How do you set the scene for enemas

I like to make sure the room is comfortable when naked with soft lighting and my favorite incense burning and classical music in the background to start with. I like candles in the bathroom the wall behind the tub is wall to wall mirror and the wall behind the toilet as well the tub is a deep soaking tub the shower is equipped with a steam bath .I have a big mirror I put at the head of the bed so you can see the enema bags hanging behind you and you see me grease the nozzle OF MY CHOICE I insist on eye contact during insertion. I make sure you clearly see the four quart bags flow meter spin as the bag flattens hanging on the IV pole. I have a folding table set by the bed with a big towel folded over so it provides you a peak at the dildos and nozzles and plugs peaking out as well as speculum’s left wide open for your viewing pleasure .Theres a cooler at the end of that and it viewable in the mirror so you can see what I’m going use your bottom since I cleaned you out like an enema porn star…..then start all over maybe a colon tube or balloon nozzle maybe speculums and a dildo or plug and there bigger this time around. I like to switch how can you dish it out if you haven’t taken it ? So what do you kids do that’s creative so to speak……..

Totally agree on the somewhat dark room. Brightly lit rooms are too "clinical", and not sensual at all to me. Warm is nice. Don't like shivering while taking an enema. Music not necessary. Mirror for viewing is nice if it is moveable to get various desired views.

Years ago, a wonderful nurse who cared for me at home taught me the key to a “good enema” is being relaxed. I was so anxious and tense. The first time that she tried to put a tube into me, she stopped. She turned down the lights in my bedroom, she had me do deep breathing, and she asked my husband to come in and do a light massage on my back and legs. Through the years that has helped me relax before an enema when I have felt my worst.

I like to achieve maximum enema exposure and intent by turning on a bright ceiling light and making sure the drapes are fully open to allow the most daylight into the room. I find it overwhelming to be able to glance up at the bulging red rubber enema so explicit in the room. I also will take off my clothes and put-on one of my special, undersized t-shirts that accentuate my pale white skinny legs, bare bottom and naked twink tummy. The 3/4 size t-shirt is essential to maximize the feeling of vulnerability and exposure. This places me in that "mental space" of being a soft, smooth, pale white, skinny twink-like slip of a pre-pubescent little boy having to have his enema. .....(*blushing*)....michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/87199

@wkobit The 3/4 size t-shirt is essential to maximize the feeling of vulnerability and exposure.

Interesting - I remember my enemas when young where I'd be wearing just a small tee-shirt. With my bottom completely exposed while waiting for the enema to be prepared, I look down and see my little thing had all but disappeared - oh, the feeling of being so exposed!

@reddevil said,

With my bottom completely exposed while waiting for the enema to be prepared, I look down and see my little thing had all but disappeared - oh, the feeling of being so exposed!

When my siblings and I were kids, my brother and I would both get rock hard when mom told us to get ready for a couple of enemas. As we were getting undressed in the bedroom for our enemas, the state of our penis wasn’t missed by our sister. It remained hard during both enemas mom gave us and didn’t get soft again until the enemas were finished.

I double and triple check!

Make sure theere is no one in the master suite but me. I prefer to hve the whole top floor to myself and usually I do.

Now, post Covid-19, I telecommute more than ever and that builds all the time I used to spend commuting into my free time schedule.

That makes it a lot easier to find private time.

Doors to the outside locked. Cell phones both off

Laptops off.

Dog walked watered and calm.

Door between the bedroom and hallway locked as well.

Blinds set so that natural light comes in but you can't possibly see in.

In the bathroom: toilet lid up seat down. bidet confirmed to be working.

Ready to mix. Here I go!

@LisaK ... @sirensong and I have a similar ritual.... we even lock our bedroom door even though we're the only one's who live in the house!

We are empty nesters and our closest neighbor is a quarter mile away. We have overhead mirrors above the bed and a large mirror in the headboard, the bed itself has corner posts that run to nearly the ceiling with a cornice around the outside. Drapes are drawn back and tied at the sides and end, and hooks for the enema bags are placed on the inside of the cornice and at the headboard area. We both prefer lying on the bed, usually we put a couple of wedges on the bed and cover the wedges with a water proof pad that is in turn covered with several towels. We lay on the wedges which elevate our butts high enough that our legs easily fall back over our chests. You can see yourself easily in the mirrors overhead, and watch unless you are blindfolded, the lubrication and nozzle disappearing into your anus. The enema bag is visible and the giver is normally wearing a robe that is opened and also viewable in the mirrors. Other times it is more generic without the wedges but as long as you are on your back you can see your spouse very easily. The only thing we see out the windows normally is deer, our master bedroom bathroom is down stairs in a half sunken set of rooms. In Montana it is not smart to wander around the property of others and it is not wise to walk into a house unannounced. I had one occasion in the fifty years here that someone walked around one night, just after a snow storm at about 3AM. This guy all but jumped out of his skin when I asked him if he was lost. With motion detectors we know when we have company about thirty seconds before they get parked. Not too worried about being spied on.