Does an enema ever “Reset” you emotionally?

Oftentimes an enema that gives me a good cleanse physically also does wonders for me emotionally. Older daughter feels it’s a “woman’s thing,” but I’ve seen a change in my husband as well after I’ve given him an enema.

I can sometimes be grumpy and a little bitchy when I’m bound up and in a funk. Clean out my colon, and it also can refresh my spirit.

I agree. An enema does as much for me emotionally as it does physically.

I have female enemates who attest how a good enema session resets their attitude and outlook as well as how they feel physically.

I have to admit that I enjoy giving my ladies their enemas so much that my attitude and outlook are renewed as well.

I agree! Besides cleaning you out physically. I think it cleans you out emotionally. I miss getting enemas.

It's unfortunate that more spouses and/or partners don't realize just how effective a good enema or colonic is at overcoming some of the physical and mental challenges that get the best of us at times.

The gut/brain correlation is real for me, and those periodic resets seem to be quite effective in getting me back on track in many ways. Besides, the simple process is quite fun, fulfilling, and downright orgasmic with an adept assistant!

I am absolutely convinced about the brain gut connection, for me it's a actually a closed loop. I struggled with horrible stress, depression and mood swings (bipolar) until I started having colonics, now I am the happy stable person I have always wanted to be. For me going for my four weekly colonic, I would probably go more frequently if "D" lived closer, and taking routine home enemas is a no brainer. Forgive the pun! Your internal presence definitely effects your external presence.

I, too, agree with others. My wife can read me like a book as did my Mother when I was a child. Both, knew when I need or needed a good attitude adjustment, which always included an enema. I, personally, can attest that it calms my nerves and resets my attitude. Thank goodness for a good enema!

@Vicki_V said,

I can sometimes be grumpy and a little bitchy when I’m bound up and in a funk.

As kids growing up mom, grandma, and our teenage aunts all gave us enemas whenever we got moody or out of sorts. But if we got into a fight with each other, it was a guaranteed bare bottom spanking first, then an enema to help calm down afterwards. After I was married, my wife and I found enemas worked just as well on adults as they did on kids to adjust an attitude.

I totally agree with Vicki V - There is more to a good enema than the physical effects. My day just seems to start better when I take the time to do a little bit of personal care.

In the case that my large intestine has been filled with a lot of waste in an uncomfortable manner a complete bowel cleansing will ever "reset" me emotionally.

Yes, it has been an emotional reset - worked well when home alone and feeling low.

I usually feel more cheerful after an enema.

For me an enema was something that was my very first memory I have in my life. I have had a very deep connection to it from the moment the enema was stuck up my little butt hole. At the time I was terrified but at the same time even then had pleasure as well from the enema. It was odd but I became tied at a very early age. 3 or 4 years old. I was self playing at 5 or 6. I have always considered having an enema as the most Incredible feelings in the entire world for me. Its a mind body thing for sure... More than just sexual for me.

Yes a good enema is always a uplifting and calming experience for me. Usually a series of enemas twice a week is ideal for me. I have noticed that depending on what solution I use it can make me feel differently. Coffee from OHN really revs me up, different oils like lavender, frankincense or myrrh can make my skin feel so refreshing, I don’t know how else to describe it, usually a few hours later after an enema. 😀

Aside from the benifits of a really good clean out I also feel more relaxed and free of stress after receiving an enema.

Very much relieves stress, especially after a colonic. Feeling lasts about 2 hr

@thumpercat said,

Aside from the benifits of a really good clean out I also feel more relaxed and free of stress after receiving an enema.

Worked good for me and my wife for many years. Especially, if we got into a quarrel about something. The argument generally ended with a page out of my grandmothers play book. And that was to give each other a couple of enemas to help calm down. Worked every time…

If the intestines go bad, the entire body goes bad. That's an old saying.

When I'm in a bad mood, my lady often says that she would give me an enema to put a smile on my face again; this also happens the other way around.

After extensive cleansing, pleasant feelings spread and radiate into the soul as well.

More people should get enemas; maybe the world would look better...

Tremendously yes!!

From a deep submission to a complete relaxation...my wife will tell me it's about that time isn't? Yes will notice me becoming nasty or bitchy and know a good Enema will put me in my place

As enemas have become less a part of our sexual play and more of just an intimate experience they do give my sub a mental reset. A boost in his feeling of well being. It can take him from crabby pants to happy boy.

