Hi everyone 👋 I figured it was about time that I go a little more in-depth about my journey to finding this fascinating medfet world and also to give those who are curious about medfetishism a personal perspective from my eyes. I'd also like to review, if you will, a wonderful friend and doctor who made this whole experience and journey worthwhile for me and my husband.
To give you a little background, my husband and I have been married 6 years now. @AnthonyRT is an amazing man of God, my stronghold, support system, my best friend, and a wonderful lover. I am a very conservative, reserved woman, and I've been told I'm very sweet and kind. In fact, both of us together hear this repeatedly with everyone we meet. We just genuinely love people, and understand our purpose on this Earth is to love God and love others. The way we love others is understanding the way in which God loves us. ❤️
Anthony is more of the social butterfly in our relationship, whereas I enjoy ensuring everyone is comfortable and taken care of, and I love listening to people's stories. I'm usually the quiet type unless the vibe feels right, and I then can talk for hours, haha.
As far as getting involved in medfetishism, it all started with Anthony. His fetish stems from his childhood and having his temperature taken by a nurse. It is so fascinating how things from our childhood can stay with us for years! Anyways, when we were dating, he explained his fetish to me in detail, and it was very brave of him but was not out of his character as he is a very open expressive and communicative Italian man. That's only one of the many things I love about him! Coming from a modest upbringing and being raised by an overprotective mother, this was a complete shock to my paradigm.
It took me a while to adjust, but I love my husband very much, and I wanted to make him happy. It started as small, if memory serves correctly, with me laying out on the beach in a thong because hubby is also into voyeurism and exhibitionism. He'd get so excited when I'd relay the stories of guys or women who would stare! It was especially exciting when we made it seem as if I was innocently getting a tan, and unawares. Meanwhile, I still felt abashed to share these details, nonetheless, to actually partake but secretly, deep down, I did like being exposed, and I like it even more now. I struggled with giving in for a number of reasons, whether it's just my pure stubbornness or my religious beliefs, and believing this was all taboo. I still hadn't joined Zity at this time.
The next step came in 2018ish, I believe. Anthony was brave enough to ask me how I'd feel about being examined by our dear friend. Up until this point, occasionally, I'd take his temperature, and he would take mine during our sexy time. After much talking it through, I allowed our friend to partake. I found that it was, in fact, pretty exciting, although there are two factors at play here: 1.I drank alcohol to loosen my inhibitions and 2. The first time around, I really was sick! Haha
After time, and I'm condensing quite a bit so as not to go too long, we had more sessions with our friend, and they included different rectal temperature taking positions, as well as included some spanking since it was apparent I enjoyed them 😀 This also led to having other personal friends come over and play doctor since.
In the past year, however, hubby found some wonderful Zity members to partake, and that took it to the next level. We now include an overall initial physical exam, including checking my vitals and a breast exam. That being because, now someone who shared the same or similar experiences, could enjoy as well, as opposed to our friends who did not enjoy the medfet perse but maybe just enjoyed the role play. By this time, I began opening up to the idea of play doctors, and this over the past year, so at that.
Within this time frame, there was one particular member, Dr. Paul, whom Anthony had been corresponding with for quite some time. Dr. Paul also introduced him to purchasing particular items to further enhance our play exam experiences, such as having an exam table, aka our massage table. Anthony said this guy was the real deal and believed I would most thoroughly enjoy myself. They both had a very good rapport, and if Anthony thinks highly of someone, that speaks volumes to me. It took a while to coordinate due to our busy work lifestyle, and of course, him being a real MD, the scheduling needed to align perfectly.
*My recap and review for Dr. Paul*
So last month, roughly, we finally met @MilitaryDoc in person. I usually get nervous before any exam, but, surprisingly, I wasn't leading up that day. My butterflies didn't start til he was finally here, haha. It was an instant connection for us, and a lot of that was due to the rapport that was already established, at least for Anthony. He is such a wonderful person, very interested in what we had to say, an intent listener, intelligent, and we could see right away this was going to be a great experience.
I was nervous as ever, and I remember my heart racing. I heard him say, right before I entered, that there was no need to be nervous. How did he know? Did he read my thoughts? I thought to myself before entering. He quickly put me at ease by addressing me by my first name throughout, something about that was very intimate and personal to me. He talked me through everything he was doing from checking my vitals all the way until the end.
He is the only doctor I've allowed to do a bi manual a recto-vaginal, and inserting a speculum in, and that took a lot for me due to my overall anxiety about my safety. He was very professional and very detailed. He explained everything he was seeing and had an overall, genuine concern for my health and well-being. His bedside manner is truly appreciated and was pivotal in my own journey of understanding the true meaning and fascination with medfetishism.
It's the exploration of one's body, the intimacy shared between the doctor and patient, the care and attention to details and the body's responses, that popped my cherry in medfet, if you will. He kept everything professional and ensured I felt comfortable. He allowed me my space to come out of my shell, and all this in the span of our first visit! Thank you @MilitaryDoc , you've opened up a door for Anthony and I, and you especially allowed me to expand my mind and let go of some huge mental blocks that kept me from thoroughly enjoying this experience in the past! This also led to joining Zity about a few weeks ago.
This post isn't sufficient for the true thoughts, feelings, and emotions to express our gratitude but it suffices at least initially, to let you all know, there is hope for couples like Anthony and I with a caring person like Dr. Paul. He even managed to teach us a thing or two to really spice things up for Anthony and I, and it was due to his understanding of how the body works and responds to specific stimuli. Ultimately, if there is a significant other out there they may be, what I've seen referred to as "vanilla" or are shy like me, I just want to say: there's hope for us shy and reserved people, and this medfet world can be truly rewarding and thrilling, in the right setting and with the right people such as Dr. Paul!
Dr. Paul truly loves what he does, and Anthony and I are beyond grateful we were able to meet him. He is such a kind and caring doctor and a lifelong friend, for sure. Feel free to ask anything you'd like to know. I've had the pleasure of sharing some of my experiences with some on here already and hearing their stories as well. This is life. It's a journey, and we're just here to experience it and enjoy it. 😉 -Shygirl