How many of you are willing to admit to being anally erotic?

I sure am.

Very much so. And no problem admitting it in present company. But yes, there is still a stigma, especially for men, when it comes to discussing such things among friends. I have no doubt my friends would raise an eyebrow and joke about homosexual tendencies if I let slip that I own numerous prostate massage toys, an anal e-stim probe, rectal thermometers, etc.

Back when we were dating/newlyweds, my wife was open to massaging my prostate with her fingers or the occasional carrot or other makeshift toy. But those days are long in the past. Sadly, these days she thinks anything involving the anus or rectum is "gross" now.

So I get my anal pleasure through self-stimulation, appointments with play docs and the all-too-quick annual DRE from my PCP.

When I first joined zity and was lurking around, I couldn't admit it either in a forum or even an private message. Or sometimes not even to myself, such was my shame.

A few years later I'm more comfortable with it, though it still causes me "butterflies" to discuss... but usually in a very wonderful way. I'm more open about it one on one with certain members.

When I first joined zity and was lurking around, I couldn't admit it either in a forum or even an private message. Or sometimes not even to myself, such was my shame.

A few years later I'm more comfortable with it, though it still causes me "butterflies" to discuss... but usually in a very wonderful way. I'm more open about it one on one with certain members.

@GraceT You just spilled the beans! 😀😀😀

Why not ?? - it is not such a big thing, and i would think, that are many more people, who are in the same opinion !!

Absolutely

I think about ass whether mine in real life or others in fantasy a huge amount of the time. And have taken great pleasure in anal play as my main stimulation before masturbation whenever I could since I was a teenager- though much more now as I own my own home.

I am definitely anally erotic and willing to admit it, but I must not be totally comfortable with it. My wife certainly knows that I am anally erotic and I don't sense that she has any problem with it. Most of our sex play these days involves her masturbating me to orgasm. Sometimes, as is occasionally the case, if I am having a hard time "getting there," she lubricates her finger and pushes it up my ass. When she does that, I can't hold back, I have a tremendous urge/need to ejaculate and I cum hard and quite quickly. It's wonderful! However, afterwards, I have some vague uncomfortable feeling. It seems more like embarrassment than guilt, I cannot describe it any better than that. That said, I am right now looking forward to the next time she stimulates me anally.

Absolutely.... I LOVE anal play! Whether its my GF massaging my G-spot... or heading to the toy drawer while playing... SHE knows my kink! While she inserts the toy... and sucks me off... I reach over and grab some lube and slowly play with her ass! She adjusts so I have access! She knew of my "KINK" when we got together.... I have fucked her in the ass maybe 6 times over 13 years... only came in her twice! I'd LOVE to push it...BUT won't! We are perfect soulmates in every way! I SO wish for more! Here's a link to a scene.... this is the toy we use all the time! https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=65c683f97f34d

Without question. One look at my enema equipment or sex toys says it all. Only regret is not having a partner to enjoy my kinks. MRay

Yes 100% I’ve been anally erotic when I started masterbating at the age of 12 years old !! I haven’t regretted it at all !!

I'm a gay total bottom guy, my anus is my primary sex organ. i cannot be sexually fulfilled without anal eros. For me it's as much about the psychological/emotional connection as it is the physical. i don't even perceive myself as having a 'cock,' though i have a penis and it can be used sexually, it's not like my anus, my penis is more like a large clitoris to me, sort of an accessory for the anus to enhance penetration and the need for it.

All my life

I admit to lifelong anal eroticism - ever since mom's enemas and all the play my sister and I enjoyed. Until I got married, she was the only one who knew.

I am. Even at age 7 or 8 I had dreams of things going into my bottom and not having a clue as to what that meant. Now I know, of course, and wish I could act on it more frequently.

I'm a gay total bottom guy, my anus is my primary sex organ. i cannot be sexually fulfilled without anal eros. For me it's as much about the psychological/emotional connection as it is the physical.

