My wife's first enema.

Never forget the first time I gave my wife an enema. It was Sunday evening and she was complaining of cramps-not menstrual and what she could do for them. I asked if she had tried some gas medicine and she no. I perked up and said I could maybe give her an enema, we had some fleet enemas in the house on account I sometimes would get constipated from the drugs that I took from my transplant. She said I don't think so they would hurt. She finally relented and said ok. She then unbuckled her pants and slipped the pants and panties down. As an extra bonus there was a pantyliner in her panties. This was another fetish of mine, pads and panties. She proceeded to get on the bed and assumed the Knee/Chest position, the one I used when she gave me a enema. I was very excited seeing her rosebud and the back side of her vagina as I inserted the enema nozzle. I had to temper my excitement as I did not want to expose my fascination of the process.

I gave my wife her first enema a couple of weeeks ago. She is 51 and had never received one in her life. She had contracted some sort of stomach flue that left her chilling, feverish and throwing up for about a day and a half. One of the aftereffects was a serious case of constipation. After suffering for two days, she decided that I should give her an enema. I've used enemas all my life, but had never involved her in them -- until now.

I prepped the fountain syringe with a full two quarts of warm water, even though I knew she couldn't take all of it the first try. I spread a couple of our largest bath towels on the bathroom floor and had her assume the knee-chest position for the first go-round. Years ago, the rectal tip on the syringfe set had broken, so all I had left was the douche nozzle. That for an enema virgin! 😁

I lubed the nozzle tip, then lubed her butthole, inserting my finger in to the second knuckle. She shivered a little when I withdrew my finger and slowly inserted the big douche nozzle. I waited a bit to make sure she was comfortable, then informed her I was starting the water. I let it run very slow, stopping the flow every 15 or 20 seconds. It was her first enema and I didn't want to make it unpleasant by giving her cramps. I had to stop the flow for a couple of minutes a couple of times to let her relax, telling her to take deep breaths while I rubbed her back. Still, she could only get a half bag on her first try before she could not hold any more.

After I helped her up and she sat on the toilet, I told her the second one would go much easier.

The look on her face was priceless. "Second one?" she said. "Yeah," I replied. "You will need at least three to get good and cleaned out!" 😄

It's been two weeks since her first enema and she's hinted a couple of times that another session might be needed. 😉

My wife of thirteen years always complained about being constipated. One day I suggested that I give her an enema. She refused at first but then relented. Her first experience was a bit uncomfortable, but they got easier. She now looks forward to her weeklies, followed by a hot session of anal sex.

Prepare before an enema pear recipe, cammomille for example, try to excitating her so much, near a teasing, then propose her to fill her bell...for the firt time reduce the time of retention, ..you can increase in the further sessions..

gook luck,, for my wife thi was our first way

Well it finally happened!!!

My wife and I have a very open sex life, kinky stuff, toys, anal etc... Over the last few weeks because her girl friend (who lives in arkansas) mentioned she takes enemas sparked my wife's curiosity because she knows that I do enema's about 2 to 3 x a week.

My wife came out and said I am constipated and I need and enema. She wanted to know how she should do it. Meaning by herself. Of course I said I will do it for you to make the process easier for you. (wink!!)

With that I have a heated massage table that I use to give her erotic massage and aromatherapy and took that out that evening and set up this exciting event.

I tried to keep her as warm as possible after I asked her to take her clothes off except for her socks. I draped over her a big towel as she laid down on her left side. I could tell that she was a little nervous but I reduced her fear by telling her she was gonna feel great once it was all over.

So with that I prepared a 2 qt warm water bag and I gently spread her ass checks to get the right view and with my

finger I made sure all was well lubed. Mind you this was the first time I had ever done this and I can only say how exciting this was as I almost came in my sweat pants that I was wearing. So to continue, I greased the nozzle and slowly inserted the tube into her bum and I moved it back and forth until there was a feeling of acceptance for what was to lie ahead. My darling wife moaned a little and I said I was gonna release the water and if you get any cramping let me know and I will shut the flow down. For the 1st time she was able to take 1/3 of the bag and she needed to go back and forth to expel but by the time she finished the bag she was feeling much better. I then asked her to lie down on the massage table and she knew exactly what was coming and than we went crazy on each other in a furry of heated flesh that sent us both to climax. Everything was fair game as no opening was deemed unacceptable for entry. Well since that night we have been making this a weekly occurrence. Only this morning my wife hinted that she felt bloated and constipated.

