Arousal triggers - Medical Exams

I wonder what causes a new patient to be aroused more. The waiting and build up to the examination contemplating what will take place or is it the unexpected sudden procedure required that shocks and alarms you. I feel the buildup to the exam makes someone more aroused at the very onset before the exam even takes place. The sudden unexpected exam turns a normal situation right into an immediate state of arousal.

For me it is usually things like the start of the exam, like if the nurse tells you to undress to your underwear. I also find providing urine samples to be a turn on as that is how my pediatrician physical exams would start - so I guess the build up is more of a trigger than the exam itself for me.

For me it's things like the start of the exam and the doctor asking me to undress, then of course the act of removing my clothes in front of them. In the exam itself, the doctor getting out the various medical tools, particularly their stethoscope, and them getting them ready to use on me.

I will agree the anticipation of an exam was the most arousing for me when I was younger and at a real life physical. In contrast, a play exam tends to make me more aroused as time goes on.

I feel the buildup to the exam makes someone more aroused at the very onset before the exam even takes place. The sudden unexpected exam turns a normal situation right into an immediate state of arousal.

I don’t know if the sudden need for an unexpected real medical exam would arouse me. Routine? Yes. But I think that needing an exam because something may be indicatEd puts me in a different headspace.

That said, after said exam, one of the ways I may mentally/emotionally deal with it and the anxiety that I would probably have is by masturbating whilst replaying the whole thing in my mind.

For a Medfet exam, however, I imagine that the buildup for either could be pretty intense. Already in a heightened state of everything and then the Doctor points out a need for a more in depth check-up… blushing, gulp of anticipation, reluctance and/or resistance (feigned or otherwise), etc. - this all sets the stage for unexpected…. MOREness, I would think.

For me it's sitting in the waiting room anticipating what might happen. Looking at the staff as they go about their business and wondering if this or that one might be in the exam room during the exam. Thinking about which one will call me into the room and tell me to undress. That's probably why my blood pressure is always higher when I get it taken at the doctor's office.

The waiting room can really be exciting while so many thoughts cross my mind. Also undressing and being told to lay down on the exam table is very arousing.

I have avoided Doctor's and Dr. exams for years . Looking back about 30 years no doc's no exams . Now with my health declining I find I actively avoid any thought or imaginations of what may come while in a waiting room . Instead I read a book and wait . I know exactly what will be told ,,,,, “You're blood pressure is too high !” You need this or that Meds to avoid a stroke ! You are a stroke risk! ,, Even though I'm there for a broken leg . Yes that actually happened . Or I go in because of a pit bull attack , 27 stitches in my left arm . You ‘re blood pressure is to high , {I just had to kill a pit bull to save myself and one of my other dogs with my bare hands} You are a stroke risk . If any one has to save themself in such a fashion doesn’t have a higher then normal blood pressure then I would be worried . All that said , yes I do have a bit of medfet thing , But I'm there for reason and that needs to be ignored .

…... I know exactly what will be told ,,,,, “You're blood pressure is too high !” You need this or that Meds to avoid a stroke ! You are a stroke risk! ,, Even though I'm there for a broken leg . Yes that actually happened . …..You ‘re blood pressure is to high , {I just had to kill a pit bull to save myself and one of my other dogs with my bare hands} You are a stroke risk . If any one has to save themself in such a fashion doesn’t have a higher then normal blood pressure then I would be worried .

@nytwatch1 Nowadays, doctors say the same about alcohol. Used to be docs would recommend no more than 3 drinks a day - now it's two for men, one for women or you should just give it up. I've talked to several friends who complain that doctors are now fixated on alcohol abstinence. Same as your experience with BP.

BTW - everyone is a stroke risk - it's insidious and can pop up out of nowhere!!

I feel no kind of arousal going to see a doctor - just want to get in and out as quickly as possible.

