My first gf surprised me one day when we were having sex by rimming me. It shocked me, as I was pretty innocent and had never even considered rimming - didn't even know it was a thing. Needless to say, I learned to love it. And she loved doing it. It didn't matter how clean it was back there. In fact, I think she preferred it unwashed. She was a very submissive girl, and got me into bondage and some other activities. But I'm wondering if rimming and submission go hand in hand.