Do any women enjoy giving enemas to men?

There are a lot of topics which reveal that some women get aroused by receiving or getting ready to receive an enema. Also there are topics about whether men enjoy giving an enema to a woman, and if so how and why. But I have not found an answer to Do women get aroused by giving a man an enema?

For me that is most likely a “no” that does not arouse me. However, I am a submissive. If my partner stays in the dominate role, I could see doing enemas together and get off on that

YES.

Giving an enema is a very controlling and dominant thing to do, so women who are dominantly inclined, often enjoy the way they're controlling their sub.

Add to that that many people enjoy doing things that their partner enjoy, so if getting an enema makes their male partner happy ( maybe even gives him a raging hard on ) and that in turn makes them happy, since they're making their partner happy

I have spoken on this topic at length, elsewhere, My wife, who thinks to this day that she was the first woman that started giving me enemas,(I never told her of my many experiences before her) How she broached the subject was one evening she asked me if I ever had an enema and I told her about my childhood whenever anyone in my house got sick they got an enema. She then asked if I ever tried it while having intercourse, and even though I had I lied and said no, why? She said she wanted to try, but I turned the tables on her I said OK I will be glad to give you an enema while taking you from behind. So we did it and the sex was good, but when she came out of the bathroom with another full bag, I said you want another, she said its your turn. Before she became too sick to continue (11Yrs. ago) Giving me enemas in every position and high volume turned her on so much, that her vaginal juices, at times would be running down her legs, just preparing, the enema she was going to give me, she was so wet and ready that when we had sex at times I would have to cover her mouth (so the children would not hear) because she enjoyed the whole scene so much. She was so into giving me enemas once in the beginning I hid the only bag we had at that time, and that night she got so mad that she threatened me, and I thought she was going to have a nervous episode, until I told her where it was and I think I got 4/5 that night . There was an embarrassing moment one time when one of her sisters came over and they were in our bedroom she asked why are there hooks screwed into your bedroom ceiling, My wife quickly said I was thinking of hanging some plants, but it did not work out. SO THE ANSWER IS A RESOUNDING YES THEY LIKE THE POWER

I am not a woman, much less the spokesperson for all women. But I have, over the years, had many women give me enema. Some, I am convinced, thoroughly enjoy administering enema.

In my experience, yes but it is rare. I had an older woman in college, she was 26 to my 20, who loved giving me enemas followed by anal play. Stupidly cheated on her and got caught. Another girlfriend in college seemed to enjoy giving and receving. 20 years later, during a reunion and too many drinks, she offered to have sex but qualified it by saying she would not do any "silly" stuff that we did in college!

Anyone who had the opportunity to find a woman who likes to apply is a guy who can consider himself a lucky man

There are a lot of topics which reveal that some women get aroused by receiving or getting ready to receive an enema. Also there are topics about whether men enjoy giving an enema to a woman, and if so how and why. But I have not found an answer to Do women get aroused by giving a man an enema?

i don't think this has a (simple) yes or no answer, that it depends on the woman. I.e., some women "Do" get aroused, and some women do not. And probably for all sorts of complicated, individual reasons.

As an aside, i work as a critical care nurse in a hospital. We have one particular nurse, who is a woman, and she has reputation for liking to give enemas. i've known her for 9 years and i think it's more about her liking to penetrate people, she also likes to insert catheters, not sure about NG tubes? She's from N. China, so a bit different culture, but she's pretty transparent about her obvious enjoyment of putting tubes in people.

We’d been married about two years when I first gave my husband an enema. He was in pain from a back injury and the medication he was taking made him constipated, and he didn’t tell me until he was miserable. A home health nurse taught him how to give me enemas if I needed them after I was injured in an accident, so he knew how to use an enema bag and where the tube goes! 😆

In response to the subject, that first time when it was my turn to be on the giving side, I was nervous and more concerned with not hurting him and getting good results than how I was feeling. However, after 40 years of marriage and on rare occasions when I felt that he needed an enema to get him going, I’ve enjoyed being a nurse. We experienced some intimate moments when certainly I was affected. I can’t imagine two people so deeply in love who wouldn’t have those feelings.