@nytwatch1 Nowadays, doctors say the same about alcohol. Used to be docs would recommend no more than 3 drinks a day - now it's two for men, one for women or you should just give it up. I've talked to several friends who complain that doctors are now fixated on alcohol abstinence.

Not to belabor a point, but this is yet another one of the many small indications that society is becoming more prudish / Puritanical. Not only is sex frowned on more and more, but alcohol use usually gets the same disapproving treatment.

When I was a teenager in Belgium, it was common for families to drink (dark) table beer at meals, the kids too. Water wasn't trusted and soft drinks not that available, expensive and not to mention frowned on as unhealthy. But even here nowadays, proposing that families drink table beer during meals would get you dirty looks of disapproval.

I know exactly what will be told ,,,,,

Oh yes!!!!

I was told by GP, “ you really could do with losing more weight ” I was there for an ear infection!

Same Dr saw me a month or so ago and exclaimed how well I looked !!!

Oh yes!!!!

I was told by GP, “ you really could do with losing more weight ” I was there for an ear infection!

Same Dr saw me a month or so ago and exclaimed how well I looked !!!

So, when you went back to that doc your ear infection had cleared up? It's a medically proven fact that weight loss reduces the severity of ear infections! 😜

You've done well @Secret_sub!! 👍

It's problematic that while waiting to see a doc, you wonder what unrelated issues he or she are going to bring up. Either to chastise you or just to assert their agenda.

Waiting in the waiting room.

Being told to undress.

Directions… like, “Open wide”, “Lie back for me”, “Relax”, “Turn onto your tummy”

@Rigel I feel no kind of arousal going to see a doctor - just want to get in and out as quickly as possible.

Ain't that the truth! Sometimes my doc will have an attractive nurse practitioner, and that makes my visit more tolerable.

For me it’s when they put the gloves on

I find the whole experience arousing. From booking my appointment, to being in the waiting room to be called in and then being asked to strip down to just my boxers and socks. I also enjoy the whole experience of my doctor examining me from head to toe

Exams now really don't have any triggering effect on me. But, from the more impactful ones I had as a kid or as a teenager, I still enjoy the roughly equal but very different sensations that came from, on the one hand, the anticipation of a physical exam I knew was coming and, on the other hand, the sudden head-spinning of one I got that was totally unexpected.

With a real exam, for me or my sub, I do not get aroused until I know everything is okay. Then my mind wanders to what we could do with the exam table if left unattended for an hour or two.

With a play exam I get excited by the thought of being naked and exposed. My “doctor” can do mostly what he feels is in the best interest of his patient. Unapproved medical violation(s) makes things wetter, for me.

I always get wet before an exam but I try to keep my mind off of what is going to take place. No thanks to my sister and her girlfriend. They are always teasing me on the way to the exam. They do the same to my sister's girlfriend's niece. They will say things and even touch us (through our clothes) while we are driving there. No the tough is only for a second and we swat their hands away and they laugh. It's not like we can escape. I drive a bug and they sit in the back. Yes, we all go at the same time in June. But not in the same room. My sister will be in with me and then I will be in with her. Then I will be in with the niece and my sister will be in with her girlfriend. My sister and I have always gone to exams together for as long as I can remember. Only one time I wasn't with my sister and that was when she got on the pill. But yes we get aroused before during and after. For years I thought I was the only one that got turned on by exams. Then my sister moved in with me and I heard hear masturbating after an exam. Then her girlfriend moved in with us and I heard both of them after an exam.

Favorite triggers: the waiting room and all the thoughts and images building up in my mind from the atmosphere and the smell of disinfectant at the practice.

Entering the examination room, being told what to do like when I'm asked to undress and to take a seat on the exam chair or table. Listening and watching them prepare the instruments and all for the actual exam. Gloves.

And, of course, being told to ‘relax’ and that it won't hurt at all…

Favorite triggers: the waiting room and all the thoughts and images building up in my mind from the atmosphere and the smell of disinfectant at the practice.

