Favorite postion for a spanking

I have been spanked bent over, kneeling and in the diaper position...all of which are very effective....however. the over-the-lap position is still my my favorite.

When giving a spanking I will sometimes take a RT to add additional embarrassment to the spanking itself.

OTK all the way. It has a humiliation factor to it, and I think is safer - less likely to hit genitalia, can't fall over, and so on. The humiliation aspect is the most important though. Being held down in such juvenile position, pants, undies, or diaper down around the knees or ankles, being scolded while having your bottom spanked - just so much fun!

Mine is bent over either holding knees or over a table or desk.

Diaper position or OTK is the most embarrassing

Back in my childhood, my favorite position was "over the knee" or lying on the bed - possibly with a big pillow under my hips.

The most humiliating / embarrassing was "touching toes".Usually I was spanked in standing position trying to hold my hands crossing on my chest or bending over something...Bare bottom - of course

I have always loved OTK because I love the human contact. Most humiliating was when I was a boy and my aunt would make me fetch the bench from her sawing machine and put it next to the arm of her sofa. I had to take off my clothes and then kneel on the bench and lay over the arm of the sofa. I hated it because my bare bottom stuck up high and I felt trapped and couldn't move on the sofa. It was really bad if she used the leather belt she had, it burned awful!

Diaper position is my favourite for receiving or giving next to that it would be bent over back of chair or table

Being spanked over the knee is the most embarrassing position for me. Or having to stand on all four in front of the spanker with my.. Everything exposed. *blushes*

Diaper position, definitely humiliating.. but over the knee - is very embarrassing.

My privates next to a leg... and my bottom on display in a perfect position for the spanking.

I now like to be kneeling over a hassock, spanked with a bath brush, until well beyond the point that I can force myself to stay in place, stop begging and pleading, and just accept the fact that my spanking will end only when my wife wants to stop.

OTK will always be that special yet intimate position. It also gives you a nice view of the girls butt. This is of course with bare hand, I think with something like a cane or paddle or switch, a different position might be more manageable.

It depends on the punishment. My Mistress who I've been seeing for 3 1/2 years gets a chair, a paddle or hairbrush, then says "Over my lap". Frequently, she will take my right hand and hold it on my back. Very helpless feeling. A previous Mistress spanked me the same way but often would want to whip me with a belt. She would put me over her left knee then take pretty big swings with the belt and whip me about 40 times. She implied that she was whipped the same way when she was younger.

While on this topic, many people including myself say "over the knee" but the position is really "over the lap". Not to split hairs, but I guess "over the knee" implies being over 1 knee like for a belt whipping although I've also be spanked with a hairbrush in that position.

As a confirmed submissive, I have no desire to become dominant or switch. But I am not masochist, and need to be restrained in order that my punishment be carried out to its full extent. That means either being tethered in a standing position, usually in a doorframe, or secured to a spanking bench. I would not say that either is a 'favorite position,' both are demeaning but necessary.

Definitely over the knee and either sitting on a chair, or over the knee while sitting on a bed

Odd one here, I don't like OTK. I do like bending over anything, Bed, desk, table , chair, holding my knees, etc. Also like being on knees and elbows on a bed and hands on a wall.

My wife especially likes kneeling facing the back of a couch and being restrained in a standing position, with a spreader bar.

I can not say I have a favorite position---I get paddled by my wife once in a great while--for very serious reason---there is never any argument from me--I know damn well I have it coming I always shower and just bend over and hold my shins---No reason except that is how my coach paddled us in football--with out thinking about it--I just bend over and hold my knees or my shins right out of the shower--thanks coach!

I love the vulnerability of being over someone's lap for a spanking and what is so special about that position is the intimacy that you have with the spanker. It is essential that they are able to control you in that position whether that be through pinning your legs with theirs and holding your arm behind your back or simply controlling the situation well. Either way it is a great place to be to receive a hand spanking.

My other option would be the legs up or diaper position spanking. A bit more painful than an over the lap spanking and harder to maintain position for, but it is one that opens up other possibilities and vulnerabilities! When ones legs are pressed up into their chest there is a lot less struggling they can do to try to escape and the area between the legs and cheeks is very much revealed and on display which is both humiliating and potentially erotic!

For me it has to be OVER THE KNEE!

Bare Bottom OTK always bare bottom

I went a few times to a pro spanker. She first had me stand in front of her naked for a scolding. Then OTK head over right leg(she's left handed). Halfway through she's shift me so I was facing backward, over her right leg & knee, with my penis and testicles splayed out over her knee. She'd continue spanking my butt alternating with spanks on my penis and testicles. She used paddles or leather spankers on the butt and smaller sticks, spankers or just the hand on my genitals. I preferred the body contact to being bent over furniture. I specified 'no marks.' I got a beating & whipping once with bruises and bleeding. That was way too much and a bad experience.

I think OTK isn't embarrassing enough. Sure it makes one feel like a child but exposure is what gives it a boost. I'm interested in humiliation (nothing too extreme) so kneeling on bed with head down , ass up is what I think would be my favorite, it makes one feel so vulnerable. But who knows, maybe otk is actually better. Perhaps if given naked

My two cents: for a male, the most embarrassing would be to have to stand in front of your female spanker, who is seated in a chair in the centre of the room, while she undoes your belt and your trousers, pulls them down to your ankles, and lectures you. Meanwhile you are mesmerized at how sexy she looks with her hair all done up, in her tight fitting little black dress, and the intoxicating view of her very short-skirted lap, and pretty high heels. You blush furiously as your pants are being lowered and you know whats about to happen.

