Get it done smoothly, quickly. She is advised her temperature will be taken rectally. If she objects I go no further. If she does not, I continue.
But if she has any questions I attempt to answer them, hopefully removing any uncertainty or angst she might have.
Note: Prior to insertion she can or if she requests request I stop, I do.
if she is comfortable with the procedure;
She is told to remove her her pants or skirt. She lays on her stomach on the bed or exam / massage table as instructed. I have her lift her hips and I lower ( if wearing) her panties and or hosiery to mid thigh then have her spread her legs.
I tell her to relax and rest her head on her folded arms, either atop or under a/the pillow.
The glass mercury thermometer is removed from a container with 70% isopropyl alcohol. I wipe it off, shake it down, read it, lubricate It.
I walk over to her, with my free thumb and index finger spread her cheeks. I tell her it will not hurt, but if any discomfort, let me know, and I’ll stop. If no issue, I slowly continue to insert the instrument about 2-2 ½” into her rectum , let her cheeks close and leave the thermometer in her rectum for three minutes, then remove it, wipe it off and read it.
Note: if requested, I will place a light drape over her buttocks while the thermometer registers.