Men with female urologists

My urologist is female, late thirties, pretty attractive. I like her because she is easy to talk with, very accessible, and she's thorough. Got connected with her by chance, I needed an appointment, she was available, it all worked out.

I stated earlier in this thread that I would post a blog account of my experience with a female urologist, which was a good experience. Some of you might enjoy reading it, which is at the link below. There will probably be a part 2.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=blog;ox=showpage;pg=7570

I have had both male and female urologists the past several years and they all examined everything and I completed urodynamic testing as well. I prefer a female but they don’t seem to stay for long where I go for some reason

I have had both male and female urologists the past several years and they all examined everything and I completed urodynamic testing as well. I prefer a female but they don’t seem to stay for long where I go for some reason

They do their best to keep an old guy from going to them here. I managed to get signed up in the urologists website and sent a message asking about getting a DRE and if they still did that. I began going to that group 10 years ago and the only time I got one was when I asked my PCP about it. She did do it but the tone of her reply made me feel like a pervert for asking. My previous doctor did one every year for 30 years as part of my annual physical. I figured maybe I was looking in the wrong place so I tried the urologist. She was not the one who replied but someone did telling me to call the phone number she gave me to set up a "consult" with someone. I guess from there I may get an appointment with the urologist I selected, if not I just won't go. That's probably what they want anyway.

At the moment we have three urologists, two men and a girl. I would like to record with a girl, but I think that this may cause sidelong glances from her. What do you think, will it be normal if I sign up with a girl.

At the moment we have three urologists, two men and a girl. I would like to record with a girl, but I think that this may cause sidelong glances from her. What do you think, will it be normal if I sign up with a girl.

I will get a girl or I won't go. I don't want a man touching me, especially there.

I love my urologist .She a female doctor

She know I love it when I come in ..No shame here ask me to get undress. I do it

Having seen a spot of blood in my urine I made an appointment with my GP. It was the first time I'd met her. She finished her examination with a prostate exam, again another 1st for me. What a way to introduce oneself!

I was then referred for a cystoscopy at the hospital. It was performed by 3 female staff. Nothing erotic about it, they were very matter of fact about things with instructions like 'trousers and underwear off and put on this gown' and 'put your bare bottom on the pad as this will be wet' . It did feel weird then they pumped the numbing gel in to the urethra. Being draped I couldn't feel or see what was happening until the camera was inserted. Fascinating to see the inside of my own bladder. To finish off there was another DRE of the prostate, then it was just 'roll on to your side and pull your knees up to your chest'. Fortunately nothing too concerning was found, just a slight enlargement of the prostate, but it was 'soft and smooth, as it should be'.

Having seen a spot of blood in my urine I made an appointment with my GP. It was the first time I'd met her. She finished her examination with a prostate exam, again another 1st for me. What a way to introduce oneself!

Sounds like my first meeting with Heidi my NP at the VA and she was everything you expect a Heidi to be. She said drop your pants and undies and bend over the table. In goes the finger and she says "Oh you have a nice little one". After getting over my first thought about my "little one" I replied that I was thinking the same thing about her finger, having had only large male fingers in there before.

I prefer a female for most things, but I have had a problem getting them to understanding my enlarged Prostate I don’t think they can understand because they don’t have one..Now I see a guy about 50 something but he is hard to deal with he wants everything his way so I may be looking again good urologist is hard to find in my area ..

I have never been examined by a female urologist but would very much like to be. I have been seeing two male urologists in the last 6 months for elevated PSA and BPH and have had little success in getting them to definitively examine and diagnose me--to be fair, both have done UA's, DRE's multiple PSA tests and now, FINALLY, an ExoDX urine test for cancer markers (done two weeks ago, still waiting on the results.) I prefer female doctors in any event and if I can't get the new guys to do either a transrectal ultrasound or a prostate MRI, I'll be looking again for a new urologist. Several women in my area, I'll see what happens and report back.

Mine is male. Wishing for a female one though!

I've never had one

Just found out that i will have a female urologist for my appointment next year. Really looking forward to getting a rectal exam now! Hoping I will have a female urologist regularly now

I have never specifically gone to a urologist.

However, about 10 years ago during a routine examination with my female doctor who was then about 30 years old, something unexpected happened to me.

It was a routine examination. Blood pressure, heart rate....

She also asked all kinds of questions about my health and at one point I noticed that I had to urinate more often than I used to.

Since I was in my forties, she said a prostate exam might be appropriate.

Before I knew it, I was bending my naked buttocks for her.

I found the rectal examination of my prostate quite painful.

And what made it even more humiliating was that I immediately got the feeling that I had to pee?

To keep it short , at the moment I found it anything but fun .

A few years later, back during a routine checkup, she remarked that it might be a good idea for a new prostate exam.

I thought "oh no". But okay, she's the doctor.

However, it turned out that in recent years a prostate examination is done by taking a blood sample. (which I also really hate).

The blood is examined by a medical lab and a rectal examination is no longer necessary.

Should I be happy or unhappy?

I have a great female urologist who I see on a regular base for prostate issues which are age related as well for the prescriptions to rock around the clock. She's a great doctor, we can talk about anything medically related as if were talking about the weather in our next holiday location. She always checks my prostate through blood and by finger. She didn't exam my penis or balls yet. Only too pity I didn't manage to get her for my vasectomy. It was done by a male urologist who was unfortunately totally the opposite.

