Thrills from Real Life Exams (not play): What's in it for you, particularly men.

I read here fond memory accounts of men having cross gender exams. What's the source of gratitude? Voyeurism exists in women, but it's far less of a sexual force than men's voyeurism. Health benefits aside, where's the MedFet gratification (for either of you) from being examined by a highly desensitized professional who's mostly interested in making a buck off of you?

I believe it's exhibitionist behavior. I am male and prefer female doctors. Especially my dermatologist, who I love to stand nude for her examination.

I think for myself it's the power dynamics. And exhibitionism. I get the same feelings of excitement and phycological arousal whether I am being seen by a female doctor or a male doctor. I received a physical exam years ago where the doctor was a male doctor. He had a very dominant and authoritative personality. This is the only exam I have received where the arousal I was feeling started to become physical arousal. I think it was do to the doctors personality he didn't ask, he told. The power dynamics, he was being very thorough and he was also very much in control of the situation.

I think for myself it's the power dynamics. And exhibitionism. I get the same feelings of excitement and phycological arousal whether I am being seen by a female doctor or a male doctor..

I have very similar proclivities. My childhood experiences being exposed & terrorized on the exam table, sexually warped me a bit to begin with. Later, dry dating spells, not always getting to date attractive women, & out of anger, acting out & in self-abuse, turned to humiliation fantasies. . For me MedFet, CFNM or even CMNM stripsearch fantasies became the equivalent of "prison sex".

That said, an exhibitionist's RL exams with women whose voyeuristic levels are an uncertainty? Isn't that kinda one sided in terms of fetish (inter)activity?

I believe it's exhibitionist behavior. I am male and prefer female doctors. Especially my dermatologist, who I love to stand nude for her examination.

Me too, my PCPs are always women (just in case)though I still eschew cancer screening & ALL other intimate exams with them. However, at a RL exam, being an exhibitionist yourself, how do you feel that your lady doc probably isn't too voyeuristic herself, & is just using you to pay her bills? You know the old cliche, "she really isn't too into you that much" .

* BTW I turned down 3 opportunities for skin cancer screening this year with my female dermatologist. Why? I won't fight cancer, & my word & medical patient's credibility trumps an opportunity to show off. Though it's damn tempting)