Anal sex orgasm with wife - is shallow entry better?

Quick question: my wife is warming up more to playing back there on her, and last night was a new one for me. She had an orgasm with just the tip slightly past her entrance… no deep thrusting. She had an orgasm from vaginal sex earlier, but have never experienced this. It was amazing! I know each woman is different, however, does shallow and/or leaving it there work better at achieving anal orgasms or thrusting?

Appreciate any tips!

Well the anal scpincter is about 2" long. Get some swirling action going with a finger and the length of that muscle can definitely become stimulated.

@ssgrill77 My wife enjoys anal sex which makes me feel lucky. Neither of us would opt for it often, but she'd actually like it more often than I want it. Although she definitely likes it, she can never orgasm from anal so I think its you that needs to be providing tips!

Be thankful if your wife or girlfriend enjoys anything anal. There’s nothing wrong with them if they don’t, but if can make for a boring and predictable sex life. I’ve seen some women who find it to be disgusting and perverted. One woman cited bible verses that condemn it, and told me that only sinners and gay men, would put things in a woman’s ass. Personally, I wouldn’t waste my time with an incompatible relationship.

The anus has two sphincter muscle groups. The inner one is stronger, depending on the individual the sensations may vary between them but for my wife and myself we feel the touching more on the outer one than the inner one, but you may feel a catheter more as it is inserted or withdrawn as it slides past the inner ring because that is where the effort to hold the contents of the rectum is most effective. When something leaks past the inner ring you will not retain it. My wife gets the most pleasure from the outer ring being penetrated.

Had a lover some years back who loved anal - the deeper the better. On the odd occasion when I felt I was close to ejaculating from whatever kind of fun we were having I would just push the head of my penis into her anus - maybe an inch a half, two at the very most while I spurted inside her. This drove her mad with frustration & she would be trying to push back onto me to force me full depth into her rectum. It didn't do her any good, I just gripped her hips & held her still until my orgasm was over. She would shout & yell, telling me what an inconsiderate selfish bastard I was! Such frustrations on her part usually resulted in me getting at least two punishment enemas & a good anal fucking with her biggest strapon!

...does shallow and/or leaving it there work better at achieving anal orgasms or thrusting?

It may vary from time to time. What sexual mood she is in. How horny she is. How attentive you, as her lover/partner, have been recently. If she is like me a number of things have to be clicked or lined up to get to an orgasm (I am old and have a lot on my shoulders right now.)

Go slow, keep communication open and flowing, and enjoy your experiences together as a couple @ssgrill77 .

@MissStress makes most of the points below. For me at least, shallow penetration is less ‘painful’ per se than deep so yes, I’m more likely to cum from shallow penetration than deep thrusting

@MissStress makes most of the points below. For me at least, shallow penetration is less ‘painful’ per se than deep so yes, I’m more likely to cum from shallow penetration than deep thrusting

@Nurse_Phillips And maybe a couple fingers in your giblets? 😜😉

@mike45 he better at least be flicking the bean

@ssgrill77 She had an orgasm with just the tip slightly past her entrance… no deep thrusting.

Hope things continue for you, please let us know...

@Nurse_Phillips shallow penetration is less ‘painful’ per se than deep so yes, I’m more likely to cum from shallow penetration than deep thrusting

Yes, and might be good to keep things at this level for a time before trying for more...

Thank you @MissTress and @Nurse_Phillips !

I was rubbing her back as she was arching and checking in with her… definitely helped. As far as the bean flicking…. She had her womanizer sucking on her clit, so check that box!… so to speak