Ladies: How was your first same-sex experience?

Ladies, I'm just curious. Therefore I made this questionaire for you.

Thank you to all of you ladies who don't mind to talk openly about this topic.

Would you describe yourself as bi or as lesbian or...?

How old were you when you first discovered that you find girls/women sexual attractive?

Did you do some kind of doctor play with your female friends in your childhood? If so, at what age?

Old old were you at your real first time with a female lover?

Your first female lover, was she older or younger than you or almost the same age?

Was she experienced?

How would you describe her, was she the more femine type or more androgynous in her appearance?

Would you mind to give us some details of our first time exerience?

How does it happened?

Did you seduce her oder did she seduce you?

Was one of you or were both shaved or bushy at that time?

What did you do together?

Was it a good experience for you or not?

Any remorse or regret afterwards?

Did you ever talk before or shortly after your first time with someone else of your sexual desire for females?

If so, what was their reaction to it?

After your first time, did you repeat it with her? Was it better than the first time?

Was it just a sexual encounter or did you start a kind of relationship with her?

If so, how long did it last? Was it a secret relationship?

After your first time, did you have later sexual eperiences with other girls/women?

Way too many questions in one post... but I'd describe myself as bi-sexual.

I think I always had a same sex attraction but really didn't get what that was...

My first same sex experience other than a kiss was when I was 20, she was 24.

Would you describe yourself as bi or as lesbian or...?

*I would describe myself as bisexual at this point in my life.

How old were you when you first discovered that you find girls/women sexual attractive?

*Not an easy question. My first same sex encounters started in childhood. I've always thought women were more attractive than men. Don't get me wrong, a well-built man is eye candy but given my druthers I'd rather look at a naked woman. I think we're prettier. While I never had fantasies about any of my friends, the couple of times we snuck into pornographic movies, I was turned on by the lesbian scenes - although I did the 'ew gross' along with the rest of the girls, I wasn't going 'ew gross' inside, I was getting wet. I figured there was something wrong with me and pushed it down.

Did you do some kind of doctor play with your female friends in your childhood? If so, at what age?

*yes with a female cousin from 7 or 8 until 12

Old old were you at your real first time with a female lover?

*I was 40 and it was after I separated from my husband and was in the middle of a divorce. She was a classmate (I was going to school to finish my degree) and she seduced me. It was wonderful.

Your first female lover, was she older or younger than you or almost the same age?

*About 10 years younger than me.

Was she experienced?

*Yes. She had most recently been the 3rd in a polyamorous relationship.

How would you describe her, was she the more femine type or more androgynous in her appearance?

*Feminine.

Would you mind to give us some details of our first time exerience?

*We were friends and a part of me knew she found me attractive. I knew she was bi, she was very open about it. We had been talking about my starting to date and I was saying I wasn't ready for it, she suggested that we go out on a 'date' to break the ice. We went to dinner and a movie and went back to my apartment to have a drink. She leaned in and kissed me and I responded.

How does it happened?

*See above

Did you seduce her oder did she seduce you?

*See above

Was one of you or were both shaved or bushy at that time?

*She was shaved, I had a landing strip

What did you do together?

*We did a lot of kissing, got naked, fingered each other and she went down on me. I didn't go down on her that first time.

Was it a good experience for you or not?

*Do you mean 'did I cum'? Yes, several times. She was quite skilled.

Any remorse or regret afterwards?

*Tons. Lots of guilt as my divorce wasn't final and guilt that I had a homosexual encounter. Didn't stop me from doing it a few more times with her, but yes I felt guilty.

Did you ever talk before or shortly after your first time with someone else of your sexual desire for females?

*no

If so, what was their reaction to it?

After your first time, did you repeat it with her? Was it better than the first time?

*we were together for a couple of months. Yes we repeated it and it got better. Eventually I went down on her and realized I didn't hate it.

Was it just a sexual encounter or did you start a kind of relationship with her?

*More than sex, less than a relationship. She wound up in a relationship with a guy as did I and our thing just sort of ended.

If so, how long did it last? Was it a secret relationship?

*about 3 months and the sexual part was secret I guess. We didn't talk about that part with others anyway.

After your first time, did you have later sexual eperiences with other girls/women?

*Not for about 10 years

Ladies, I'm just curious. Therefore I made this questionaire for you.

Thank you to all of you ladies who don't mind to talk openly about this topic.

Would you describe yourself as bi or as lesbian or...? I used to be bi. I am now a lesbian but I am a lipstick lesbian.

How old were you when you first discovered that you find girls/women sexual attractive? I was 12 when I caught my sister masturbating and she showed me how. Fingers only and only to the hymen. But I had to show my best friend.

Did you do some kind of doctor play with your female friends in your childhood? If so, at what age? Yes. When my sister who is two years older than me started to bud they moved her into another room when we went to the doctor for a yearly exam and shots. After I asked her to show me what the doctor did. Again I had to show my best friend. These were more like experimenting.

