I’ve said this before. It is wise to get a baseline PSA level in your early 40’s. PSA tests are valuable for determining not only your risk for prostate cancer but also the likelihood that you might have a prostate infection. Many doctors do not seem to be aware of this fact.
A DRE is an incomplete examination of the prostate gland. No doctor can palpate all three lobes of the prostate gland simply due to where it is located. However, if a doctor feels a lump or other indication it is most likely cancer. By the time a doctor can feel a problem it is probably too late to ensure a cure.
So getting the baseline PSA score while you are symptom free and healthy makes sense. If getting a DRE makes you feel better then request one.
What I will tell you is that my father died from prostate cancer yet he got ‘the finger’ annually. His doctors could not feel the cancer until it was too late. His cancer invaded his bones, bladder and kidneys. His death was horrible. I watched him die. I think I have PTSD from experiencing it.
I am not a medical doctor. I go by what I have gleaned from sources like the NIH, Medscape, and what my doctors have told me. (Just remember, doctors are just human beings.) Whatever you decide to do and when should be based on a discussion with your doctors, what you can learn from legitimate online sources, and you own personal health. Please avoid using Facebook, Reddit or sources like that. The more you know about your own body, the easier it is to make a good informed decision. Even with inflation a PSA test is under $70 if you have to get one out of pocket. In my state a doctor does not have to authorize it either.