How do you tell your sub he/ she is in for a spanking?If you are a sub, do you try fighting back or accept?

I want to hear your opinions on this one. Personally, sometimes I just say “I’m getting the belt” and heading to the wardrobe to get it if we are home. My sub immediately starts trying to take the belt from my hands and beg me not to proceed with her punishment. However, some other times if I’m tired I tell her that she will get her spanking tomorrow morning. After breakfast, I would just say, “go lay on your tummy and wait for me”. She doesn’t protest about this one, because she had enough time to accept that it will happen.

My wife always leaves the paddle on the breakfast bar in the morning to signify a spanking is due at some in the day.

Upon seeing the paddle I have to prepare myself by stripping off and remaining naked until she is ready.

This made me giggle “ if your a sub, do you try fighting back, or accept”. I made the mistake of having a little protest about an owed punishment, with my first Dom. Oh boy, I think that was the fastest most affective lesson I have ever learn’t in my life. Years later, I realised that I was topping from the bottom, or at least trying too.

As a sub I would not dream of protesting if my Dom thought I needed or deserved a spanking

@Secret_sub I couldn’t agree with you more. In fact no reason is ever required for a spanking. My protest was I hadn’t earned a punishment, the Dom had made a mistake. My delivery of the protest however was not my best subby moment.

The only time that i protested by saying “ But I have been a good boy” my wife responded “Yes you have BUT I am still going to spank you because I can and I want to!”

All of my defense was instantly Gone and I gladly accepted my spanking !!

When I am told Get your bath brush, you need a spanking, you have forgotten who is in charge, What happens to bad little boys who talk back , Have you forgotten that YOU are to always be submissive to me? I usually must answer (very meekly )Yes MISTRESS please keep me spanked and submissive😃!!