It will always be a Vagina, not a Vulva.

I am glad my sub knows where his "part" goes into my "part" and we get to enjoy each other sexually.

"Fuck me!", gets the results we both want. No matter the proper name of each of our body parts.

The Vulva is a completely different female part from the vagina. Well it is in the UK anyway.

The Vulva is a completely different female part from the vagina. Well it is in the UK anyway.

Not only in the UK. Unfortunately it's a common problem for the wrong word to be used, and it happens so often it seems many people don't actually know the correct term.

Not only in the UK. Unfortunately it's a common problem for the wrong word to be used, and it happens so often it seems many people don't actually know the correct term.

And in a substantially large part of the English-speaking world, with ever increasing prudery and resistance to giving decent sexual education, this will not be getting any better in the future.

And in a substantially large part of the English-speaking world, with ever increasing prudery and resistance to giving decent sexual education, this will not be getting any better in the future.

Amen. For many years, I answered questions at an online Q&A site, and it was shocking how little many teens and young adults knew about their own bodies, about pregnancy and preventing it, about disease transmission, about female orgasm and where her clitoris is, about not hurting one's partner in anal insertion, and so much more.

I shouldn't be the person teaching a girl where a tampon goes and how to put it in, much less why she has periods even if she has not sinned...

Gillian Anderson wore a dress that was embroidered with “vaginas”. Problem was, the designs were really “vulvas” and were called out by some ob gyn doctors. If you check the photo in the link, the embroidery is white on white and not real visible unless you zoom in. They definitely are realistic PUSSIES! 😀😀😀

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/gillian-andersons-golden-globes-gown-005944239.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=0_00

Sorry to burst your bubble, but to the majority of men it will always be a pussy.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but to the majority of men it will always be a pussy.

@tillie. Good catch. I amended the last line of my post to reflect that! 😀😀

I rather enjoy the term vulva. The vulva-vagina spelling similarity of v_ _ _ _a is amusing, but I really enjoy the difference between the sounds and the meanings of those two words. Caressing a vulva, being inside a vagina, so delightful and different in their own way.

My two daughters, both not yet in puberty, have moved from “girl parts” to “privates” to “vulva”. I don’t remember the tipping point, but there were times when a mild rash, hygiene issues, or basic self exploration brought up the need for us to talk about specifics of anatomy. I am comfortable using the proper terms, and believe using the right words is one of the many small empowering steps I can give my daughters on their journey to being strong, independent, and confident women.

Knowing the difference between those two words and refusing to use them correctly make as much sense to me as referring to kidneys as nostrils, or ear drums as milk ducts. What is your problem? It’s fine with me if you want to age play the part of a little and use the childish terms of girly-bits or hoo-hah. As an adult you are free to use pussy, or whisker-biscuit, or coochie-snatcher. But if you are going to start using terms like esophagus, urethra, or cervix, you either use them correctly or you broadcast to others that you don’t know what you are talking about, or you don’t care about being seen as ignorant. Do you know the difference between cock and balls? How about breast and nipple? This is a medfet-kink-erotic web site. Words are the tools of our craft.

I rather enjoy the term vulva. The vulva-vagina spelling similarity of v_ _ _ _a is amusing, but I really enjoy the difference between the sounds and the meanings of those two words. Caressing a vulva, being inside a vagina, so delightful and different in their own way.

I also like and use the correct anatomical terms. Vulva-Vagina is an appealing alliteration. But there are times when the rather cute or crude terms are also appropriate. I don't think of having oral sex with her vulva or vagina - I think of it as the whole enchilada -her pussy - even though oral sex is mostly focused on her vulva. Likewise she would think of sucking my cock vs sucking my penis. Those terms seem more appropriate at that instance, plus they are a tad "naughtier and less medical" and sorta set the mood.

There's a time and a place for each of the terms. When referring to your genitals, the proper terms should be understood and used as @Hookajoe says, sadly some don't know the difference. When having sex, you're in a different mindset - at least I am! 😈