Guess what will be doing tonight!!! LOL 😁

I wish I could get my wife to take one. She will give,but no taking so far. Still going to try. Have some good ideas now.

Still trying to get my wife to join in the fun. Your lucky

I'd like to try and talk my girl into letting me give her an enema, but she thinks its gross. how did you guys convience your woman to give in to the idea? Im 22 and she's 19.

thanks

I have had a life long interest in enemas but never had an opportunity to approach my wife about it. I had pretty much given up enemas for the 10+ years we had been married. She sometimes had stomach problems and had been to the doctor a few times about it some time ago. After some tests, including a barium enema, they concluded that the problem was most likely due to trapped gas that wasn’t moving down her colon, but nothing serious. They prescribed the typical high fiber diet.

She continued to have problems off and on and one night when she was complaining and thinking about going back to the doctor I said, “Have you ever thought that you might just need an enema?” Strange as it may seem, she didn’t know exactly what an enema was but had an idea. I explained what it was and asked “Didn’t your mother ever give you an enema when you were young?” She said she hadn’t and I told her that it was worth a try since it was better than going to the doctor and being subjected to all those tests. She hated the thought of what tests a doctor might prescribe so she was agreeable but said she didn’t know what to do.

Realizing how this was unfolding it was all I could do to control myself. I told her that I would be happy to show her and thought there was something we could use in the closet downstairs. I had remembered that there was an old sitz bath downstairs that she had been given after she had our second child but had never thrown away. It had what looked like a typical disposable hospital enema bag with the clear plastic tubing but there were only small holes in the side, not at the end. I checked the end of the tubing and found that it was very smooth and would do no damage when inserted. In fact, since the holes were small, the enema would flow slowly and perhaps be easier to tolerate.

After showing her the bag, she followed me upstairs into our bathroom. (It was all I could do to stop from shaking uncontrollably at the thought of actually giving her an enema. I had never dreamed that this day would come.) As I filled the bag with warm water she was a little apprehensive and said she could probably do it herself. I calmed her and said it was no big deal and that it would be easier if I helped.

She agreed and took off her pants and panties. I told her to kneel down and put her head down so that her ass was sticking up in the air. My wife had never allowed me access to her ass and had no interest in anal sex so this was truly a dream come true. Here I was sitting on the edge of the bathtub with a jar of Vaseline in my hand with my wife bent over offering her ass to me as I was ready to give her an enema. It doesn’t get any better than this I thought.

Wanting to make it a good experience, I told her to relax and take a few deep breaths. I told her that I would need to lubricate her bum so the tube would slide in easily without hurting her. I placed a gob of Vaseline on my finger and spread her ass cheeks with the other hand. I gently rubbed the Vaseline around her asshole and ever so slowly began to push my finger into her ass. With a slow steady pressure her asshole slowly opened to envelop my finger. I slowly pushed it in all the way and could not believe how tight her ass was.

I asked if she was OK and made sure it wasn’t too uncomfortable and she said she was fine. I slowly rotated my finger and moved it in and out slightly to lubricate her anus and rectum. I’m sure I took longer than necessary but it was just too good to resist. There’s nothing like the feeling of a tight anus clenching around your finger.

After she was sufficiently lubricated I put some Vaseline on the end of the hose and, spreading her cheeks with one hand, I used the other to insert the tube into her rectum. Asking if she was ready she said that she was and I released the clamp. I told her that eventually she would feel full and a strong urge to poop but that she should take as much of the enema as she could before expelling. She complained that she was getting full once and I stopped the flow and told her to hold it in. She was OK after a short minute and once again started the enema flowing, explaining that the more she took the better.

After she took about half the bag she said she couldn’t take any more. Not wanting to press my luck, I removed the enema tube and left the bathroom so she could expel. I ended up giving her two more enemas that night to make sure she was cleaned out. She took them without complaining and although they didn’t cure her completely, they did make her feel better.

I’d like to report that this turned into a regular habit but no such luck. I have given her a couple more enemas since then that I’ll describe in a later post. She still takes the occasional enema but now that she knows how to do it she takes them by herself as she’s “embarrassed” to have me help.