Entering the examination room, being told what to do like when I'm asked to undress and to take a seat on the exam chair or table. Listening and watching them prepare the instruments and all for the actual exam. Gloves.

And, of course, being told to ‘relax’ and that it won't hurt at all…

Very expressively put into words. I can almost picture the succession of events (and the related feelings), as if I am watching a very exciting film!

With a play exam I get excited by the thought of being naked and exposed. My “doctor” can do mostly what he feels is in the best interest of his patient. Unapproved medical violation(s) makes things wetter, for me.

@MissStress

if I may be so bold as to inquire, are your “doctor” and your sub one in the same? If yes, does that technically make you a switch, and is this part of a larger power exchange dynamic?

if I may be so bold as to inquire, are your “doctor” and your sub one in the same? If yes, does that technically make you a switch, and is this part of a larger power exchange dynamic?

There is nothing wrong with politely asking @matt83 . Yes, my sub is my play doctor. It could make me a switch. But it is difficult to examine oneself.

About 2 years ago, I had to find a new GP, as my old GP retired. I found a GP who's practice is close to our home and scheduled an appointment to meet him and provide my medical documents. That initial meeting was uneventful and short. I knew we weren't going to get too deep into discussing my health, although he did make a referral to a GI specialist to schedule my colonoscopy. I also scheduled a physical with him and was very much looking forward to that exam, as I would then find out how he conducted exams. I was anticipating the initial exam, as I thought he would be very thorough, given that I was a new patient. Just like my previous GP, I thought he would have an in-depth question and answer session about my health and any concerns I had (he did just that) then asked to strip for the actual physical examination. I enjoy being entirely naked in the exam room, as I want the doc to leave no stone unturned. No such thing. He followed up with a diagnosis for some pain I was experiencing with my knees, and that was it. I was fully clothed the entire time. No prostate or hernia check. I was very disappointed. Not even a request from him to take off my pants to look at my knees. So much for the reality meeting anticipation lol. So yeah, the anticipation was fun, as one never knows what a new doctor will do, but the actual exam left A LOT to be desired.

I just had my annual exam yesterday. I noticed the first part of the actual physical doesn't excite me a lot. The auscultation the checking the lymph nodes in my neck and so forth he does with out exam gloves on. But as soon as he starts to put gloves on then I can feel myself start to get aroused. That's when I know my pants are coming down and I am going to be exposed.

Almost the whole appointment arouses me. From the moment I’m handed a gown and weighted, I start to get more aroused as the nurse hands me a cup and explains the process of a clean catch urine sample. When the doctor comes on the female portion of the exam really turns me on (breast and labia).

For me, it's being in the spotlight and on display. Usually I don't have to put in a gown, so I anxiously await being told to drop my pants. When that time comes, I'm thrilled to have my small penis on full display. I'll ask extra questions to have it in my doctor's ungloved hands longer. He doesn't hesitate to be through, and if I'm lucky I'll get fully hard in his hands.

Not even a request from him to take off my pants to look at my knees.

I think nowadays in doctor's offices, even specialists, if you want to be checked out, you have to be proactive at stripping for them. They won't be afraid of a potential lawsuit because you proactively took your own clothes off.

2 years ago when I was seeing a specialist, while recovering from an infected knee. I knew he wanted to check the knee out, so when I was on his table. I took my pants off for him so he could have that look, without having to feel awkward about asking me or lowering them himself. He seemed reluctant to do either, so i was perfectly ready to volunteer stripping off my pants (I'm sure being a jockstrap wearing exhibitionist helped).

@JTMac I had an orthopedic surgeon check out my knees. He didn’t ask me to take off my jeans, just pull them up over my knees. Since I wear baggy jeans it was no problem. But he didn’t even move them about like the doc I saw in the early 2000’s did. He looked at the X-ray images and said the pain was from osteoarthritis.

My real favorite trigger is with my play doc who when I am down to underwear says 'open you legs' as he pulls down my underwear