The first time I had sex (PIV) was way back in the summer between high school and my first year of college. It was awkward, clumsy, I climaxed too quickly, not as great as I expected – but it was still wonderful and, at the time, was the “best sex” I ever had!!! My sexual encounters through college got better and better.
Sex with my first wife was memorable – we had dated in high school, had some pretty heavey petting sessions back then, but never had sex until she moved out to California with me several years later. Our first time having sex was very intimate – I remember thinking “finally!!!” – and it was the best sex I had ever had. Then things slowed down, got boring, we lost the spark and sex wasn’t so hot anymore. We grew apart but still had sex out of “duty”. Sex was no longer fulfilling or enjoyable until I had my first affair with BA. That was incredible and by far the best sex I ever had.
We continued a torrid relationship fucking everywhere and anytime we could; oral anal toys …. you name it. We married and for nearly twenty years every time we had sex it was the best sex we ever had!! Then it stopped due to physical problems. We goofed around a bit, but we didn’t have PIV or anal sex for many years due to disabilities and “perceived” limitations. Then, last summer, after some encouragement and bitch slapping from some very astute friends here – I took the initiative and BA and I rediscovered our sexual past. It’s different, now – but better than ever knowing we can still expand our emotional love sexually in the bedroom (or Jacuzzi!).
We have upped our activity back to 2-4 times per week, and each time it is better than the last!!!
So yes, for us sex has got better with age. Every time is better and more exciting/fulfilling than the last, and I look forward to having the best sex of my life at our next encounter - many times again after that!!