We were married for a few months and on holidays in a village in Périgord. It was very warm and we used to stay in the room and make love after lunch. One day I decided to tell her that I enjoyed enemas and that I had a hard on just thinking of it. She decided to go to the pharmacy and get a big bulb of half a quart.

After that for the rest of the holidays I received an enema every afternoon. I notice that seeing bottom up aroused her and we both had quickly terrible orgasm. I tried to give her one or two enemas but she didn't like.. When we came back home we bought a long soft tube to use with a two quarts can. And twice a month I had right to one or two bulb and after one quart with the long tube. Fifty years later she's still aroused to give me an enema and I still love receiving one from her. I'm a lucky man.

Yes I do get aroused when giving my sub an enema. Knowing that he would get aroused and get a hard on because of the enema was a part of the foreplay for me.

Of course we do woman like the control factor and the power that they have over a man when they are controlling his bowels it's the same reason we enjoy sucking you it gives us complete control I can turn the strongest guy into a little boy when I give him a mommy enema I will talk to him in a very nurturing way I am a complete control

Of course we do woman like the control factor and the power that they have over a man when they are controlling his bowels it's the same reason we enjoy sucking you it gives us complete control I can turn the strongest guy into a little boy when I give him a mommy enema I will talk to him in a very nurturing way I am a complete control

I fully agree with that. Women like to have power over a man. The enema works well as a control method. First of all, it gives control over bowel movements - an intimate activity. Second, the man must submit to a humiliating procedure performed by the woman. Thirdly, for the enema, he must at least partially undress. Fourth, receiving an enema is a shameful secret.

Tricky in that it was hard to tell if was the enema or that the enema was making me hard and it was that that excited her.

While I cannot speak for women in general, the short answer is yes I do get aroused when giving my husband an enema. I am not sure why but it very well might have to do with him becoming aroused at the very thought he is about to receive and enema from the mention of it, through the preparation, the initial insertion of the nozzle and as the flow of water into him takes place. Relieving is built up tension is pleasurable for me be it a hand job or actual sex during the filling up with him on top and me either on my back or stomach for his choice of front door or back door sex. Of course, if it is back door, I insist on a thorough clean out which requires planning ahead. The whole scenario is a very intimate time between us.

While I cannot speak for women in general, the short answer is yes I do get aroused when giving my husband an enema. I am not sure why but it very well might have to do with him becoming aroused at the very thought he is about to receive and enema

There was never a time lag in our marriage to enemas. They were a part of our relationship from the second or third date. My wife or girl friend at that time was nervous about it but soon overcame that. It was not long after we were married that when she was horny and we were headed home from town and fifteen or twenty minutes out she would tell me I was going to get an enema after we got home. It was just as loud and clear as if she had coated her fingers with her anticipation and put them under my nose. More than one aspect I think, first, she was already hot and good to go, second, she liked to be dominate, third, her hand was guaranteed to be inside her panties if she still had them on as she held the bag over me. Fourth, she would take a breather of sorts while filling the enema bag as I emptied out and be laying on the bed with several possibilities, I could get a piece of ass, give her the enema and nibble on the lunch box, or spread my cheeks for her. With two adults, both wanting to get it off, turned on by the idea, with time on their hands, even if one of us was distracted by a call or something, the other was not going to be. If the phone rang and I had to take the call, her feeling my crotch while aroused of setting the enema bag on the table in front of me would lead to a short phone call. Same the other way around if she was on the phone. Just thinking about the times this has played out no for over fifty years is going to end up with me filling up an enema bag and grabbing her We-Vibe, she was taking a nap when I turned on the computer, but she won't be for long now, as the song goes, Afternoon Delight.

@cos said,

But I have not found an answer to Do women get aroused by giving a man an enema?

