Keeping your love of enemas hidden from your partner

Wondering how many here have gone thru keeping their love of enemas hidden from their partner? I did it with my first wife for a time. What was the outcome?

I snuck enemas from my x wife for years. After she would leave for work was my time. Once I left my bag in the sink, forgot to hide it, oops, my secret was out. After she discovered my fettish, she started giving me small enemas with I tiny bit of wine. She would ask if I wanted my baggie. I said yes, she would then go into the bathroom and prepare iit. She said no cheating, couldnt touch myself. Ggood sex while holding.. sometimes i left the nozzle in. My current gf of 30 years not into them at all. I miss those days, and nights.

It's probably understandable that you initially hide this preference from a new partner. That was the case with me too.

Time has sorted it out. This can only be kept secret for a short time.

Acceptance followed, and now a vamp is by my side...🤗😛😇

Good things come to those who wait; I'm grateful to have taken this time...👍😎

I have liked enemas since childhood and they have become part of my life. While dating, I left a bag hanging on the shower head. Some girls asked, some didn't. A few were curious enough to partake but only one, my wife, has accepted and ultimately enjoyed enemas and anal. Worth the gamble.

I have posted on other threads how I went from hidden fetish to revealing to my wife that I give myself enemas regularly for erotic pleasure. I had an enema bag that I got before we got married and did keep in the bathroom which she did see but didn't pay much attention to. I even gave her an enema when she was constipated, and it worked but she didn't particularly like the experience.

As time passed, I did tell her that I give myself enemas for sexual pleasure. She knows I am anal erotic and she has used lots of anal toys on me, but it was still a shock to hear that there was another side to my anal erotic pleasure. But once revealed and the shock wore off, she just accepts my fetish but doesn't participate.

We live in a home now that has two full baths, so we each took one. My enema equipment is kept out in the open- two 1-gallon bags hanging on the back of the bathroom door, a 10-inch silicone shower shot nozzle on a separate hose in the tub shower, and a colon tube attached to a standalone bidet. And yes, when we know we are having guests over which is rare, I will put all the equipment away.

Recently we hired a maid to clean our house and when my wife showed her around the house before we hired her, the enema equipment was all out in full view. The maid said something to the effect that- oh I would have thought this would be put away. But she is a cool lady and she never mentioned it to me once she started coming on her regular cleaning days. I do put the equipment away on the days she comes to clean the house but I secretly kind of hope she might ask me about my enema equipment and start a conversation about the subject of enemas. We'll see how it goes.

Unfortunately my enema pleasures remain hidden but since my enema gear is DIY it’s out for others to see. Have been married for more than twenty years and have only been into enemas for five years. Enemas and suppositories are kept for days of self care and pleasure. I got into them when my wife mentioned doing anal a couple of times while aroused but then dropped the idea. I got turned on as I stumbled across Zity while reading about anal sex prep and eventually joined as a member. Thank you for your support.

probably understandable that you initially hide this preference from a new partner.

After my experience with 1st wife, I vowed I'd never hide my love and need of enemas from whomever else I was forming a relationship with...

Never a good idea. If you can't share your enema and anal desires with your partner, then you are with the wrong partner. It is better to go solo.

The whole point of having a relationship is communication. If you are afraid your partner won't accept you if you come out of the "enema closet," then you don't have a loving relationship, based upon communication, good sex and love. This sort of think could only lead to divorce, heartbreak, time wasted and even a weird reputation if you put yourself in the wrong position. Not a good idea to get kinky with someone you work with.

Enemas are intimate. the kind of intimate that comes with family. If you find that right enemate, marry her/him. Keep your professional life separate.

I no longer waste my time. If I am not totally "into" someone, then I won't even try. I will find out through getting to know my suitors through conversation before I even decide I am "into" someone. But on the flip side, if a girl even mentions enemas, It is a turn on and I usually get to the "bottom" of it.

have fun.

My ex and I had already had anal sex. We were talking about some sexual fantasies and I told her that I like fingers and toys in my ass, which she expressed a willingness to do for me. So I went big and told her I also liked taking enemas and that enemas left me nice and clean for back door play so she would not have to worry about an unpleasant mess. I explained the process of an enema to her, showed her my bag, and asked her to please give me an enema. So we took our clothes off and went to the bathroom. We were both nervous as she had never done it before, and I had never had anyone give me an enema before.

I showed her how to fill the bag, how warm I wanted the water, and explained it all again. I was very hard, which turned her on. She filled and hung the bag while I got on all fours on the floor. She gently lubed my anus and the nozzle with Vaseline, purged the air out of the hose, and slide the nozzle into me. She clicked the clamp open as I asked, and I was in heaven as she held the nozzle inside me, rubbed my butt, cock and balls while the warm water rushed into me. When the bag was empty she removed the nozzle and left while I expelled. I think she gave me 3 enemas that night, a good fingering, and the great sex.

On many occasions I would have her immediately refill the bag as I needed more than 2 quarts and we only had the 2 quart bag. Sometimes she would give me a handjob or a blowjob while I retained the enemas, or pleasure me anally after expelling. Sometimes I would go down on her and make her cum while I retained the water. Other times we would make love after my enemas. It was wonderful. I am so glad I told her and we shared this. Unfortunately I could never get her to let me give her an enema, but we did have anal sex.

I realized quite early that I liked those small enemas I got from mom, but I was not about to admit I liked enemas to anybody. I thought I was the only one who liked them. When I got married I did enemas in secret when my wife was out shopping or with friends until I got the balls to bring it up to her that I wanted us to share enemas, for fun. It took lots of persuasion and even a little alcohol for her to agree. Unfortunately, she did not enjoy them as I did and eventually told me that if I wanted an enema, I would have to do it myself. So now, she knows I have a bulb and a bag and some related items and knows I sometimes indulge when she is out, but I don't think she knows how often I actually use that stuff.

My sister and I learned to give each other and ourselves small enemas with the bulb in the bathtub when we were about six and eight. And I continued to give myself enemas for fun. When I got married, I did not hide that I gave myself enemas from my husband, but only that I did it because I liked it and not because I needed it. I decided to see if I could get him interested, so I "accidentally" got caught in the middle of one when he came home. His reaction was, "You sure give yourself a lot of enemas." I decided to admit that I did it because I liked it. Eventually I got him to give me a few enemas prior to sex play but he didn't want to try it himself until one time after he was all worked up, I told him if he wanted to fuck me tonight, he was getting an enema. He complained like a little kid through the whole thing. I managed to get a few more into him over the next few weeks, but he looked at those enemas as a roadblock preventing us from getting down to some "real sex." I quit trying to get him involved and went back to doing myself whenever I had the time and opportunity. He knows I do it but won't make an issue of it because he is afraid I will give him one.

I don't hide it . But he is not I to my game regarding Enemas.

I dont have to hide it. Me and my wife do them daily. If she does one when I know she is wanting to be sexual thats a sure sign she is up for anal play without her having to say anything specific about it.

We never hid my enema interest. After some time realizing that she had no interest in it, we simply threw the gear away.

To my regret, all the time I am interested in enemas, I hide it from the people around me. Maybe it's my own problem, since I am a rather private person and it's difficult for me to make acquaintances and, especially, to tell others about my intimate fantasies. I'm afraid of being misunderstood. Many people consider enemas to be something shameful and think that only perverts enjoy them, and I worry that the my hobby may give people the wrong idea about me. So I don't talk about it even with my wife.