Favorite postion for a spanking

For the most part when I administer a spanking there are a few issues to take into consideration. One's age, size, why you are being spanked and what experience you have had with spanking. Were you spanked as a kid? And where are you, who are you with and what are you doing? And also if you are being spanked now, by who and how often? or it has been a long time, maybe when you were a kid, and you want to be spanked now as an adult.

But it can be OTK, bent over the bed or couch or a table.

The traditional spanker in a sturdy chair with the spankee over their knee is definitely my preferred position for giving or receiving a spanking. I feel like it really accentuates the connection between spanker and spankee. That said, for full-sized adults it can be a bit awkward, so alternatives like spanker sitting on couch or sofa makes it a bit more comfortable for the spankee. Comfortable in terms of supporting their weight - the discomfort arising in their bottom will still occur. The position creates great intimacy (not necessarily sexual) and - depending on the strength of the spanker and implements used - can be a light or severe punishment. For instances where more intensity is required, having the spankee standing and bent over (hands on knees, bending over furniture, etc) is the best position for applying a paddle or strap to the recipient's heinie.

I would say using OTK or bending over a chair. And this is based on what I got as a kid. The one thing I would love to have is a spanking bench. That comes from my childhood (1940s-1950s) A friend's mother had a spanking bench. Some times I would see one of his sibling get spanked while on it. She would follow it up by leaving them there for a period of time with a bright red bottom on display. I guess that was her version of corner time.

I dont have too much experience to say whats my favorite, but ive received it last time in kneel-chest position with wide spread legs.

Very emberassing position but give a plus for it.

(Just have to be careful, hit on "hole" can be hard)

The first time I was spanked, in a sexual way, was relatively recently at a small play party for people starting out in BDSM- but with all the right equipment.

I was the first to get over the awkwardness and use the spanking bench. It was a proper one which was nicely padded, so quite comfortable, but spread my legs extremely wide. There were about 20 people watching as I stripped off and was tied in. The more I was spanked the more aroused I got and as a trans guy who gets quite wet, I was dripping as all those eyes focused on my bum and between my legs.

It was an absolutely thrilling experience so experiencing a spanking in that position, even if it's just me kneeling and spreading on a bed to pretend, has always been my favourite. It brings back some very good memories!

Definitely... behind poking high up and over the knee or otherwise considered to be...on the lap/legs of the giver.

I would almost always grab a hold of one or both of their legs and hold on for dear life, at the time I was being spanked. It seemed to help for some odd reason. And I love the looks and feel of legs, to this very day, possibly partly because of that !?

For me, the position depends on a lot of things, such as the type of play (like the characters are we playing), the implement used, the level of intimacy I'm after, etc. But favorite positions of mine will always be having my partner across my lap or bent over something. Classics never go out of trend.

I prefer to give spankings to adult females based on implement i use for example...hand and hairbrush is otk, belt and paddle is bent over the edge of bed or laying on the bed on stomach

Over the knee and on the bed.

Over the knees, I would like him to use his hand or a hard wooden brush to spank my bare bum.

As for on the bed lying bum naked, he can use the wooden paddle i.e. with holes or without holes, thick carpet beater, bath brush or stainless steel skimmer spoon (check on the net... this thing is a real devil & it hurts a lot, but I love it so much) 😉

What is your favorite position to be spanked in? Do you ever spank yourself? If so, in what position?

Over the knee would have been the way to go if I were younger. I recently just discovered spanking and over the lap is more comfortable for 52 year old woman.

I prefer over the knee, without any doubt.

Letting her stand next to me. Removing any clothes that cover her ass. Inspect her vagina for any wetness.

Pulling her over my lap. Checking her ass and anus. Then holding her body over my knee (sometimes grab her right arm behind her back), while I start spanking her with my right hand.

Feeling and hearing how she reacts. Checking her ass aftwards.

Letting her stand again and inspecting her vagina for any wetness. Then let her stand in the corner with her bare red ass.

Over the knee would have been the way to go if I were younger. I recently just discovered spanking and over the lap is more comfortable for 52 year old woman.

