First time enema for pleasure

Tomorrow is going to be my wife's first enema and I want to be as pleasant as possible. Please give me your best advice for solution, positions, volume etc.

I have 2 quart bag and double balloon nozzle. She is 50 kg/110 lb 165 cm/5.4 feet and I'm not sure if she can take the whole bag.

Thank you.

Slow and steady wins the race. Make it about 103 to 105 degrees Fahrenheit. Start and stop every few seconds to allow her colon to expand. Plus encourage her to touch her self throughout the whole process.

@Tony - How exciting...especially if she has a pleasant experience and becomes your true enemate! The are, of course, ;ots of things to consider here and I would be surprised if you don't get a whole lot of suggestions...many of which you have probably already thought about. I would offer only the following:

1. I have found from experience that may playmates have enjoyed a small (6-8 oz) enema before the "main show" to clear the big stuff from the rectum. The advantages seem to be that using a bulb and a simple adult rectal nozzle is very low stress, allows for a good degree of control (no accidents or mad dashes to the john) and doesn't produce a whole lot of "mess'; easy to wipe/clean up/tidy up before proceeding to the main event.

2. If your lady has a (favorite) vibrator, a bit of gentle edging while "taking the bag (or bulb, as the case may be) adds to the erotic nature and intimacy of the procedure. She will know that you are concerned about her needs and most likely make the "connection". Since this is a first adventure, trying to bring her to climax, especially during and/or while holding a large load is probably NOT a good idea. None the less, make sure you encourage her to let you help her enjoy the experience.

3. Finally, if you folks drink at least socially, a pour of her favorite wine enjoyed in a relaxed atmosphere may sooth any apprehension she may experience.

Good luck and...ENJOY (both of you)!!!

@Tony - How exciting...especially if she has a pleasant experience and becomes your true enemate! The are, of course, ;ots of things to consider here and I would be surprised if you don't get a whole lot of suggestions...many of which you have probably already thought about. I would offer only the following:

1. I have found from experience that may playmates have enjoyed a small (6-8 oz) enema before the "main show" to clear the big stuff from the rectum. The advantages seem to be that using a bulb and a simple adult rectal nozzle is very low stress, allows for a good degree of control (no accidents or mad dashes to the john) and doesn't produce a whole lot of "mess'; easy to wipe/clean up/tidy up before proceeding to the main event.

2. If your lady has a (favorite) vibrator, a bit of gentle edging while "taking the bag (or bulb, as the case may be) adds to the erotic nature and intimacy of the procedure. She will know that you are concerned about her needs and most likely make the "connection". Since this is a first adventure, trying to bring her to climax, especially during and/or while holding a large load is probably NOT a good idea. None the less, make sure you encourage her to let you help her enjoy the experience.

3. Finally, if you folks drink at least socially, a pour of her favorite wine enjoyed in a relaxed atmosphere may sooth any apprehension she may experience.

Good luck and...ENJOY (both of you)!!!

P.S. I would suggest not using the DBC the first time; try it with the douche nozzle and don't go the full 2 qts...maybe a qt at most.

I thought about this

Saline a little above body temperature. Position - first on her left side and after half of the bag is empty, on her back. I'll give her a vibrator to keep her entertained.

I suggested the Doubel Balloon Nozzle because it's easier to hold the water and reduce discomfort in the anus.

May I add my .02 and agree with those who counsel against the double balloon? That seems a bit drastic for the virgin enema. Use an enema nozzle or a douche nozzle for this one. Go slowly, force nothing, don’t fill the bag too full. Be gentle, tell her you love her, gently massage her tummy, control the flow. You can work with her later on adding anything else but this is the maiden voyage.

Lucky lady.

When she says stop. STOP damit................

UPDATE:

We did it! I was extremely careful and patient and she took the full 2 quart without stops and didn't even struggle.

The only disappointing thing was that she couldn't cum even with the vibrator she said she felt overstimulated from the water.

Thanks for the helpful advice!

I’ve been lucky enough to introduce several ladies to the joys of recreational enemas.

I started with a two quart bag of Ivory soap and warm water.

I had them watch as I prepared the enema, explaining what I was doing, why and what she would experience.

I had my first two enema virgins lying on towels with a pillow under their tummy. I really like this position for a first enema because I can see my lady’s pink anus as well as their labia.

She’s lying naked and talking a blue streak from nervousness as she eyes me slipping on a surgical glove and reach for the lube.

I explain about the sphincter muscles and how I will slowly lube her anus before I try to enter her rectum. I explain that a lot of nerves reside there and she should relax, breathe slowly and enjoy the sensations as her sphincters will relax to accept my finger.

I’m one finger deep and I can hear her breathing as I work my finger in and out, push up, push down and side to side.

I tell her that she is doing a good job relaxing her tight little hole and that I’m going to add a second finger to ensure she is relaxed enough to enjoy the insertion of the douche nozzle.

I start adding my middle finger. I meet resistance so I stop pushing and start quietly encouraging her to relax her rectum muscles more, to continue her deep breathing.

Little by little I feel her relaxing and my fingers begin sinking deeper and deeper until they are in to the hilt. Now I start slowly twisting them, she moans saying she feels full but horny. A few thrusts in and out and she’s ready for the nozzle.

Because I have her ass so relaxed and she’s feeling horny, the nozzle slips in easily and I find her sigmoid easily and fully insert the nozzle.

I explain that I inserted the nozzle fully to help her take a good amount of water with the most comfort.

I ask her to spread her legs more as I open the clamp to its slowest flow. I talk quietly encouraging her to breathe deeply and enjoy the warm water that filling her bowels.

I use one hand to gently massage her shapely hips and busy a finger on the other hand to gently flick her pouty labia and clitoris.

She’s quietly talking, describing what she feels, tells me to put my finger in her wet pussy. I knew she had all but forgotten the enema flowing into her. She had had no cramps and the bag was almost empty.

I told her she was finishing the whole bag on her first try and was earning a gold star as an enema virgin.

As the bag goes flat, I close the clamp, tell my star patient she must hold her enema 10 minutes but I will help her pass the time rubbing her G-spot and wiggling the fully implanted nozzle.

The time passed too soon and I had her sopping wet.

I told her I would hold the bag and help her up to go to the toilet but to squeeze her butt muscles while walking. We made it just fine and asked her to squat over commode while I removed the nozzle.

That went well and she fell to the seat. I told her to hold another few seconds and I would be gone and close the door for her privacy.

Needless to say, she was hooked from that point on and even proudly told me during her release she finished masturbating to orgasm.

@erewew Glad it went well. As far as her not getting off getting off during her first enema, I think that is extremely remote. But that lets the door open to try an enema again. Now that she knows what to expect, maybe she'll be able to relax and climax. Good luck and keep us updated!

Many years ago now i met an older woman via a Forum mag ad, i traveled to her place and we chatted a while, then she suddenly said, right lets get on with it, so upstairs we went, we both stripped naked, she quickly produced a bowl of soapy water and a higginsons syringe, nozzle went in me and she pumped steadily till water was all gone, off i went to the loo and emptied out, while she cleaned the syringe, come on she said, my turn now, so i did the same to her, after she had used the toilet , we went to bed, where i fucked her vaginally, then lubed her bum hole and slipped my cock right up her tight little ass, she couldnt take too much so i slipped out and masturbated to cum, we repeated this all that weekend, i visited her many times till she announced she had found a man her own age, i was just over 20, she was 51 , never the less, a good time.

Go slow, lots of lube, and rub her stomach to help her hold.