Old old were you at your real first time with a female lover? I was 17 and it was after my boyfriend broke me and it sucked. It took all of two minutes. I didn't even cum. As soon as he got it all the way in he came. I had complained about how bad it sucked. I was in college and my roommate kept telling me that she would show me how it is done. One night after we had some guys over drinking and got rid of them she showed me.

Your first female lover, was she older or younger than you or almost the same age? I would not call my sister a lover she was 14 and I was 12. But the full-on female to female in college she was 17 and so was I.

Was she experienced? Yes she was

How would you describe her, was she the more femine type or more androgynous in her appearance? Yes femine. Nobody could believe when we told people we were lovers.

Would you mind to give us some details of our first-time experience? Well, when the guys were there and we had drank all of their alcohol we were ready to get rid of them so we told them we were lesbians. They wanted us to prove it so we kissed. A very slow wet kiss with tongue. They wanted to watch more but we told them no. So after they left she and I were sitting on the couch talking and she asked me what I thought about the kiss. I told her it was great. She asked if it made me wet. Of course I said yes and she took my hand and led me to her bedroom and pushed me onto the bed and got on top of me and started stripping me. She said she wanted to see if I really did get wet. All it took was her touching me and feeling how wet I was. She put two fingers in me easy. Then we ended up naked and the rest is history so to speak. I had a lot of major orgasms that night. So did she.

How does it happened? Read above

Did you seduce her oder did she seduce you? She seduced me

Was one of you or were both shaved or bushy at that time? We were trimmed. It was winter. Had it been summer I would have been bare and so would my roommate.

What did you do together? Kissed, fingered, licked and cuddled. We woke up cuddling

Was it a good experience for you or not? A great experience

Any remorse or regret afterwards? No, none.

Did you ever talk before or shortly after your first time with someone else of your sexual desire for females? Well if you read above it tells you. But we were both sort of shy the next morning. But that shyness didn't last long before we talked about it. We both loved it and we were always slipping into each other's room.

If so, what was their reaction to it? She loved it as well. We even bought toys together.

After your first time, did you repeat it with her? Was it better than the first time? It was equal to the first time. But I had a boyfriend and she did not. One of the things we agreed on was that I would not let him cum in me even though I was on the pill. She said that when she was licking me if he had been there just days before she could taste him and it caused her to think of him and they really did not like each other from the start. She even commented," Thank goodness he lives six hours away". So if he did not pull out in time I was still protected. We were sort of like the two girls in the movie Stripped Naked. Where I would have been Cassie and she would have been Jade. Except I fell in love with her. Not like the movie. She fell in love with me as well. We were all the time buying each other gifts. I was working at an internet service and she didn't have to work because her parents were rich. I was always sitting cross-legged on the floor and singing to music while I studied. Sometimes okay a lot of times I would do that naked. Like if I just got out of the shower. That Christmas I remember crying so much. All of you may think this is stupid. But I bought her a necklace with a diamond pendant that cost $99.00. She bought me a set of Bose earphones I had seen while we were shopping for our families. I put them on and cranked up some music and then put them on her. I said holy sh*t look at the price. They were like $300+. I cried about those and she told me she wanted me to have them because she enjoyed hearing me sing and preferred to hear me without music. I really started balling. My boyfriend in my senior year talked me into renting a house with him. Now that I regret a lot. Then when I saw that movie we were all watching it in our living room. I got up and went to my bedroom crying. My sister's girlfriend and her niece asked my sister what is wrong and my sister told them she thought she knew. When the movie started and the girl named Jade walked into the kitchen after the movie began. My sister looked at me instantly. My mouth was open and my sister could tell. That is how close they looked a like. She came to my room and had me laughing in no time. Then she went and told everyone what was happening. The girl being treated like crap in the movie named Jade looked like my roommate in college except my roommate had longer bangs. That was the only difference. She had the same eyes, small boobs, and wore her makeup the same. Okay enough of the mushy girly stuff.

Was it just a sexual encounter or did you start a kind of relationship with her? It was a relationship.

If so, how long did it last? Was it a secret relationship? Three years

After your first time, did you have later sexual eperiences with other girls/women? Yes

Would you describe yourself as bi or as lesbian or...?

Bi

How old were you when you first discovered that you find girls/women sexual attractive?

13 or 14

Did you do some kind of doctor play with your female friends in your childhood? If so, at what age?

Began around age 14

Old old were you at your real first time with a female lover?

My teenage bff was my first lover, though I didn't think or use that word.

Your first female lover, was she older or younger than you or almost the same age?

Same

Was she experienced?

No

How would you describe her, was she the more femine type or more androgynous in her appearance?

Very cute and feminine and in control

Would you mind to give us some details of our first time exerience?