@medfedcouple I can relate to that as my favourite position when spanking a woman. I sit on the bed with my back against the headboard and my legs straight out and the woman lays over my lap. It is more comfortable for both participants and also very intimate…

OTK is classic and a good start for a nice hand or small paddle spanking,bent over the back of chair or couch I like for the belt and laying on the bed works well for that as well and if I am to be caned leaning fed or laying on the bed seems to work out well and with being subby what ever position I’m told to be in is the position I’m in

For me, over the knee is the most crucial part of completing my submission. Having my clothing lowered to my ankles, or completely removed altogether, and being forced to present my naked bottom high into the cool air for the spanker to view and punish is terribly shameful, but a key reason why over-the-spankings are so feared, yet effective.

I really love putting boys in the wheelbarrow position for a spanking. Their bottom is right in my face, exposed and vulnerable, and I can spank their cheeks almost like I'm playing bongos 😃

Over knee or over lap. Pretty hot when, pants and underwear down (or off altogether), I go over one knee and my spanker locks my legs in place so I can't kick with with his other leg. Of course, it's pretty exciting to go over the lap and be held tightly around the waist while he spanks or paddles me. In that scenario I can buck, kick, and squirm as much as he will permit. Of course I also like being bent over the end of a couch, or spanked on all fours.

I never received one, but if I received one from my Lady I would like to be on those ceiling hangers, so she can access my nipples, balls and butt with hands or even a flogger for her pleasure……and mine too. And would be a perfect position for a strapon use too.

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As a boy growing up I was never spanked. However, I was whipped with a belt when I was bad and needed to be punished. It was from my father every time. I would be required to lay on my stomach on my bed fully nude. I was then tied to the bed and he would take his belt to my bare bottom. When he stopped my bottom was normally a bright pink or red and stayed that way for about three hours. As for sitting down, it all would depend on what I did. If it was something really bad, I would not be able to sit for a day or two. The marks would sometimes last for up to a week. YES, THEY HURT REALLY BAD.

As for my sister, she got the same thing. The only exception is that it was from our mother, not our father.

Today, I do not like to be whipped. However, I may take an occasional spanking from either a male or female as long as it is not too severe. No marks, redness or soreness that lasts more than an hour or so. And, no, I will not allow him or her to tie me down as my father did when I was a young boy growing up. I like to just be told to lay down on the bed flat on my stomach and take a good bare bottom spanking from the one doing it to me.

I was usually spanked while lying over the edge of the bed and a belt or strap was used. The most sensual spanking that I ever got was when I was spanked by a trans who had great breasts and wore stockings and garter and bra. I was over her lap and beaten with a leather paddle. I could feel her cock getting hard under me and I did something I never thought I would do, I had her fuck me while I was on my back with legs on her shoulders. I felt so sensual and submissive. It is something that I have never repeated, but probably would do again. She also gave great cleansing enemas

Lying naked from the waist down, my bare butt over pillows that have been placed in the center of my bed. This position gives the spanker the opportunity to swing a belt or strap full force straight down to strike either/or both butt cheeks from both sides of the bed. The spanker has better control of overlapping, and can aim for the butt crack from either side of the bed.

Generally, it starts OTK with the spanker sitting in a chair. Then it can move to the bed, but still OTK. Then on my tummy with my hips over pillows…

OTK with spanker in a chair, or overlap with spanker sitting on couch or bed. Over lap on the couch tends to work best as I'm on the taller side.

OKT or over the lap, or over one knee spanking.

Especially with an open diaper.

Otk is great oh, I'm only a 165 lb so I fit. But my favorite is a position that requires some submissiveness. Where you hold your bottom out and hold still to assist the spanker so she can give you a good one with minimal effort. Like half bent over with your hands on the arm of a couch positioning your bottom perfectly for the spanker's convenience.

OTK, or bent over a stool and holding on the other side. Frequent corrections on maintaining position are nice.

Men and women like to embarrass me when they remove my clothes and have me get on a carpet or on a bed on my hands and knees with my bottom up in the air. They then spank my bare bottom and upper thighs which often results in feelings of pain and erotic pleasure. I become very submissive and obedient during this type of spanking.

I too have answered this question before. It's Over the Knee with bare bottom up. It gives the spanker total control. I am a switch so I know the position very well.

Like sex its best to mix positions up. Otk is nice and close for partners involved but their is special place in my heart for legs up in a sort of modified diaper position.

Depends on the reason behind the spanking. If it's purely pleasure otk or kneeling on the bed are great. If it's a punishment bent with hands against the wall, bound to a bench or pushed down on a table with asses well up in the air.

There is also a différence if the spanker use a hand or something else.

If it's a mix…well… all is fair game for me.