Making matters infinitely worse is that you are also scanning the room and seeing the very shocked but very smiling eyes of several pretty ladies who are witnessing your embarrassing predicament and relish in the knowledge of what they are about to see. They are all dressed in their sexy short skirts, party dresses, and high heels, and several of them have such teasing smirks on their faces. A few do an occasional hair flip and smile at you, saying something like "oh your poor little bare bottom is going to get it good now" or "oh I'm so going to enjoy watching this".

Your female spanker then directs you to lower your own underwear as a further act of submission. You let out a low groan hoping this could somehow have been avoided and that the last line of defense covering your vulnerable ass cheeks (and penis) could stay in place. But no. Your brief hesitation to depant yourself has annoyed your spanker and she might say "pull your underwear down NOW, or do I have to ask Cheryl to come over and do it for you?" Defeated, and blushing even more furiously at the thought of the prettiest lady in the room, Cheryl, who you've secretly crushed over for years, pulling the last bit of your modesty down and baring you to the delight of all the ladies, makes you snap back to reality and quickly yank your own undies down. This results in a several giggles, oohs and ahhhs, and victory clapping from the ladies.

You see two of them high-five each other with big grins on their faces. You can't get over your spanker's lap fast enough, but she makes sure you are on full display to all the ladies first. The blood that is rushing to your face is also rushing to other parts of your body. Despite being so ceremoniously bared like this, and royally embarrassed, exposed with the knowledge that you are about to be spanked in front of all these pretty ladies, your rising member betrays you.

To the ladies' amusement, it shows them how a naughty and embarrassed man is getting aroused as well. They are delighted. By the time you are over your lady spanker's sexy lap for your bare bottom spanking, you have already just about died of embarrassment. Now you're just hoping the spanking isn't too severe and that whatever impression your pretty lady friends have of you being a strong masculine figure, doesn't forever melt away as you fear you may soon be reduced to a crying, blubbering, pleading, naughty 'boy' with tears streaming down his face as his frantically kicking legs causes his pants and undies to fly off his ankles.

Your shamelessly bared bottom is helpless to stop the raining onslaught of sharply delivered, crisp, loud spanks from your strong, determined, sexy spanker, who seems eager to impress her friends with what she can dole out. Rather quickly your lilly-white, upturned moon turns turns an angry, fiery red in front of all these smiling, delighted and sexy ladies who clearly are enjoying an UPPER HAND! on you. Indeed all four of your cheeks are now blushing furiously.

I had to lean over my parents bed when my stepdaddy whipped me and on all fours by my mom.

Most embarrassing ( and exciting! ) has to be diaper position. I enjoy it both as spanker and spankee. Second best position is on all fours; great views of all the naughty bits and their reactions.

I have to say that is two favorite position I like.

Over the knee bare bottom.

And being bent over a couch or over the bed bareass with the hairbrush or the belt.

It's definitely OTK. I had the first experience when I had a visiting nurse show up at my apartment to administer two pretty painful injections. Well she explained I needed my vitals signs done first, of course after answering a myriad of questions. We went into my bedroom and she took my BP and pulse, then said I was to have as per my doctor, my temperature obtained rectally. Somewhat surprised, I said "Where?" "Over my lap, it'll be easier and I'll then administer the injections".

I removed my robe, and she got her things ready. Thermometer (glass mercury), lubricant and filled the two syringes with the medication.

I spent a few minutes after she lowered my cotton briefs, over her knees, with that thermometer up my behind, and finally she removed it and read it, telling me I was not running a fever which was good, for if I was, the shots couldn't be given.

She had me stand up briefly and retrieved both syringes and filled them, then had me return over her knees. I felt a cool swab on one cheek of I guess isopropyl alcohol, then a sound slap on my right buttock, and the pressure of the needle going into my buttock, then the burning medication being injected! Next came the left butt cheek, again swabbed and a very well placed slap and the medicine being plunged into my muscle. As she injected the second needle I asked if she always smacked butts like that. She replied she did. I said I wondered if she ever spanked any of her patients. She withdrew the needle and kept me over her lap.

She then said "Do you want to find out about whether I do or not?" I said yes.

Having me adjust over her lap, she said if I thought the shots were painful, just wait.

It wasn't long before she was laying repeated well placed hard buttocks warming and reddening slaps across my buttocks. I can't remember by count as to how many well placed smacks I got, but I was "burning" and warm on my behind. And I was and am hooked, OTK!!

Luvs2spin, I wish that would happen to ME!

OTK has not happened to me as an adult, I wish my wife would do it like this: over her left leg, pinned in position with her right leg over my legs, with her legs crossed (locked in position) at her feet, my right arm held securely behind my back, using a paddle type bath brush with holes drilled in it,. Totally restrained with no hope of moving away, or out of position, and when I plead for the spanking to stop, she would spank me harder & increase the tempo, then tell me this will be my answer every time you beg me to stop, is that clear!

As an adult woman, i would say standing next to my seated spanker as he/she takes my pants down in front of other people. Especially if my panties are then whisked down to my knees and I'm still standing there scarlet faced with my hands behind my neck! Especially if the witnesses start to whisper and/or giggle! Going over the lap would be a relief, even with the spanking to come!