Maybe someday I’ll get to give her another enema but I’ll always treasure this time in particular.

Tell her you enjoy caring for her in that intimite way, and that it means a lot that she would trust you with something so embarrassing.

Zaroc,

Thanks for the advice. I had a good discussion with my wife once along a similar vein and she was reluctantly receptive to another enema. I need to heed your advice and broach the subject again.

In addition to admittedly selfish desire I have to give her an enema, I sincerely believe I could make here enemas more comfortable if she allowed me to help. She does still take enemas for constipation infrequently but does them by herself. She is still self conscious about letting me help and sees no benefit in allowing me to help her.

I have given many enemas to females in my life. I think that when someone has their first enema it should be as normal as possible without overt sexuality. For example, you said you inserted your finger into your wife's rectum repeatedly. This was totally unnecessary. Don't appear as a pervert. Simply lubricate the enema tip and insert it in a professional manner. My wife was constipated on our honeymoon. We had driven from Connecticut to central Florida and she was stopped up. I suggested an enema and she agreed. I administered it in a professional manner and she had no problem with it. Since then we have given each other many enemas. If I had turned it into some sexual thing the first time she would have been very suspicious of my intentions and I very likely would have turned her off in the process.

Your story is almost exactly the same as the way I gave my wife her first enema. She had the same type of tummy trouble. I used a standard enema bag with a douche nozzle, and gave her 2 warm water enemas on the bathroom floor. She was completely cured! I ended up giving her several enemas over the next 3 or 4 years till we divorced. Have no idea if she still takes them or not.

Just to clarify, although I was quite excited when I gave my wife the enema, I was very gentle and professional throughout. Although I did insert my finger into her rectum to lubricate her, I certainly didn't do it repeatedly. Despite my excitement, my purpose was to make her feel better, not to turn it into something sexual.

Beyond the sexuality of an enema for those of us who like them, there is a certain satisfaction that comes from caring for a loved one and helping them feel better.

Some woman willnot connect an enema with sex no matter how hard you try.My first wife on the other hand saw how sexually charged I was while taking an enema and wanted to get involved with enemas to enhance our sex lives,it worked.Every time she wanted sex,she would get the enema bag out even if I was sound to sleep.In fact,on several occasions the tube would be stuck into my ass while I was sleeping just so she could have sex with me.We would take turns giving enemas to each other for hours 'tll the sun came up.

Not all woman enjoy enemas the way we men want them to because to some woman enemas are for medical purposes only.My second wife will not allow me the pleasure of giving her an enema but, she will give me some.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/W.MA

My girlfriend was interested in trying anal sex, but she was afraid it might be "dirty". I suggested an enema first, and she is now hooked.

I am lucky because i found that my wife has chonic conistipation after our wedding in the honeymoon she got severe abdominal colic and she told me that she didnt went to the toilet for one week because of the wedding stress and she didnt bring her laxatives so i told her i can help her by giving her a cleansing enema she was frieghtened but i calmed heer and i prepared the enema for her a big white metal container and i atteched a long soft big size catheter and lubricated with gel she was afraid but i let her lied on her left side and slowly remove her panty down and put the soft catheter very deep inside and let the water flow she realy loved the experience because she was totally cleaned and evacuted without pain

Great, Fred!

Not sure why you told us the scenario, unless she wants more enemas!

TMS! For me!

This is what i hope to achieve with mine soon. I have brought it up and she is reluctant, but i think i can win her over. She has never had one, but she is very sexually responsive, so i am hopeful.

It took 15 years to talk her into it. she still would rather give than receive.

Ah yes, about 4 months after my wedding (early 20's both of us, long ago) we both developed a bit of stomach upset. Visiting her parents, they both eagerly suggested an enema -- as though they were both into enemas (the bag hung behind their linen closet door). My wife acted as though she never had an enema, but had a portable folding douche set with both nozzles. Back at our apartment I could hardly contain myself. Nonetheless I gave her an enema lying on her stomach on the bed; she giggled while expelling (me standing there). She then gave me an enema. Maybe we made love later, but she never made an erotic connection and it never happened again. In fact when I told her about my love of enemas 6 years later she acted as though I was strange. What could have been???

Your story could be mine ... a carbon copy, so to speak.

Shortly after we were married, we got into enema play ... I was the leader having enjoyed them all my life since puberty.

