Hands-free Dry Prostate Orgasms

This is something that’s intrigued me for the last 12+ years after I decided to buy my first prostate stimulator.

As I used an Aneros for years on the quest for elusive hands-free wet orgasm, I found that dry orgasms can be much more powerful and sustained for a longer period of time. When I was frequenting the Aneros boards where we all tried to help each other reach our goals, I found that using meditation and relaxation was crucial to making this happen.

Within the last 4-5 years, I’ve found that I can bring on dry orgasms just by breathing and relaxing. These days, I’ve even been awakened from a sound sleep in the middle of an orgasm.

If you haven’t had one of these, they’re quite an experience. Usually, my whole body will lock up and sometimes I won’t even have an erection (but as I ride the waves, I usuall get hard as a rock), but as I’m cumming, I can control my breathing and clench my core and I can sustain it for as long as I can stand it.

Last night, I had one of the most intense orgasms of this type that I’ve ever had. Again, it woke me up and I decided to go with it. After about five minutes, it started to get even more intense. My girl was sleeping soundly next to me or else I might have asked for some help. 😉. My body usually locks up, but this was even more intense and it finally felt like I was going to have a wet orgasm after all of these years of trying. I kept working the muscles in my ass, trying to push out a load.

Several times, it felt like I was but no. I kept trying and dry cumming, but it never happened. I finally grabbed my cock and started jerking off. Usually that will kill the whole thing, but this time I was able to masturbate and maintain my dry orgasms.

When I finally did ejaculate, it didn’t feel any different than the dry ones that I kept constantly having. I was so hot, that I shot up to my chin.

If you haven’t yet unlocked this level of awesome, I suggest you try it. The key is relaxation. Start with a good prostate stimulator. Aneros is a great one to start with. I’ve moved up to the Njoy as it’s stainless and way easier to keep clean. Good luck!

Totally agree! Have also been an Aneros user for many years enjoying the intense pleasure to be experienced! Aless sessions sometimes spring up and reward me with continuous dry orgasms! Relaxing and going with the wave is always pleasurable! Only had one or two hands free wet orgasms but as mentioned the dry ones can go for a long time! Definitely recommend trying it! You won’t be disappointed!

I admittedly am a little jealous! I bought a year ago my first prostate massager/vibrator ever from amazon. It is certainly a pleasurable experience and definitely increases the level of orgasm I experience when I use it. However, I haven't ever had stand alone prostate only orgasms or dry orgasms from such. I would love to experience this kind of sensation (I am sure its very powerful), but I as much as I do love to have my prostate palpated or massaged, I don't think I am so sensitive to that kind of stimulation to make me cum just by itself.

@Long_Lee Keep at it and you’ll get there. When I first got it and as I read through the forums, I wanted it to happen so badly that I wouldn’t let myself relax.

After one of the first times using it, I was frustrated so I masturbated and drifted off to sleep leaving it inside me. A few minutes later, this flushed feeling awakened me and I realized that I was in the beginning of a dry orgasm. It hit me with such force that I knew I would be doing this for the rest of my life.

Don’t give up…and just relax. Deep breathing is a good way to start to help you do that.

Hi there, I would like to seek advice about this topic because I want to provide myself with a prostate massage orgasm but I don't know anyone who I could play with or I need a recommendation of a physical massager/vibrator that I could experiment with. Please help me if you can. Thanks, Steve

I would start with an Aneros. Go to their website and choose one that you’re comfortable with.

You might also want to look into meditation techniques. Perhaps some guided meditation recordings—you should be able to find something online like on YouTube. Listen to the recordings while it’s inserted and relax.

That’s about the best way to experience a prostate orgasm by yourself. I’ve tried vibrating massagers, but I thought they were overkill (for me personally, YMMV) because I tried to rush it thinking they would bring me there faster.

I will have to caveat my previous posting here. Every so often, I will experience "mini orgasms" if you will without touching myself that are particularly focused in my perineal area and prostate. It tends to happen mostly in the car (usually I am turned on when this happens too). I think I'm manipulating my pelvic and perineal muscles in such a way that it triggers these periods of pleasure, but its not super strong like a regular orgasm is. No ejaculation or anything. I didn't really think about this until the other day when it happened again, but definitely will have to "play" with it and see if I can make it happen more consistently.

It takes awhile if you just started learning. I also bought various dildos,butt plus, and began experimenting. It takes deep breathing, focusing, focus on the pleasure with the dildo pressed inside you gently moving back and forth hitting your prostate, a few gentle touches on your cock helps. Eventually if u get to that spot , you’ll feel a bunch of mini waves of pleasure which are very different from a penis orgasm. The prostate orgasm you can feel from your head to your toes. If you can have another man gently assist (or woman), I think it’s easier in some ways to learn …and afterwards you can do it by yourself.

Great discussions here - please keep them coming! Always good to share experiences! Breathing, focus, and muscle control will get you much pleasure! Takes time to learn to relax and ride the waves !

Many years ago I purchased an Aneros plug when they first came out, for the sole purpose of attempting a hands-free orgasm. Unfortunately, try as I might, it never happened spontaneously. I did notice after a few years that they had increased the size of the plug which may have made I difference for me. I like being filled with something quite big for the proper stimulation of my prostate. So, I might have had different results with the larger model.,

When I was very young only 5 when started to poke around my bottom. I was given enemas by my parents to make me go poop and at first it was very innocent. I was just pretending I was having an enema. My playing then got a bit more intense. Soon I felt like I could tickle myself inside. I thought it was so neat. It felt better and better. Until I felt my entire body tickle. It was incredible even at this so young age. I had a dry orgasm of course but I have never forgot the feeling of the first few times. I remember it was so intense for me. My entire body would stiffen up and I would shake. I a few times thought I hurt something inside even. I had no idea what I was feeling or what was going on but I loved feeling like I did and tried to make myself feel this incredible tickle sensation as much as I could when I had the chance... LOL...