Curious or horny

I am A virgin, never tried having sex or anything before. But I feel like having sex

but all I can find so far are guys and mature guys as well, no Luck with women yet. I love to find a mature women.

so I am thinking should I give it a go with the guys or should I just keep my virginity for the one I am gonna marry if that ever happen. Have been thinking for years

I’m a virgin as well and I’ve been dying to have sex. Personally I’d never even consider trying anything with a guy. That’s not my thing at all. I’m waiting to find a girl to do it with. I have no luck either.

If you're into guys, have sex (or whatever you're interested in) with a guy. If you don't care if it's a man or woman, have a go with with the first person you're interested in that feels the same way about you. If you're only into women… why are you even asking this question?

I am A virgin, never tried having sex or anything before. But I feel like having sex

but all I can find so far are guys and mature guys as well, no Luck with women yet. I love to find a mature women.

so I am thinking should I give it a go with the guys or should I just keep my virginity for the one I am gonna marry if that ever happen. Have been thinking for years

If it is just having sex with a woman you are looking for and haven't had any luck with women willing to do it for free with you, then, pardon my vulgarity, but why not look for a woman who is willing to do it for financial recompense? There are professionals who do it for a living and it leaves things emotionally uncomplicated afterwards.

You could even start out modestly by going for a nude massage to begin with, see how it works out and then go on from there.

If it is just having sex with a woman you are looking for and haven't had any luck with women willing to do it for free with you, then, pardon my vulgarity, but why not look for a woman who is willing to do it for financial recompense? There are professionals who do it for a living and it leaves things emotionally uncomplicated afterwards.

You could even start out modestly by going for a nude massage to begin with, see how it works out and then go on from there.

There were a small group of guys from my high school who drove down to Tijuana for just that reason and bragged about!! I think they were on a trip to California to see the coast and thought sex was more available and cheaper in Mexico. This was in the 60's.

As agracier recommends plus if you live anywhere near northern Navada you can go to www.sagebushranch.com . there is a phone number there , talk to a madam tell her what you want or need and when you will be there , Make it clear to her you're lack of experience She will make an appointment with the lady that most suits you . Just remember these are ladies of negotiable affection . Not street hookers . They are paid to take care of you and that doesn't always mean sex .

The build up and expectation to your first time can add a lot of pressure onto that experience.

Based on posts here the options are sex with a female in a relationship of some kind, paid for sex with a female, or with another guy. I'm guessing you're young but you might find you will try all three in your life anyway, so maybe the order isn't that important afterall.

My predicament wasn't totally unlike yours before my first time (and I'm sure many others were the same) and my first time was with another guy which isn't what I expected or planned.