Do You Have an Enemate?

I did it was my ex-wife . We had many enjoyable years together. I miss that so much. Having a hard time finding someone else to share with.

So you went to the dealership got a lube job and got serviced?

I asked Santa to bring me one!

...mine now overshadows my mother…🤗😛🥰😇 … oder 😱😱😱….😂

After all these years and closing in on my upper 70's I have cultivated not one but two enemates that really enjoy being administered too. Now I just have to find one to administer to me.....

Over the years I have had small discussions with different women, but alas never followed it up.

The best was about about 5 years ago whist taking to a lady at work.

I said she looked great, she replied,I have just come back from a colonic and I feel great.

I managed to tell her that enemas were a great thing. She agreed and said she was going to get her husband a bag for himself, as he was using hers.

I retired soon after and we were friends on the book but nothing has ever become of it.

I would love a female just to talk to no strings attached.

Over the years ? Or right now ?

Ok first of all I am not answering this to brag, or make others jealous, but it was asked so I'm answering it

I host the Florida E-Fests and have been involved with the event for over 20 years. Being in the position in the enema fetish world I meet and have had enema play with several dozen different women over those years. Some of them are 1 date ones that were probably at Efest, but almost a dozen of them ended up being enema relationships, where we met a bunch of times, and in some cases we still do.

Currently I have about 5 different ladies who I could visit and say "wanna have some enema fun" and they'd say "yes". And now for the real kicker. Several of them have been introduced to each other by me and have become good friends ! So they all know about each other and they don't care. They're all the same kind of wonderful ladies who all like me and like what I can do with an enema bag.

In some recent meetings on some new Enemate dates I've started to hear something new that really makes me smile. As the one lady was leaving after her first appointment w Dr Probinbutz, where he rocked her world, she said.

"Thank you. You are as good as I knew you would be. Nobody can have as much equipment as you do, as many years experience as you do, and not be excellent. Thanks again. Well have to set up another meeting soon"

The years of collecting equipment and meeting ladies and couples is really starting to pay off

Enematically

Steve

aka Dr Probinbutz

Enema & Proctology specialist

Host 2024 Florida E-Fest

No. I could if I want to travel 75 miles one way. I give up trying to find one.

Sadly do not have one. Would be so fun to receive or give enemas, or both. In my fantasies I would prefer either a female or male/female couple. Would be nice if they were into other kinky things too....

Ah well

About a year ago I almost managed to make a connection here, but she flaked out before we ever got going. I am still open to the idea if the right person came along.

It was November, 1998 and I had just moved into my own apartment after legal separation from my wife of 22 years. I was lonely and miserable. I wasn't used to living on my own. I didn't have any clear direction as to my future. Computer chat rooms were novel and I soon found solace in chatting with friends with similar interests including enemas. The early chatrooms were varied but I remember "Nozzleville. "Enemasrus", and others that I stumbled into. In one such chat room, I met another enema enthusiast who coincidently lived 2 hours away. Our discussions became intimately exciting as we shared our enema interests and how we acquired them. Before long, a plan was set in place for me to travel to her place on a friday evening to meet and share with each other whatever interests were in common related to enemas. I would arrive Friday evenings at around 7 and upon first arrival, it was plain that we were completely in synch. Before long, I was naked, only wearing a small fitting t-shirt, laying on my tummy across her bed while she prepared and administered my first of many enemas given between us. She was set-up with a bungie-cord arrangement attached to a hook in the ceiling positioned directly over the bed. Her enema intake exceeded mine- she could take a full 4 quarts while my limit was always 3. Following each enema we talked during expulsions- about trust, the fulness we were feeling, the cathartic effect that enemas had upon us, the early enema experiences that we had.... Throughout the weekend, we were both bare bottom- again only maybe wearing a t-shirt or pj top but our bare bottoms exposed and our tummies revealing our swollen, distended enema tummies during our enemas. We cooked meals, took naps, watched enema porn, told stories, read internet blogs, chatted in enema chat rooms, and continued giving each other enemas from Friday evening off-and-on thru Sunday until Sunday evening when it came time for me to return home to my small apartment. This occurred over a year or two perhaps one weekend per month until she moved - out of state and eventually out of the country I believe. My memories of that singular experience in my life will forever be with me and I don't ever expect that situation to ever occur to me again. ....michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/87198

who coincidently lived 2 hours away..........travel to her place on a friday evening to meet.....occurred over a year

Wow - you hit the enema jackpot; a woman living somewhat close enough to travel to...and you kept it up for a year or more!

The early chatrooms were varied but I remember "Nozzleville. "

Yeah? I was a moderator there for many years, mostly trying to keep the place welcoming for the new women who came into the chat. (Too often men just pounced on them in a predatory way that they didn't like, and they'd leave.) I spent a lot of time there during a particularly difficult time in my life and considered many of the regulars friends.

Anyway, Nozzleville was the closest I've come to an enemate, in that I had frank discussions with one man there, both of us with spouses who didn't want to play. We would often suggest or order what the other one did, but never met in person. His wife got wind of it and it ended abruptly.

Yes...

I remember Nozzleville. I chatted with some interesting folks on there and finally met up with a wonderful redheaded lady who went by "Bug". We spent an awesome afternoon together one day, giving eachother enemas, rectal temps, and all sorts of butt play. Unfortunately, we lived a few hours apart and that took its toll on us trying to coordinate play.

