Achieved my Stretching Goal of 3.5" Diameter.

3.5" diameter is 11" in circumference and quite a bit for guy who's just 5'6" and 120 lb. But it happened, and I'm happy to have done it.

'4 inches in '24' has a nice ring to it. But I'm not sure I want to try. The toys that size are so expensive.

That’s intense. How long did it take to achieve this? How often did you stretch? There must be some permanent slack created by this. How long did you hold it open at each session?

The docisin,

It took me a year to go from 2" dia to 3.5". No slack (for me) is created by stretching. What does happen (again, for me) is that it beomes easier and easier to insert larger and larger toys without much warmup. I think that comes from knowing what to expect and from learning how to relax the relevant muscles.

Sub-3" dia I can easily push in. With 3.0" to 3.5", I have to sit on the toy for the first insertion, gradually getting it deeper and deeper. Once I'm in for the first time, then I can push the toy in and out by hand and hold it at its max width for as long as I want.

As to frequency, that varies hugely. Sometimes twice a day for a couple days in a row. Sometimes, only once in a fortnight. It all depends on my mood, horniness, and what else I need to be doing.

Yeah, being stretched is fun. But what I find to be a bigger thrill is a belly bulge created by smaller toys inserted deeper. I always come when I get into the traverse.

I too have reached the point of 3.5" dia. of stretching. My ultimate goal is to reach 5" dia.

I love stretching. I love the intensity of this new level of stretch. As I look for toys for the next levels, I find it more difficult to find a toy within the range I want without being so long and the girth being in an appropriate area of reachability. There are toys that are like 15" long with the fattest part being near the base. I'm more of a girth person. I can never see me reaching the end of that to meet the desired girth.

Try or fail, it is exciting to try something bigger. I think I've expanded to around 3", maybe up to 3 1/4". I visualize a lot when I have something big to accommodate. I feel so urgent about it, a very slutty craving, and that hunger definitely helps me reach for the next level.

Working up from 2" to 3.5" in a year sounds impressive. Maybe my goal of working up from 2.7" to 3.1" by the end of this year is not so crazy after all?

Congratulations on your achievemnt! What kind of toys did you use? I can take much bigger soft toys than hard ones, the shape also is a factor, perfectly round is much more difficult than on oblong one.

Afternine,

Thanks for your question on what toys I use. And, yes, I agree that firmness matters, as well as taper. A horse cock dildo is my go-to favorite. I can always pass into the sigmoid with it, and it gives a nice belly bulge.

https://www.amazon.com/Realistic-Silicone-Suction-Lifelike-Masturbation/dp/B07SH6XRNS/ref=sr_1_54?crid=2M63TUM6DMU2C&keywords=horse%2Bcock%2Bdildo&qid=1704394509&s=hpc&sprefix=horse%2Bcock%2Bdildo%2Chpc%2C188&sr=1-54&th=1matters

This is the toy I began stretching with. At first, even getting the first ridge of the toy past the outer sphincter wasn't comfortable. In time, I could insert the toy just past it fourth ridge. Now, I can push the whole toy in, all the way in to its flange. That's gives a very filled feeling. Better than the fisting diloes I have. https://www.amazon.com/Blush-Novelties-Destructor-Carbon-Metallic/dp/B075RSSYXG/ref=pd_bxgy_d_sccl_1/141-2997847-7038111?pd_rd_w=dzNzw&content-id=amzn1.sym.2b132e63-5dcd-4ba1-be9f-9e044543d59f&pf_rd_p=2b132e63-5dcd-4ba1-be9f-9e044543d59f&pf_rd_r=232VH44TX3C4Y9J16HMA&pd_rd_wg=iHMcU&pd_rd_r=1a80aec1-40ee-499b-834e-a7ce6dfed301&pd_rd_i=B075RSSYXG&psc=1

This is the toy I used to get me to a 3.3" dia stretch. https://www.ebay.com/itm/334804188386?var=543959988946 Right now, I'm working with two 3.5" dia toys, one with progressively larger ridges and the other is a conventional oval. But I can't get the links to work to show them. I've got my eye this one at 3.7" dia. https://www.ebay.com/itm/314947817704?var=613439884163

Making one's own toys is a hassle, and it's been years since I've done any wood turning. But I'm thinking that "3.5" dia firm" might be a reasonable goal. If I turn the plug, then I can control the shape and taper. Years ago, I turned a variety of small ones, then sanded and varnished them.

I'm always marveled at how some people can shove those horse cock dildoes with wide flanged heads past the sigmoid bend - that's a sort of hard limit for me - pushing any kind of toy into the bend just hurts, no matter how slow and easy I go at it. Haven't tried a colon snake yet, probably would be easier to navigate.

Thanx for showing your "tools of the trade" - some interesting toys you found there.

Happy practicing!

Afternine,

Actually, the wide flanged head of a horse cock dildo is what makes it easy to "round the bend" and to get into the sigmoid. At least, that's my experience. And I've got a wider, 15" incher that's easy to get in to the sigmoid. But there's no way I could get into the traverse with a horse cock. The toy is just too wide.

With narrow dildos, I find that getting past the first bend is a hit-or-miss affair unless I go in first with the horse cock to open things up. Then I can get the snake shown below in 22" inches and feel it just below my rib cage, and I'm working on getting it deeper.

https://www.amazon.com/Acudani-39-4in-Long-Dildo-Black/dp/B09SFWL496/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2D68KJOCYLPOR&keywords=long+dildo&qid=1704417917&sprefix=long+dildo%2Caps%2C822&sr=8-2

"I've always marveled at how some people can shove those horse cock dildoes with wide flanged heads past the sigmoid bend - that's a sort of hard limit for me - pushing any kind of toy into the bend just hurts, no matter how slow and easy I go at it."

afternine,

If it hurts, don't do it. Every one says that, and they're right. They also advise a clean tunnel, lots of lube, and a slow, slow pace, not the manic thrusting of the porn videos. Also, relax, relax, relax.

Here's something you might try if you want to get into the sigmoid with a horse cock. Skip an enema, but have a recent poop. That helps with two things. One, you're fairly empty as deep as you'll probably be going. Two, the bends are now aligned for easy passage and have been recently expanded. Lube the first six inches of a fairly flexible horse cock. Lay on your side, insert just the tip, then roll back on your back and relax for five or ten minutes, just enjoying the feel of it. Next, draw your knees up to your chest and cradle your hand under the horse cock so it is lightly balanced. Then contract your anal and rectal muscles and try to draw the dildo deeper into you. If this is something you've been practicing, you'll feel the toy move a half inch or so deeper. Pause, enjoy the feeling, and then contract again.

What you'll find is that the toy all but begins to find its own way deeper. Repeat until the horse cock is bumping up against the bend into the sigmoid which is now widening itself. Then gently, ever so gently, apply a bit of push to the toy. If you're relaxed and aligned, the toy will pass through the bend with ease, with the next stop being the bend into the traverse.

This might not work the first or the second time you try it. But once it has happened for you, it's repeatable at will.

Boats,

thanx for tips and thorough explanation. I guess it is time to get me some long flexible toys, unfortunately horse cock dildoes aren't my thing (they somehow throw me off), but I believe some other similarly shaped toy with a bulb at the end should do trick helping with pulling inside. The tip to go at it shortly after BM when everything is aligned is also great!

Have fun!