It started with our usual friendly handholding and hugs and sleepovers and slowly progressed from there

Was it a good experience for you or not?

Wonderful!

Any remorse or regret afterwards?

No

After your first time, did you repeat it with her? Was it better than the first time?

Continued for a couple years

Was it just a sexual encounter or did you start a kind of relationship with her?

We didn't even call it sex, we just played and played 'doctor'

If so, how long did it last? Was it a secret relationship?

No one knew about us

After your first time, did you have later sexual eperiences with other girls/women?

Yes

I remember that my cousin and I were having a sleep over at our grandma's house. She had already had her shower and I was next. We we 2 years apart 7 &9.

Well, I got out of the shower, put on my robe and ran to our room. I walked in to see she was laying on the bed, legs apart, playing with herself. I asked her what she was doing and she showed me where to touch on myself and then let me touch her there and she touched me there. She also showed me how to do oral. We went off to sleep with our hands in each others pants

My first experience with another woman was when I was 24, she a bit older at 54. I had left my first husband when I happened to meet her and yes it did not take long for us to end up in bed together, she was a fantastic lover, an extremely shrewd person as she showed me how to skin my soon to be ex husband in the courts, and skin we did. The relationship lasted about a year as she moved out of state to be closer to her grandchildren. She found happiness and remarried however it was short lived as she passed on from cancer.

For the next 8 years I remained single dating both men and women, and to be honest, found the company of another woman to be a far better experience than a man. I have been married now well over 20 years, my husband takes his golf and football trips with his cronies, I still take some trips with my female friends and I must say, it has worked out very well.

• Your first female lover, was she older or younger than you or almost the same age?
  • My first female lover was about 20 years older than me and a family friend.
• Was she experienced?
  • She was very experienced and I had asked her or told her that I wanted to know what it was like to have sex with a woman. I was going to ask another woman to help me out but the woman I eventually experimented with had been involved with her when she was young and said that she was bad news. That was OK with me because the woman who was my first real experience is fantastic and very patient and understanding.
• How would you describe her, was she the more feminine type or more androgynous in her appearance?
  • She is definitely very feminine and there is no doubt that she is a woman who is smart and knows what she wants.
• Would you mind to give us some details of our first-time experience?
  • No problem and I pretty much let her take the lead because I did not know what I was doing or what I wanted.
• How does it happen?
  • It started out slow with her touching me and we had our clothes on at the beginning. We did a lot of talking and she always told me what she was going to do before she did it.
• Did you seduce her or did she seduce you?
  • It wasn’t about seduction because I wanted to know what it was like to be with another woman. She was in the lead and her touching me got me aroused and I went along with what she was doing without question. It just took a little time and she was patient with me.
• Was one of you or were both shaved or bushy at that time?
  • We are both bushy.
• What did you do together?
  • We started out with her touching me and I didn’t set any limits on her and wanted to be touched. She knew how to touch me and where to touch but what really did it was her knowing when to touch and when to back off or when to go forward more. I liked her touching me and it made me want to touch her and she allowed me to touch her where and how I wanted. It started out with our clothes on but she knew when to start taking my clothes off and let me make my moves in taking hers off when it felt right for me.
• Was it a good experience for you or not?
  • It was great for me and she was so patient and experienced and after my initial shyness or being hesitant she had me wanting more and she let me set the pace.
• Any remorse or regret afterwards?
  • Not one little bit at all.
• Did you ever talk before or shortly after your first time with someone else of your sexual desire for females?
  • The first time I spoke with someone was my cousin when I told her I wished I hadn’t chickened out with her back then and she said she understood and she was not sure if it would have been the right thing for us to do then.
• If so, what was their reaction to it?
  • She asked me if I had ever tried it with anyone and I told her about our family friend. She asked me if I was still curious and if I wanted to find out about the two of us or not?
• After your first time, did you repeat it with her? Was it better than the first time?
  • The woman I experimented with and I had several more times with each other. But with my cousin we started out with touching and kissing as we talked and it felt right and so we let it happen. After that first time with my cousin, we talked about it some more and we knew we didn’t want to stop after about our third or fourth time. I was totally into her by that time.
• Was it just a sexual encounter or did you start a kind of relationship with her?
  • Like I said I was totally into her and it felt right and it is right.
• If so, how long did it last? Was it a secret relationship?
  • It is ongoing and she later joined zity.biz and our husbands knew what we were doing and I think we wanted to include them not too long after she and I started. We had a lot of back and forth and questions as to how to involve our husbands and a lot of brain damage trying to set rules or whatever but that dissolved the more we got into each other and having our husbands take part too.
• After your first time, did you have later sexual experiences with other girls/women?
  • I will sometimes get with my “mentor” for some quality time but not too often. She is very attractive and like I said she is a family friend and not just someone I wanted to experiment with. My cousin has also had a few encounters with her but for the most part it is me and my cousin.