touched? At first I felt the finger touching my prostate in a circular motion, then an increasing pressure, and finally a sensation that is hard to describe, mixed between urge to pee and pleasure.

Which position would you choose if you could and why: I have never tried the positions you mentioned, but probably I would try the knee-chest-position.

While the doctor examines me, I lie on my left side and feel his finger touch my anus and push in quietly. the feeling when putting it in does not hurt, on the contrary! when he presses on the prostate sometimes I feel colorless mucus coming out of the penis and that feels good too. when the doctor takes his finger out, the thought usually comes that either it's over, because the examination only takes 30-60 seconds and everything is over. the first time I had my prostate examined I was 40 years old and now I'm 52 and I've had it examined about 7 different times and only once was it done by a male doctor who does it with stronger grips than female doctors

I've had rectal exams both on my left side and bending over the exam table. Each doctors r that has performed the exam has always started by stating cold gel then a slow insertion and a quicker removal. My first rental exam was at age 27, I started to receive them regularly at annual physicals a few years before I turned 40. When the examiners finger is on my prostate I feel pressure but never the feeling of pain or urge to urinate. With any doctor that has given me a rectal exam there haven't been any discussion during the exam itself. If I could try the exam in stirrups I would, my current physician has me bend over the exam table for the exam.

I've been having yearly prostate exams since I was 35. I'm 55 now. My doctor always examines my prostate with me laying on my left side. He is very gentle when he does the exam so I don't mind having it done actually. When he inserts his finger, there is some pressure but it is not uncomfortable. It usually causes me to get a very hard erection actually. He does a thorough exam of the prostate and rectum before slowly removing his finger. I often have trouble losing my erection after he is finished and ended up masturbating after I get back home

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable?

• Mildly

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly?

• Quick

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam?

• 18

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam?

• Probably grunted a bit

What do you feel during the prostate is touched?

• Felt like I had to ejaculate

Which position would you choose if you could and why:

bending over table ☑️

knee-chest-position

laying on your left side

What exactly do you feel during a rectal exam?

That's hard to give a simple answer to. I've had rectal exams at ages 12, 16, 25, 47, and 48. However it "felt" the first time was shot through with anxiety and humiliation about what was happening. At 16, I remember suddenly feeling like I was going to have a BM. More recently, I don't think as much about it.

Is inserting or removing of the finger more uncomfortable?

The insertion. Even now, when I don't view it as that big a deal, I still tense up when I'm bent over with my bare bottom showing, feeling the light breeze of the AC against my exposed anus, waiting for the moment the doctor's thoroughly lubricated gloved finger penetrates me.

Does the doctor insert the finger quickly or slowly?

Always very quickly, it seems. Sometimes too much so.

How old were you when you had your first rectal exam?

12

Have you ever said anything during the rectal exam?

I recall when I was 12 the pediatrician asking me, as he inserted his finger deeper and deeper into my rectum, whether it hurt (he was checking for appendicitis). I think I answered something to the effect of, "not that much, but it's uncomfortable," but the truth is I was in a complete state of shock.

What do you feel during the prostate is touched?

To date, nothing.

Which position would you choose if you could and why:

Hmm...my first three were in Sims and my most recent were bending over the table. Wouldn't mind trying out knee-chest, though I'm sure it's the most embarrassing of the three.

(1) bending over the table

(2) knee-chest-position

(3) laying on your left side