How come people can do anal fisting? It's just impossible to me no matter how hard I trained my ass

The best it can get is 4 fingers in. I practiced anal play for a year but I still can't get a fist in. I took a lot of time to warm up my asshole. But beyond 4 fingers, my ass will tear apart and bleed. Is there any tip? I really want to do anal fisting?

Took me a while, with bigger and bigger dildos

Can't remember if my first fist was with or without dildo

But for sure, quick enema, lot of lube and lot of time

This one always does the job, on the second bulb

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Don't sweat it. A year might seem like a long time, but it's just a drop in the ocean. It's like expecting to be ready for the Olympics just because you've been playing a sport for a year. Or hitting the gym for a year and expecting to have muscles like Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Keep at it, stay consistent, gradually stretch yourself more and more and you'll get there.

I think I understand that you do the training yourself, if so, my recommendation is that you use toys of different sizes, not your own hand. But above all, that you find a person who will stretch you

If you're trying to fist yourself, you may never make it. I never could. We see vids of gals fisting themselves, but not of guys. I think we just don't bend the same way. It's probably possible for a guy with real long arms. The rest of us generally can't get past the 4 knuckles because our arm is too short and/or our wrist won't flex enough.

Keep practicing with larger and larger toys. Take it slow, you definitely don't want to tear anything. Then once you can relax and take a fist sized toy, it's time to look for a gal with small hands. I jest, sorta. Ideally, one would have a GF or FWB that would help one practice. I keep looking. Good luck to you.

Have a look here. There’s a few of us who can or could, also some tips about how we manage it.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=124600

I know what you mean, I’m in the same boat but have decided to get some assistance from an experienced gentleman. Hopefully that will do the trick.😉👍🏻

It just comes down to what Frankie Goes to Hollywood sang in 84.. "Relax".

And lots of lube..

Lots of lube...

ALOT of lube...