Gay hookup sites all just talk and no action

In the good old days you could go on craigslist and meet guys and they would actually meet and you'd have a good time. Now it seems with all these pays sites the guys all just talk and no action. You get to the point of going to meet and then they just disappear. A lot are married. It's just not the same anymore.

I've met several guys in person via SilverDaddies.com.

It great site I would like to try it

Try sniffies.com which is an online cruising app for men, totally web-based, with a free and a Plus (paid) tier.

@JacobNC why it showing blocked?

@Gay_slave It works for me from the link I posted. If you’re getting a message that it’s blocked then it must be blocked by your network.

There's been a ton of discussion on the topic of online hook-up sites on Breeding.zone, a gay discussion forum. There's no doubt that online has changed how the gay community hooks up.

Some would argue that "in the good old days" there was no online and you went to a location where guys hung out looking for sex and had sex then and there. Flaking and ghosting are not a thing when meeting places are in person.

@JacobNC ok got it

I've met several guys in person via SilverDaddies.com.

Used this, and sext in chat.

Aren't most sex hookup sites - gay, lesbian, straight or other - mostly talk and no action? Not speaking fom experince here, just from what I've read.

Seems like especially in Chicago. Or guys too concerned about if someone has been vaccinated, tested and a recent physical examination. Going tonight to a gay bar that is 2 blocks from a college university that has a no limits back bar and free clothing check for New Year’s Eve. Hopefully can finally get some needed attention as there is no other way possible to release alone and balls ache

Used Craigslist and found a longterm gay fuck buddy. We are both on Silverdaddies now

I agree there's a lot of people online that don't do what they say and I've been stuck trying to meet someone and they now show Etc

I've used a couple of UK based ones, similar to you it's mostly married guys which I'm really not interested in unless it's clearly ENM.

Has anyone tried apps like Grindr or Tinder rather than sites?

For me yes, which is why I'm investing in a fuck machine asap.