When my brother and I were teenagers, our sister enjoyed giving us enemas, as much as we enjoyed giving her enemas. It got started after our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens.

From the time we first started school, we spend four to six weeks at grandmas during summer vacation. Early on, grandma taught moms young teenage sisters how to care for us. Which included among other things, first aid, enemas, and spankings. She gave the girls the job of doing our evening bath, with the occasional enemas beforehand when needed. As we got older, my siblings and I picked up that mom's sisters enjoyed giving us and themselves enemas. They looked for any excuse they could to give us enemas, so they could do likewise afterwards.

Starting in Junior High, thanks to my sister, my girlfriend and I swapped enemas during her period each month. She enjoyed giving me enemas, just as much as I enjoyed giving her enemas. And she was just as turned on as I was, whenever we did enemas together.

Thank you Rick6981!

Probabley but I am not one of them.

I will say the first few enemas that I gave were not arousing to me because I was too focus on learning to do it right. A lot of questions running through my mind. Did I properly remove the air? Am I inserting the nozzle right? Do I have the bag at the right height? But once I learned the proper technique then I found it arousing to give an enema because I am anal erotic. I love to do anything anal whether giving or receiving. I think one can be born anal erotic. I didn’t get the childhood experiences of enemas, suppositories, rectal temperatures and etc.

I’d love nothing more than to do that. Oh the control. I have great thoughts. If u only knew. But since this water pill is working I have to seriously go!! Or I’d tell u! Lol 😂

I certainly do, although my husband is the only male who I have given an enema.

I have given former spouses an enema but I didn’t get any special feelings about it. I had much rather the enema be given to ME! That’s a whole different ballgame.

Closest I had was my gal masturbating while watching me giving myself an enema - she remained somewhat hidden looking into the bathroom where I was with the door open while remained in the shadows looking from a different room.

Still looking to find a gal interested in giving me one! The discussions here make me feel aroused, desirous, and missing the fun!! Though giving one would also be highly erotic fun also... 😉

Wonder what the ratio of women vs men who enjoy giving. Maybe those that are are not as outspoken about it.

Wonder what the ratio of women vs men who enjoy giving. Maybe those that are are not as outspoken about it.

At least here on Zity, seems there are quite a few women who like both, giving and recieving! Wish they would talk to my wife! 😀😀😀

At least here on Zity, seems there are quite a few women who like both, giving and recieving! Wish they would talk to my wife! 😀😀😀

@Rigel,

I probably just don’t remember it well and should already know this. Would you hypothetically like a Zity female enema lover to talk to your lovely wife about giving you enemas or about enjoying enemas from you? Or both?

Oh, yes, as to our OP’s original query, YES, my exes definitely got aroused, usually very aroused when giving me enemas and making me watch everything starting from preparing it. Keep reading - wait for it…………..

I suppose I was very lucky about this subject, but my ex-wife and recent ex-GF’s knew about every one of my 5-6 fetishes or kinks including enemas and were delighted to give or receive them with me, usually as Domme and sub. It turned out that her husband giving her erotic enemas was my ex-wife’s most intense and most closely-guarded sexual secret. It still took her several months after we were married to reveal that to me even after she had been contentedly giving me large long enemas for several months before that. That’s not in any way a criticism of her, quite the opposite. I was very impressed and grateful that she worked up her courage and trust in me to reveal it. And after that, she really did enjoy getting them from me whenever she wanted them.

Thanks,

Eric

I was very impressed and grateful that she worked up her courage and trust in me to reveal it. And after that, she really did enjoy getting them from me whenever she wanted them. Eric

Sorry that you lost her.

I love giving enemas to men and everything about it from filling their bag to slipping the nozzle into their butts. I also love how they react to the whole process and how they love the feel of their cock in my hands or mouth as they lay there and enjoy it all. Of course the men I give enemas to like them to begin with, either for what an enema is to them or the fact that enemas from me mean a lot of touching. I love it. 🌹