It doesn't bother me at all. I've had so many doctors, nurses, PAs, LVNs, CNAs, and other medical folks of both genders looking at and performing acts and procedures on my body that it makes absolutely no difference. Although, I guess I'd really rather have a female just on the chance that I might get a bit of enjoyment out of it.
There was one time in the hospital that I'd been on morphine and Dilaudid for about a week. Now we know what opiates do to the digestive tract. I needed to go -- real bad. Couldn't make it happen. Three female nurses standing around me on the bedside commode, encouraging me, and it wasn't happening. One of the nurses says, "I guess we'll have to do manual disimpaction. That's where I reach in and break it up." My brain goes, "Hot damn! I'm gonna get fisted and BCBS is paying for it." My mouth said the politically correct thing, "Do what you gotta do."
And she did. Very quick little pecks. Fast in and out. I was thinking, "Darlin', if you'd slow down a bit I might just have time to enjoy this." But I kept my big, yappy muzzle shut and just enjoyed the relief when the Dilaudid basketball was broken up and the rest of the week's hospital food was gone from my body.
So, no. It doesn't matter to me. I seriouly doubt if anything they could do in a hospital would embarrass me anymore. I do, BTW, have a female urologist.