What is the appeal of 'facials' in porn?

I love sensual and well-made porn films where all the actors act and are treated with respect. But even the best-made film becomes a farce when the male actor cums all over a woman's face at the end, and she gapes wide at the same time. Where is the attraction for both sides in that? I'm fine with the woman (or second man) taking control and masturbating the partner to cum, or the scene ending with some good oral sex. I really like doing that too. But I find this stupid jerking off over the partner's face tasteless.

What is your opinion about this?

I think it's pretty degrading but some of them are quite comical as well

I've never been a fan of them. Just not my thing.

They seem to sell. We never had an interest in doing it. But some seem to like it…bukkake

For myself, there's no appeal to this. I find it very degrading to women. Any woman I have ever been with would have probably left me if I ever intentionally did something like this.

They hold no appeal to me.

It does not appeal to me, and seems a waste of cum. That being said, I orgasmed once and accidentally several drops of cum landed on my buddy's face –-- he loved it!

Well, I guess just because no one else is chiming in on the “I'm for ‘em” side I’ll speak up… otherwise id just scroll on by. I love facials, facials in porn, facials in practice, for whatever reason I just love them. It might go back to the first real hardcore porn I ever came across on the internet, where there was a girl's lipsticked mouth dripping with cum from a cock, the tip of which was still resting on her bottom lip as she looked into the camera.

That said, I get very freakishly turned off by cum as soon as it cools off and goes runny go figure smh… but until I cum, it is possibly my most favorite thing to see and do. It is very degrading and perverted, but behind closed doors with someone you can trust, that can be a big turnon too.

Does no one here love to feel dirty? I like the grossness and crassness of getting come on. I don't know whether I prefer facial or come all over my butt but I like both.

For myself, there's no appeal to this. I find it very degrading to women. Any woman I have ever been with would have probably left me if I ever intentionally did something like this.

@tomvolts I totally agree!!! I can find better places to put it. 😉

I like them as long as both partners agree. To me, it is like marking your territory, a rather hardwired behavior. In the movies, a facial offers the visual result of the act not seen when ejaculating in a cavity, just optics.

No appeal at all for me. I find it rather humiliating and demeaning for the person done to.

If I come across this in a vid, then it renders the vid of zero interest by definition and default.

No appeal at all for me. I find it rather humiliating and demeaning for the person done to.

As a female I agree @agracier. Such will never happen to me.

It is a kink that is not for everyone. But as it does have its supporters you can enjoy for me.

Facials not my thing, also any goo stuck in a gal's hair is a turn off....

Professional porn films aren’t romantic or sexy. They’re too scripted and predictable, with awful jokes included. The only hot porn videos, are the ones on Porn Hub, where the attractive brunette takes her rectal temperature, with a digital thermometer.

Facials do nothing for me, it's a waste of good semen.

I can find better places to put it. 😉

So very true @mike45 .

@MissStress I agree with you that having someone cum on my face would be utterly demeaning to me.

As a female I agree @agracier. Such will never happen to me. . .

Likewise however, I would never even consider or think about demeaning ANYONE by peeing on any part of his anatomy! That would be equally or even more demeaning to him whether it was done inside or outside. I wonder if even discussing it would be demeaning to him??? You’ve really been discussing it ??? WIth him???

See an earlier thread (“Woman Peeing On Penis Head”) and your comment!

I have been discussing peeing on my sub, outside, this summer.

No appeal- zip, zero, none. Waste of good protein. Immensely less satisfying for both of us.

Totally agree with t.s. and most likely there are only a very few women who like that.

But I disagree with anng, myself I really enjoy receiving a good golden shower.

@Tonykiko67 Your choice Tony, just not something I am into. Enjoy!

Neither having someone cum on my face nor peeing on someone else nor getting peed on myself are things that would interest me. It just struck me as two different yet similar, while conflicting, posts and by the same person in a short time frame! I was thinking about myself personally (not speaking for anyone else) and how one might feel degraded by each of these practices. It was stated that this had been discussed and I wondered how it had been discussed?

I’ve come to realize that Zity is an equal access kink site for a variety of types of people and their individual kinks. I’ve come to respect those who are genuinely consistent in being who they are rather than those who post just to get something of their own posted as a “display of verbiage power”.

Likewise however, I would never even consider or think about demeaning ANYONE by peeing on any part of his anatomy! That would be equally or even more demeaning to him whether it was done inside or outside. I wonder if even discussing it would be demeaning to him???

@anng If one doesn't discuss something how will they know what the other person(s) thinks/feels about the activity, whether the action should continue or be changed. Discussing lets all parties involved have their say. Do you prefer than no discussion is had and one should just do as they like others feeling do not matter?

You’ve really been discussing it ??? WIth him???

See an earlier thread (“Woman Peeing On Penis Head”) and your comment!

As I said in my post, you mention, I have been discussing it with him.

I have no interest in 'facials'. If I ever came on my wife's face, it would be purely by accident. And a miracle at my age.

Professional porn films aren’t romantic or sexy. They’re too scripted and predictable, with awful jokes included. The only hot porn videos, are the ones on Porn Hub, where the attractive brunette takes her rectal temperature, with a digital thermometer.

@JJM : There is a new porn site www.lustery.com

You will find many romantic films.

I enjoy it, as an every now and then but mainly prefer to savor the protein. There's an enjoyment to the submitting and being used, as long as it is done lovingly.

I have always wondered why this was such a feature. Obviously it objectifies the person on whom they are cumming, but past that, I can't see the appeal.

Going off at a slight tangent here I was interested in the earlier comment about a woman peeing on her partner's penis head. I have to say piss fun in general has never really done it for me but, on the head of my penis, maybe when it's hyper sensitive after a fuck...now that could be interesting!

Going off at a slight tangent here I was interested in the earlier comment about a woman peeing on her partner's penis head. I have to say piss fun in general has never really done it for me but, on the head of my penis, maybe when it's hyper sensitive after a fuck...now that could be interesting!

Some folks really get off on getting "peed upon"- even on their face, or in their mouth. There's no harm in it. I was vey interested in watching my wife pee, and once I had seen her do it, meh!!!!

Not so sure. I find watching a woman pee very erotic and sharing of a very personal thing.

A couple of years ago, I was photographing a nude model out in the woods.

Now, this woman is a lady and a very proper one. When she told me she needed to pee, I asked her if she wanted to go to a restroom. She said she would be okay squatting by a tree.

With camera in hand, I asked if I could watch. She giggled and said she didn’t mind. She looked around and found a little rise. Smiling, she squatted and spread her shapely legs giving me the best view of her thick, black pubic hair bush I had ever seen.

I could barely see her pink labia but I got a glimpse. She looked up at me and said here goes!

With that she released a substantial stream of clear pee pee that started to puddle up. She continued for almost a full minute as she completely emptied her bladder.

When her stream tapered off, she held her squatting position as she looked up, laughed and said, I’ll let it air dry unless to have a roll of toilet paper.”

I did have some wet wipes in my camera bag and handed her one. It was pretty erotic watching her wipe too, which she did as she smiled up at me.

Once completed we went on with our art nude photos but I think back on her squatting as the highlight of that shoot.

I have never cum on a girls face and think all the women I have been with wouldn't like it at all ....... all except one girlfriend I think about a lot.. On a memorable occasion when we were in bed she told me all the things she enjoyed and cumming on her tits and face were included in her long list. She loved cum and would rub it over her body every chance she had. Lovely lady who truly enjoyed sex.