After the first time, within six months after we were married, she said she had not been turned on like that in some time. We exchanged two enemas and had a great evening.

About a week later, I suggested a repeat and she agreed and we "had a good time" but not as great as the week before, but it was still lvery good.

Nothing happened for a month until I suggested a session and she gave a quick, very terse, refusal. I left it at that.

A couple weeks later, I told her "I needed one" and would she join me and she suggested she never did like them, was quite turned off by enemas and not to bring it up again.

What could have been simply never happened after two sessions ... and I don't know the answer either.

😁 i remember quite vivdly the first enema i gave my current wife.this had been almost 13 years ago when i i was 36 and she was27.she lived with her mom and always had trouble with constipation. so one night when her mom was working late at the newspaper, my wife was misersable(we were not married yet either)so i told her i would give her an enema. she agreed and i filled her ass up with a 2.5 qt soapy enema. after that i confessed my love for the enema and she actually looked forward to them.and now we do each other every 2 weeks and more when needed. i give her enemas b4 anal sex also . she dosn't really get any sexual satisfaction out of the enema, but she says they make her feel good. 😃

Awesome, I hope you and your wife are able to continue to enjoy this activity together. I hope we are able to hear more stories from you in the future as well.

It is strange how women will forget what made them turned on one day, and then it's denial the next day. Fortunately for me my wife does remember how well I respond after a food cleaning out, and I give her plenty of opportunities to use her skill.

I don't understand wives tha just won't simply take an enema from thire husbands if it means so much to him. I mean come on..its not going to kill you and if it gives him that much plaeasure...why not ???? In the grand scheme of things its no big deal.

Hope things continue to go well.....

Our experience is the more you do it the better it can feel. I'm convinced that some women are "wired" more for the experience than others, but if they can be convinced that it can feel good and be fun most will get on board, if not frequently at least often enough to make it pleasurable for both. I do think that giving them written information so that they can understand where we guys are coming from does help them understand why we have the interest. I do think that many think it is somewhat perverted, but mostly because like many of us they have never had any exposure to such a thing. The internet info such as this board can help. Good luck to all!

Curious, sounds like you're off to the races. Congrats on converting your new patient!

After a party-dance, we were driving home in our little sports car with the top down. It was about 2:30AM. I reached over and pulled my wife's braless halter top dress down to her waist while we drove quietly around nearby neighborhoods. She did not object, since we were both a little tipsy.

Once home, our neighbors, who were also at the party, invited us to their pool. A drink or two later, our bathingsuits came off. At one point my wife wrapped her legs around my waist while I held her butt up. Then, just for fun, I inserted my finger up her butt and started wiggling it around. Much to my surprise, she only purred.

When we finished in the pool, we ran across the back lawn to our house butt naked, giggling all the way. Once home, I told her how much I enjoyed having my finger up her butt. She accepted the comment with a smile. That's when I got the nerve to suggest that I would love to give her an enema. She hew hawed a bit but I quickly suggested she mix up some soapy solution in the kitchen while I dig up a rubber tube and a plastic bottle from my darkroom.

She got on her knees and bent over in the bathroom and put some Vaseline on her butt while I put some on the tube. I pushed the tube into her about four inches and opened the valve. She took less than a half liter before she had to sit and expell it. I persuaded her to a second one with clear water to rinse out the soap. This one we did in the den with her bending over an ottoman. This time I slowly inserted the well lubricated tube about eight inches in before opening the valve. With some panting and moaning, she accepted about two thirds of the liter. After getting rid of that load I could tell she was quite turned on because when she was walking back from the bathroom, she was rubbing her slit. I told her that one more flush would rid the remainder of the soap. This one we did on the bed with her on her back, holding her legs in the air. Knowing this was my last insertion for the night, I did it slowly and deeply, maybe ten or so inches. Then I turned on the valve for a very slow flow and proceeded to play with her clit and deep finger her slit. I never saw my wife enjoy sex so much before. After that, we made love and slept until noon.

That was the first time but I continued giving her enemas for a number of years after that. She also started giving them to me once in a while and enjoyed pushing my capacity to hold them to the limit. She liked to end them with me on my back while she performed oral sex on me until I climaxed.

Those days finally ended but I still enjoy giving myself an enema while she's away on a daylong shopping trip with her girlfriends. But the memories of those early days I'll enjoy forever.