Watching wife’s exam

My wife had a colorectal appointment yesterday. (Her first time.) Her FIT test result was just high enough to be referred for a colonoscopy. So we went to see the consultant for a face-to-face.

We’ve been feeling pretty anxious about it, worrying, but luckily it turned out that she has none of the main red flag symptoms. So that was good.

Then very quietly, the consultant asked to do an abdominal exam & a rectal exam…

We were expecting this but my wife was clearly flustered. I was, too. The consultant brought in a young nurse in her early twenties as a ‘chaperone’ and drew back the blue curtains.

My wife is late forties. A slim, athletic figure with a big, round bum. The student nurse asked her to undress below the waist whilst the consultant prepared for the exam.

She wore a Patti Smith tee shirt which hung down just over her panties. She’s modest and was hoping to just talk rather than have an exam. I didn’t have the heart to tell her that this was all part of it.

She took off her jeans then paused asking the younger nurse: “Do I take my underwear off too?” “Yes, take those off.”

Admittedly I’ve got a fairly over-active imagination but the younger woman definitely had a kind of smirking look. As if she was embarrassed or somehow finding it funny.

I stood at the foot of the exam bed as she took off her panties and there were two quick flashes of pussy hair and bare open legs as she adjusted herself on it.

The exam was quick. A few minutes. The consultant was great. The whole thing was dealt with carefully & with dignity.

But when he raised the sheet exposing her bum, my heart started racing. l watched him spread her cheeks apart; exposing her anus and some of her pussy.

Within seconds, he lubricated his index finger, brushed it against her anus and then, almost surreptitiously, slipped it inside her.

Then before we knew it, it was all over.

Everything played out the way I thought it would. I guess I just wanted to write it down. I’m relieved it’s not serious; at the same time, watching it was ‘hot’.

Is it wrong to feel that way?

Wrong to feel that way? Given it was your spouse, I would think something was wrong if you did NOT feel that way.

Thanks B! I’d like to talk to her about it but not sure if I should. The exam was hotter than I thought it would be. Especially once we knew the colonoscopy is just a precaution.

Wow Im glad that she’s all healthy, its a dream of mine to watch my girlfriend get examined like that especially by a male doctor. Would you mind sharing what color where the gloves? and how does your wife say she felt during and after the exam

The gloves were blue. He applied lubricant, wiped her anus with one stroke then went straight inside without any resistance. I literally had the best seat in the house (I was worried that I wouldn’t see but I saw everything.)

It was interesting to see how professionally it was handled. Very carefully done. My wife and I talked about it last night. I told her after the initial relief knowing it wasn’t anything scary; the rectal exam was actually hot to watch.

A younger woman telling an older woman to strip & the male consultant examining her bum & anus in front of us. I wondered what the younger nurse was thinking.

In fact my wife had overheard an older nurse explain to the younger one what was going to happen in the exam beforehand. So it could be nervousness or embarrassment, but I definitely felt a power shift between her and my wife. Which was kind of thrilling.

My wife said she couldn’t really feel anything because of the lubricant. A sense of something going back up her passage. Unusual feeling but not uncomfortable. She couldn’t really tell what was being looked at or how long the exam took.

I attended my girlfriend's colposcopy because she was very worried. For me there was nothing erotic during the visit. However, after returning home and thinking about the situation, we both found it exciting.