Talking with "others" about our affinity for enemas....

I mentioned in another post that as I "get older", I become less concerned about what others think about me...my personality, my habits, my KINKS!! I often think about talking with friends, acquaintances, sometime just strangers, about my love of enemas and everything associated with them (especially of a sexual nature, but not exclusively that...). I often look for opportunities to introduce the subject of enemas. Sometimes it is with an off-handed quip of a humorous nature, sometimes more straight-forward with regard to "do you use enemas" in whatever context is appropriate. So, my question is, what has your experience been? Have you ever just flat out asked anyone if they use enemas? Have you asked about their/her sex life and whether enemas play any role? Whatever. Even off-handed comments from cashiers (as when you're buying enemy "stuff", etc)? How comfortable are you about even mentioning the word "enema" in the presence of someone not "in your clique"? What say you !!??!!

I have enjoyed many conversations with others regarding enemas. While attending EFEST in Las Vegas many years ago, I found it quite enlightening to enjoy conversations with others who share our interests and kinks. This opened the door and my mind to concluding that I wasn't a freak for enjoying this simple pleasure and procedure.

I have enjoyed several face to face interactions with other members here, or who frequent other sites. In some cases, clerks at health/natural food stores or nurses in a clinic setting have been willing to discuss the topic. While a few were willing to engage in enema use/play, many were comfortable with the open discussion in a non-threatening circumstance.

The bottom line is...open up and enjoy the topic! If the stars line up...maybe some shits and giggles might be in the cards!

I’ve had two nice relationships end when I broached the subject of enemas. So I’m careful about mentioning my interest. The nice thing about sites like this is that one already starts beyond the point of being deemed odd.

Funny you should ask.

i'm a critical care nurse in a hospital... and we talk about everything amongst ourselves.

my enema desires are unrealized. i'm gay and a total bottom with sub and have a whole drawer of enema fantasies in my mind, but never found a Top Who is similarly inclined. i get nothing out of self administered enema.

A few weeks ago, one of the nurses i have worked with for 9 years blurted out how much she loves coffee enemas. i don't recall how it even came up, but working in a hospital, such topics are pretty common. But i was surprised by her out of the blue openness, just like she was talking about her love of chocolate or something similar. She was obviously excited sharing the info about how good it made her feel.

I used to be very private about my inflammatory bowel issues and use of enemas, but when I started going to a naturopathic doctor, I felt that I could open up to her — and it’s been such a blessing.

“I love the feeling of a good enema,” I told her during our first nearly 2-hour medical history and exam. I never spent that amount of time talking to a doctor before. “So do some of my patients, it’s perfectly normal,” she replied. Then she said something like, “Many of my patients come not feeling like you do, but I would not be ashamed to admit that an enema can be a pleasurable experience. I know the feeling.”

Admittedly, my age helps give me the courage to speak openly (but tastefully). As a younger woman, I never dreamed that I would openly talk to a doctor about enemas and orgasms!!

During a discussion about prepping for a colonoscopy I very openly mentioned to my gastroenterologist that I enjoyed enemas - but to my chagrin, he simply ignored what I had said.

I definitely agree as we get older we tend to say and talk about things like enemas and spankings that we wouldn’t touch when were younger.

I have had several conversations with my wife’s sister about how having a good enema is great, she agreed and said she enjoys a good massage and a warm enema to totally relax. I also told her once she you are too wild and needed a good spanking, the look on her face was priceless, she had a definite naughty look on her face and said very sheepishly okay.

Another conversation with my 30 ish year old daughter in law about her taking regular enemas because she had a sensitive stomach and regular enemas made her stomach feel much better , to which I said there is nothing like a good enema.

So yes I usually don’t hesitate engaging with someone about enemas.