Bisexual | Need help. What am I? Can you…

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So this may sound confusing or like I’m a somone who is fighting off admitting they’re gay but hang with me. I love all things dealing with butt stuff. I would love to be pegged by a girl but I would also like to take it from the real thing also.

That being said I’m not attracted to guys like I am women (Trans is a little different) I dont get aroused by naked men or want to cuddle with them like women. I do want to have sex with a man at least once though.Idk if I would want to do anything other than just be bent over and take it but I would possibly entertain oral.

Trans women on the other hand , I’ve seen some that looks like super models and pull out a penis and it short circuits my brain. I do find them sexually attractive and could see myself doing just about anything they wanted. Some reason an ugly penis all of a sudden turns me on!

Anyway does anyone know what you would call what I am? Bi-curious maybe? Idk

AlanRM

I have a strange obsession. I love circumcised men. I would love to wank and suck a cut guy - the problem is I live in the UK and there are not many cut guys around (apart from Jewish or Muslim and I would be too nervous to approach the latter). Guys with foreskins just put me off - the irony.hypocrisy is that I am uncut myself. I know how you have to really work at being 100% clean and a lot of guys don't bother.

bob1952

Sexual orientation is not black and white, it's a gray scale. Experiment and find out what you enjoy and where you fit in. It's all okay.

anteuil

Just be yourself. Rise to the occasion.

Life is to short not to have a kink or two…

curtina

@Curious85: I would say you are primarily anal oriented. It doesn't really matter to you whether you are penetrated by a woman using a strap-on or by a male penis. This is a passion that many Zity members (including me) share. If a penis turns you on, then just give it a try. Maybe you enjoy feeling a cock in your mouth or, as you wrote, feeling it in your anus. Don't think in categories (straight, gay, bi...) but enjoy discovering what you like. Maybe turn your head off to do this.

agracier

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agracier

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@Curious85: I would say you are primarily anal oriented. It doesn't really matter to you whether you are penetrated by a woman using a strap-on or by a male penis.

I think that many would take a different stance on the body connected to whomever is penetrating you.

I for one would not be able to abide the thought of a typical hairy male penetrating me. No way. But a male with a feminized body would not be an obstacle at all. Perhaps the equipment doesn't make a difference, but the totality of the appearance of the person doing the penetration would be important.

happygsp

I have very similar feelings! I'm very anal erotic and love being pegged or "dildoed" by my wife, I also have fantasies about being taken by a guy or a group of guys including fantasies about sucking a cock while being pegged or fucked. I do not have any desire to kiss or make out with another man. This has only manifested as I have gotten older.

Funforus

I am finding that I like all males as sex partners. I've sucked shaved cocks, I've sucked hairy cocks! What I enjoy is the feel of a mans penis entering and moving in my mouth; with its firmness , softness, flexibility, taste, and ability to feed me the sperm that I crave, That is what excites me. The cocks I have sucked all do that! The males who are attached to these cocks don't have to be perfect specimens of men. A decent personality, and a desire to be blown by me, is enough. As a homosexual man, I don't concern myself with where I am, on the "gay" spectrum, I just enjoy being "gay". By the way, I also like to fuck and have other sex, with women. However, those days are gone. Am I straight; no! Am I gay; no! Am I bisexual; no! I am me!!