Who wipes your bottom after RT?

I tried searching for this topic so forgive me if I missed it. The question is, after you've had your rectal temperature taken or an enema for that matter, who wipes the lubricant from your anus after final withdrawal? I've always thought this act added an extra touch of humiliation and demonstrating who is in charge. As the one taking the temperature I've always been the one to perform the final cleaning.

In hospital as child it was nurses wiped anus after temp or even after using bed pan or enemas

As a child I’m sure my mother did that. The nurse at the pediatrician office or hospital emergency room. I had a nurse practitioner do a rectal exam one time at my yearly physical she said let me get you wiped up. I was little surprised but ok . She did just remove her finger from my butt

When I was a kid, my mother would wipe me after taking my rectal temperature. When I started taking other guys' rectal temperatures from age 18 through adulthood, I was almost always the taker because the men I was with never experienced rectal temperature taking before. Also, I tended to prefer not to use any Vaseline or other lubricant when taking their rectal temperatures. Nevertheless, I would always wipe their asses just to clean them up and also because I found it kinky.

As a child at pediatrician office I remember the nurse assistant passing a cotton swab on my anys shortly after the RT measurement. It was done while the doctor did the genital examination. It did not add anything to my embarassement and humiliation due to the manipulation of my penis expecially having my glans fully esposed to all adults present in the room.

My usual childhood clinic used a liberal amount of jelly deposited directly onto the anus via a white condiment squeeze bottle.

It really depended upon the attending nurse; some would wipe me with a tissue, some would not.

When I didn’t get wiped, the exam table paper would soak up the jelly as I sat, leaving a dark soggy wet spot that would sometimes stick and tear when it was time for the coup ‘de grace of my embarrassing dismount.

At first I had hoped to get wiped, but after a while I felt that having a greasy sticky butt was my own secret personal badge of honor.

It’s interesting. I don’t recall anyone wiping me down after an RT growing up, or at any of the rectal exams I had in my teens. I just thought it was normal to shamefacedly pull my pants and underwear back up with a squishy feeling in my bottom. The last few years I’ve started getting prostate exams, and now the urologist does give me a tissue to wipe away the lube when she’s finished. (Of course, it would give me an extra frisson if she did clean me up.)

As a lil child my parents did, but as a kid and teen I cleaned myself.

At home it was no big deal, because the lubricant for RT was baby oil which made the skin softer after a few minutes and wasn't removable anymore then.

At the pediatrician they used kind of cream and the nurse took a kind of cotton ball and placed it directly on my bumhole before she covered my bum with my pants again.

In hospital they took plenty of gel which felt really nasty afterwards. No one wiped it away afterwards, most times I went to toilet then to remove that gel. But my pants got wet anyway. I first recognised that the other children in hospital often had a moisture strain in the bum area of their Sweatpants/ pyjama trousers, later I realised the same with mine.

I was never wiped after when my rectal temps taken.

My bottom was always wiped after my temperature was taken. At home it would be by my mother, at the pediatrician or hospital it would be done by the nurse.

I don't recall ever being lubed. My mom just pulled my cheeks apart and put it in. She did use lube when giving me an enema, but she would put her finger in first.

The temperature taker is responsible for a quick wipe to get the excess lube off.

Usually the playdoc taking temperature as it adds to the humiliation.

I would like to feel embarrassed and infantilized, so the "nurse" should wipe my bottom, except of course if she needed to make further insertions in that orifice!

As I stated previously, I usually don't use any lube when taking my own rectal temperature because my anus is moist enough for me to easily insert the thermometer. So it's really not necessary for me to wipe my ass after taking my temp. As far as other guys, I have usually been the taker and I would always get a lot of enjoyment out of wiping a guy's ass after removing the rectal thermometer. Sometimes, if necessary, I would also wipe a guy's ass before taking his temperature just to get him nice and clean.

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While we're on the topic, I have found that most non-gay men have very poor anal hygiene. Bluntly put, guys don't know how to wipe their ass. It's as if they just don't care. Men from the Islamic world and East Asia by far have the best hygiene, I have found. If you want to be desirable, you've got to be clean down there. That means not merely dry wiping but washing. Get a bidet. If that's not possible, sit on the rim of the bathtub and wash up. Get an anal douche attachment for your shower and use it every day. Or use a simple bulb enema. Being kind to your behind will go a long way.

Bluntly put, guys don't know how to wipe their ass. It's as if they just don't care. Men from the Islamic world and East Asia by far have the best hygiene, I have found.

I’ve spoken to middle eastern guys online and when the topic randomly comes up about hygiene and toilet paper, they are always appalled that it is used. They always talk about how they essentially shower after each bowel movement to remain clean. To them, toilet paper is just spreading shit around. It’s always funny and interesting when the conversation somehow ends up leaning towards bathroom habits.

I’ve spoken to middle eastern guys online and when the topic randomly comes up about hygiene and toilet paper, they are always appalled that it is used. They always talk about how they essentially shower after each bowel movement to remain clean. To them, toilet paper is just spreading shit around. It’s always funny and interesting when the conversation somehow ends up leaning towards bathroom habits.

My son said bidets were common in the mid east as more hygienic than tp. But IMO most straight guys here in the US keep clean as well as the gay or bisexual guys. Don’t believe one group is more conscientious than the other.

We have a bidet and it works well, but doesn’t dry you well unless you have a lot of time to sit there. Always had to use TP to dry off.

So far, no one has wiped my butt after getting a rectal temperature. It never occurred to me that this was necessary. My mum used always cream, but it wasn't so much that she had to wipe the cream off later. I'm taking the same cream today. It's Nivea btw.

On the other side I like the slippery feeling in the butt after getting a rectal temperature.

@keks97 A bit of greasy or slippery feeling there is good as a reminder of what has happened there!

When I was a kid, this didn't happen. I remember feeling the vaseline melt after the rectal thermometer was removed and my underwear or PJs were pulled up. It wold make my butt crack all slippery and sometimes itchy and as I got older, it became a turn on as part of my fetish. Till this day, if I take my rectal temperature in the morning, I will leave the vaseline to melt and I can feel it back there all day, and I'm the only one who knows it.

Seems to me that the person who gave you the thermometer should help you clean up. Plus it would help with the bond between doctor and patient

The guy taking my rectal temperature should be responsible for wiping my ass afterward. Just like I would wipe a man's ass after taking his rectal temp, which has been the usual scenario because thus far I have been mostly the one taking other guy's temps.

In general, the taker should be the one doing the wiping, whether it's a parent, caretaker, medical professional or staff, or rt play partner.

I agree with MarkRT, the taker should do the wiping. 🧻

I simply like butt play. I like lubing my lady’s anus and rectum and asking her to hold her cheeks open.

I insert the thermometer several times and twist it and move it around to create those wonderful erotic feelings.

And don’t forget the equally beautiful views I get to enjoy. Most of my lady’s are very wet by the time I’m finished.

I was never wiped after getting my temperature taken. The squishy feeling from the Vaseline persisted for a long time after, and sort of served as a reminder that I had recently gotten my temperature taken.

Have to agree with rockinrt, my mom never whipped off the excess Vaseline either, and she used a good dollop. The feel of the jelly squishing when you walked was part of the experience for me.