@Peterv normally it shouldn't hurt at all. Better you mentioned it to her.

I'm still in the process of figuring out who to see to replace the various aspects of what my male doctor did to me for my annual physical for 35 years. Ten years ago I found a female doctor to replace him but they don't do physicals any more. I have her tamed/trained to my liking now and I love her. I started using the VA to get prescriptions I couldn't afford and they gave me a female NP. We got along fine until she retired about 5 years ago. She even brought in trainees to work on me, always female. The female doctor who replaced her, not so much, so I stopped going this year.

Last year the visit with the female dermatologist was OK but not very thorough. This year with a different female it was a total farce so now I wonder if I should go to a urologist for that skin exam because the part that I want most is the genital exam. That's where I can't see myself.

Over the years I have seen four female urologists, one female PA, and some male docs. The females always been more thorough and pleasant to deal with.

Today I went to specialized ED clinic, male urologist.

Other times I specifically went to female urologist for ED, varicocele, phimosis, & circumcision for the latter. If I had to have urologic care, may as well have some MedFet jollies while I'm at it. Always liked CFNM

Brat

I saw my first female urologist today. This was the the doc my PCP recommended. I got there early and they took me back early. Standard urine sample followed by bladder ultrasound to see if I emptied my bladder. Net up was a visit with the doc to discuss my symptoms, followed by a cystoscopic exam and a DRE. Given my symptoms and the size of my prostate (enlarged but not huge) she gave me 3 choices: TURP, AQUABLATION, or Rezūm. I asked about Urolift but she didn’t recommend it for someone my age, 69, because the prostate can grow over it, then they have a devil of a time removing it. She recommended the AQUABLATION. It is more precision surgery than TURP or Rezum and recovery time is lower and less painful too. The downside is that they require you to stay in the hospital overnight and it’s done under anesthesia.

She had a great sense of humor and really understands the male genitourinary system. I really liked how she explained things and answered all my questions. Ultimately, treatment is up to me. They couldn’t do the ultrasound today so that is scheduled for next Friday unless she has to serve on a jury. Yep, she was notified that she has jury duty. I can’t handle FLOMAX because of my syncope so it wasn’t a treatment option. Apparently, there is a newer drug but it is brand name and expensive. I’m leaning towards the AQUABLATION solely because it is less painful, more precise, and has a significantly shorter recovery period. Oh yes, no lumps and bumps on my prostate. That was good news. I don’t like her because she is a woman; I like her because she is competent and kind. Now I know why I had to wait 4 months to see her and why no one ever cancels an appointment. I was on the waiting list for an earlier appointment. Oh, don’t take your vitamins before your appointment or they will think you don’t drink enough water…

The female urologist did order my ultrasound and the cystoscopy so I guess that would be my new urologist

@Srgfgahs I have the same problem with Flowmax (and apparently several other medications for enlarged prostate). Had the Rezum procedure late last month with four implants (the urologist said that two more may be added). I wish you luck, the issues with an enlarged prostate can be quite frustrating and painful.

The urologist who repaired my ruptured bladder, probably saving my life, is a fine doctor and highly competent. However, his bedside/chairside/office manner leaves much to be desired. Therefore, I always schedule my office appointments with his female PA. She's got a great manner and is cute as a bonus.

Why do I need a urologist just to get a finger wave? For 35 years my PCP did that as part of my physical. Now they want me to go to their urologist but first I have to have a "consult" appointment as a "new patient" to get one. I told them it better be a female or I'm walking out.

I don’t know about having a female urologist. After my transrectal ultrasound she told me either a TURP or the Resūm procedure was what I needed. Because my prostate was only 23grams yet it was clearly restricting my urine flow. At 23 grams it is technically in the normal range despite its bulging behavior. She told me that TURP was fine for me even though it would likely give me retrograde ejaculation. I’ll paraphrase but this is close to what she said: “Don’t worry about the retrograde ejaculation. The only purpose for ejaculation was to make a baby and you are too old to do that now. I’ve heard some men like the feeling of the semen coming out of their penis. But you can still have an orgasm.”

She was surprised that I might miss ejaculating!

She doesn’t want to do the Aquablation because my prostate is too small, even though that procedure has more predictable odds and is more precise in how much and where the prostate bulge is removed.

I’m thinking of asking for a second opinion. I’m also thinking of specifically asking for a male urologist.

@Srgfgahs , I would absolutely get a second opinion. I was told by one urologist, "I don't see how you could be having problems". When I saw a different urologist in a different practice, he wanted to schedule some procedure as soon as possible. The second urologists comment was, "How are you able to urinate?" I was called by the first urologist's office to find out if I would like to reschedule my appointment and after the third time of telling them no, when the secretary said "Are you sure?" yet again, I told her that I hadn't heard anything about hell turning into a ski resort yet.

@timberwolf421 I’m going to look into it on Monday. I just didn’t like her attitude. She also didn’t give the lidocaine much time to work, 15 seconds, and she didn’t work it down the urethra either. That made the cystoscopy more uncomfortable compared to the two I had done by male urologists.

I prefer my male urologist

I have a great female urologist, kind, easy to talk with, thorough, good looking,....

The only downside of her is that her examinations are always so quickly finished.

But hey yeah, that's my opinion 😁😈😂😆🤣