There are numerous mental benefits. First the feeling of being clean and fresh. Second, the improved mental attitude especially if it it done to adjust your attitude or to make you behave better. Third, the stress relief. Fourth the sexual benefit just makes you happier and feel8 g better overall

I would say yes in my case because enemas and spankings go together which always removes the stress I’m under if not for awhile. After a session lasting several hours or days, I am totally exhausted and relaxed.

Wow! This topic seems so obvious, yet I have not seen a similar post. For me, each Sunday as a child/teen I was given an enema by my mother. She did not use this as a punishment, rather as a way to ensure health, but also it DID reset my mood/outlook, especially afterwards when I was comforted.

Definitely yes! Enemas are always a stress relief. At least when not used regularly.

I believe it a multifactor thing. From trivial distraction effect. To a body-focused meditation and submissiveness.

Especially, the harsh enema is the process that not allows to concentrate on something else.

@Passivetemp "...This topic seems so obvious, yet I have not seen a similar post."

I hadn't seen a similar question, either. Thank you for so many thoughtful comments!

Taking an enema usually has a calming effect when I get "hard to live with" (my husband's choice words!) so it's heartening to learn that others have similar experiences. Maybe all those busy psychotherapists treating patients for emotional issues should advise their patients to buy an enema bag!

What a coincidence that I saw this post today. I was actually thinking about this yesterday. I decided yesterday that I would take a few enemas to make myself feel better both mentally and physically. I needed the stress relief and the sense of calm that enemas give me. They seem to wash the tension away and leave me refreshed and at peace. I was thinking that perhaps the agony/ecstasy sensation the enema produces through cramps and the filling of the colon and the relief of expelling causes endorphins to be released into the brain. Perhaps similar to the "high" reported by distance runners. I don't know, but it is a feeling I crave, and I need it right now.

Sex in the afternoons is often more of a quicky, but enema play is going to result in more or all clothing being removed and considerably more touching, rubbing and conversation and not three minutes but more like 90 minutes as both of us are going to get it. This often comes with the admonition that you are not finished with what I want to give to you, there is going to have to be more before you sleep tonight.

Without a doubt the code word for an enema is thing as this works in public or when with friends. There was one couple we get along with and have knows for some time, when we are in mixed company the conversation is not so oriented as to be very sexual in nature, but the word enema comes up sometimes as we know we all get them. Our friends wife however picked up on my wife's reference to her saying she had something for me so not to be planning too much for the next few hours. As we were looking at their garden and greenhouse we were no longer together and my friends wife asked if the something was sex or an enema because she noticed my crotch swell up after my wife made the reference, and that she had seen that happen before. Almost immediately she then said, since your face is turning red I bet your going to get an enema. My reply was that I hated to be so obvious. Her reply was, that's okay, I've seen your wife tease you that way many times, but when she does I get hot as well, that means my OM is going to get the same treatment probably before you guys get home. This couple is the only one that has broken our code word use, but I'm not too surprised, she was a nurse when she met her husband and wasted no time in showing him what nurses had to do to some patients on their second date.

You may well be able to have sex in many more public settings but it is going to be hurried, the down time an enema imposes is a good thing for a relation, pun intended.

Along this same mindset, I think I may start a new thread that touches on the idea that it may be better to give than receive. BTW, as far as "code words" go, I love to get "major physical therapy" but often can only give "minor PT". What a shame that some just don't buy into those emotional and psychological benefits!

@Vicki_V "Taking an enema usually has a calming effect when I get "hard to live with" (my husband's choice words!) so it's heartening to learn that others have similar experiences."

Let's be real. When my husband informs me that "I'm hard to live with," he's not always hinting that I should take an enema (although I may need one), it's also signal to "reset" by paying more attention to myself – more exercise, less stress, less fatty foods, less time at work, less computer time at home, back to spending time with husband on date nights (which we've let slip), and definitely more cuddling! Our 40th wedding anniversary is next spring. Oh, my! Where did the time go?

Yes depending on the session. A long deep cleanout with large and/or a number of enemas, relaxation, and good expulsions sets the conditions for really calm and content feeling. Tension, stress, and a calm gut all feel relieved. This can give me a reset for sure.

Yes always feel good emotionally after a enema less stressful.

More likely to have a much better day. Belly wise and Brain wise.❤️