@tallslenderguy That’s a good description for a lot of anally erotic people no matter their orientation. Maybe not the primary sex organ for everyone, but a major piece of our sexual make up. Good Sex is all about marrying the physical and psychological aspects together. Great sex includes the emotional connection with your partner(s). Anal is another level up for us. We consider the genitals and anus as a connected unit of our sex organ.

That's how mine was mentioned and called when I was parading around dressed in girdle, bra, stockings etc...

Gay culture borrows a lot of terms from default hetero 'normative' culture. As Rigel points out, my description fits for "a lot of anally erotic people no matter their orientation."

i've not been independently inclined to wear "girdle, bra, stockings etc.," but have worn them when a Man saw me that way. It was a revelation to me, that some feelings/desires ___________?, in me are evoked, but not created by, another person.

i see a lot of people who are anally erotic in a way where they can evoke and stimulate, even satisfy that part of their self, alone. As far back as i can remember my anal erotic self (age 7), it has been relationally dependent (for lack of a better word). The descriptor "clit" or "clitoris" as a reference to my penis, and "pussy" as a reference to my anus, were not terms i applied to myself. For whatever reason/s, when another Guy sees or wants them that way, He suddenly has a power with me that goes to another level. idk why, but i am grateful for the power of eros to attract and bond.

Interesting, kind of a which came first argument - for me it was wearing the many girdles, panties, stockings from my collections... for some reason parading in such garments seemed to focus attention upon my butt, and that led to anal erotica...

Different paths for different people…..all leading to the same delicious result! 😀

Yes, absolutely. Ever since my first memory of my RN Mom doing a rectal temp with our cool smooth glass thermometer. As soon as I felt it I started wondering if a wider, thicker insertion or nozzle or plug would feel even better, which obviously it did. My first recalled enema from her was even better, and I started giving myself enemas at age 15 with mom’s douche/enema bag and wider “bat” nozzle. The very first time I was able to look at my girlfriend’s whole anatomy including her butthole during my first PIV in college, my first thought was I REALLY wanted to put my fingers into her there and have her reciprocate. Two of my ~6 nearly lifelong kinks are 1) anal toys and plugs and nozzles and inflatables and 2) enemas. So I’ve been anal erotic about as long as I could be. Admit it, you ask? Hell, I can’t wait for my next plug or nozzle or enema and looking forward to telling my next partner about it. Very enjoyable thread, thanks.

Eric🍑💦

Um yeah. We used to teach classes on enemas and anal play, and a famous mistress you all post pics of buggered me with her digits in front of a packed dungeon classroom. It’s no secret I love to give and receive anal pleasure and I’m none too shy about fessing up to it.

I wish when I was young when I was told "it's dirty down there" why didn't they follow with "Wash it!" ? Maybe my mental block about anal play would have been healthier. It was always related to gay activities by peers, so again more brainwashing for me. I guess It was a long time before I bought into "If it feels good, do it!" thinking. Couple that with "Consenting adults and Not harming anyone" life would have been more fun. I regret not admitting and fulfilling my anal enjoyment.

I was also told it was dirty down there. I guess this limited my play to solo play with pencil erasers and fingers. I was scared to mention it to boyfriends because they might think that I was weird person.

I was born anal erotic. I never had enemas, suppositories or rectal temperature that I can remember growing up.

Have been as far back as I remember.

I am

Add me to that list!

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I will gladly admit to it

Since I was a kid (and that's a LONG time ago). 😜 ❤️

I was a sophomore in college, had the cutest boyfriend, when one night he asked me if he could stick his finger up my butt. Be gentle, he greased up , put his finger in and about 30 seconds I thought OMG, this is great. About a week later I asked him to stick his dick up my butt, be gentle and do what I say. He was and in no time we were into anal intercourse.

He is long gone but what he started continues today 34 years later, as for him I hope his wife likes anal because I sure know he enjoyed doing me.

Yup, since maybe 13

Yes I am and becoming more so each day.