I wonder where she is now.

I think Central Pennsylvania is dry. I feel Iam the only individual wishing for irrigation!

Not at the time.

Wish i can find a girl soon i miss have an enemate.

Not at the time.

Wish i can find a girl soon i miss have an enemate.

I wrote earlier that my massage therapist is back and that I hope to ask her about bringing in a bag enema. We were texting when she advised she was going in for surgery and might be 3 weeks before recovering and back to work. Before we signed off I explained how I was looking forward to seeing the new bathroom attached to her massage room - and the reason was I'd like to bring a bag enema instead of the little fleet bottles. She paused and sounded confused like she hadn't grasped the idea. Then I told her "You know, an enema bag, hose and nozzle". Adding that I thought she'd make an excellent enema nurse. We left it at that but yesterday she texted that she was back to work. So maybe she's intrigued? When I said next Sat would be my next chance to get there she advised there's a chance she won't be working that Sat. So, the intrigue continues.

As I shared about six months ago, my husband of 40 years is my one and only enemate. I couldn’t ask for a better partner who has cared for me through my needs and wants.

This past November, I was walking our dog about a block from home when I met for the first time a lovely woman in her early 80s. She was a medical-surgical nurse for many years and then did home nursing until just three years ago. She’s the kind of person who, after only five minutes chatting, it’s like she’s been a friend forever.

We’ve met several times since, she’s been over to our home and she has seen my enema syringe hanging to dry in our master bathroom. This led to talking over cups of herbal tea about my history of G.I. issues, headaches, stress, and enemas. I felt amazingly comfortable talking with her about my needs and wants.

She said back in the 1960s and into the 80s that she used to prep patients for surgery by giving “old-fashioned cleansing enemas.” After that she was a nursing administrator but continued to work on the patient floor when needed. From the way she described her nursing career, she has probably given many hundreds of enemas.

She is such a nice person that she said if I ever needed anything, not to hesitate to call her. I didn’t have the courage to ask her if she would come and give me an enema, but now I am beginning to fantasize on what that would be like.

Vicki V...is there not a saying up in your neck of the woods? "JUST DO IT"

@Vicki_V ... she said if I ever needed anything, not to hesitate to call her. I didn’t have the courage to ask her ...

Oh, sounds like she was hoping you would ask...... a lost opportunity... Funny, how they stick in our memory.

@Enough "Oh, sounds like she was hoping you would ask...... a lost opportunity..."

Not a "lost opportunity." Rather, I'm waiting for the "right opportunity" when I may really need her help as a nurse. It could be a while, but I feel the wait would be worth it.

It does seem strange to me that the greater Seattle area is so liberal and open, about most things including sex, but almost no ladies seek pleasurable enema experiences. I would love to provide, just about any kind, one way or mutual. Always willing. Years ago I did have an experience with a very pleasant lady from outside Portland, OR. She was a long-time member here, but sadly has not been participating here for several years. I would welcome her back. I'm certainly open to discuss, chat, email, etc. to develop a friendship.

Nobody in Waco into enemas 😪

Nope. No enemate. Wish I did. What I'm really hoping/looking/praying for is a gal who likes enemas, but also likes all the ass play with fingers, hands, and toys that goes with a clean colon. I was married to a couple of them (no, not at the same time), so I know they exist. Just evidently not in my town.

@Vicki_V Not a "lost opportunity." Rather, I'm waiting for the "right opportunity" when I may really need her help as a nurse. It could be a while, but I feel the wait would be worth it.

Oh, for some reason I thought it was a one-time chance.

I don't, but i would love to someday meet a girl who was into enemas and anal sex and mutual ass play and learn how to please each other and try new things. But I feel as if the general sentiment among women is that if a guy likes having his ass played with, it also means he wants a cock in it, which is something I don't. I've never fantasized about a sexual experience with a guy while stimulating my prostate or masturbating.

Oddly it seems to be older women who are more understanding of straight men enjoying anal play and enemas without that also bearing the meaning that he wants a sexual experience with men. It puts me in a difficult spot because I'm still in my 30s so the majority of women my age are more closed minded about it I think. Or maybe I just haven't met the right ones.

@jakepillowsnake said,

But I feel as if the general sentiment among women is that if a guy likes having his ass played with, it also means he wants a cock in it, which is something I don't. I've never fantasized about a sexual experience with a guy while stimulating my prostate or masturbating.

Between 2008 and 2012 when I was getting a colonic once a quarter the therapist and I discussed who was getting more colonics men or women. She told me around sixty five percent of her clients were women and only thirty five percent were men. And that at least half of the women were under age forty and sometimes brought their kids over age ten or eleven in for a colonic. We also discussed who was doing more enemas at home men or women. Her opinion was women by far were doing more enemas at home but just didn’t discuss it. And that men doing enemas were like women doing enemas, they simply didn’t discuss it with anyone. Growing up my siblings and I got enemas together from mom, grandma, and our teenage aunts. Then when I was twelve, grandma taught us personal hygiene and enemas became our responsibility. Afterwards, my siblings and I gave each other enemas. Meaning my brother and I gave our sister enemas, and she gave my brother and I enemas. In the current environment of mistrust that’s going around, it's compounded the difficulty of finding someone of the opposite sex that’s into enemas for pleasurable purposes.

Nobody wants to discuss "Butt stuff" because of the stupid stigmas of guilt and shame that surround it. It's really quite ridiculous.