Redheads... What are you gonna do with them

@Miss_Arkansas isn't that sassing your Mistress? I have no idea what constitutes BDSM or D/s and only vague ideas of the rules of those types of relationships. Do you worry about that or are you too far away to be disciplined for that or are you trying to get some attention?

@TrinaStarr,

You are quite possibly correct. That is my impression as well. Though it depends upon rules, expectations, limits, needs, boundaries and the relationship of what is and isn’t allowed including banter between the D/s etc in each D/s relationship.

@TrinaStarr As for the realm of BDSM which encompasses D/s, that is a whole other discussion of complexity to be discussed but not here due to the many variables involved.

@TrinaStarr As for the realm of BDSM which encompasses D/s, that is a whole other discussion of complexity to be discussed but not here due to the many variables involved.

@Master_Dorson

M’Lord, Sir

Thou hast’ explained what I said far better than I. Hands you your evening drink😉

@Faith if it meshes with your thread I would like to know how this evolves.

@TrinaStarr thank you for your supportive response to @Miss_Arkansas . But I did say that she was not under any spell of mine. And while we were a disaster of a couple for four years she was never actually or officially my submissive. We both had needs which we could fulfill for each other. She desired the pain and I desired improving my technique. A win-win in our books.

And dealing with this toy pitbull at times is not as much fun as it sounds like.

@TrinaStarr I like you. You are spunky and a bit protective. Nice. I'm not worried about distance. I live about half an hour from @Faith . And if she ever wanted or needed me I'm a phone call away.

And I've been like this from the first, well, after the first month after we met.

The woman has a great follow through is all I'm saying.

Tonight's the Night!

Been up since five. Doing last minute check lists for party this evening. I've never hosted a party this large before. 600 guest with a plus or minus factor being set. Okay the engineer in me.

At six I smelled coffee and bacon.(?)

Okay so some of you know my cooking expertise is calling for takeout and delivery. So activity in my kitchen is rare. So wrapping in my robe and slippers I made my way towards the smell. And Trel was moving about in yoga pants and sports bra fixing scrambled eggs, bacon, biscuits and gravy, and I smelled pancakes as well.

WTF.

All she said was. Answer the door.

WTF.

I go to the front door and there is OM walking up with large over priced coffee and flavored cream cheese and bagels.

WTF.

Okay people what's going on.

Trel said it was party day. And with that is drinking and dancing and fun. So eat well this morning. As OM walked by I got a kiss on the cheek. And when he handed Trel his donation she kissed him on the cheek and said to me. When you are done with him I call dibs. And went back to work.

I think I almost saw a blush on OM. So we did breakfast together and then the pitch came. OM asked, coyly, if there was any wiggle room for guests. I just looked at him. He explain that four people he works with really don't have anything going on for the holidays except work…I stopped him.

Give Trel their names and she will add them. You owe me a great Christmas gift. He just looked around the room and said he would try.

LOL.

More later as this shit show gets started.

Update: beep beep beep-beeo beep!

Sorry for the late update.

Arrived at Venue at 2:15 PM. Caterer trucks on site (yes we resolved our issues. I have better attorneys) so food was a go. Liquor has arrived and bars are in place. And some gorgeous wait staff. (Yes, I'm good)

OM, Trel, and myself did a walk through and met with venue staff and everything ready. Also decided to go ahead and use back up Pizza plan and will be delivered at 10:00.

We changed into our party outfits about 4:00 PM. Trel looks amazingly official with her I Pad and all the names of the invitees (is that a word?)

Oh and all the kids gifts arrived as well. All my employees children are getting new I Pads from Aunt Faith.

So Trel checked in two hundred and fifty I Pads.

And I have all the bonus checks in my purse, another surprise. My finance lady is shaking her head and told me why not just buy an island as well. Maybe I'll look into that.

OM has given the thumbs up on the bars. My leadership team has arrived all looking good with there significant others. About forty here right now the crush should be at 6:00 for cocktails and dinner at 7:00.

And go till midnight.

Oh and for those that care…hunter green evening gown. Cut low in front and back with a healthy slit up the right leg. Matching black undergarments with dark green stockings. And yes my jewel is in place as well.

The party has started … more later..

Oh shit…bonus ..

DJ is here and playing. And the bands have arrived. Yes plural. My favorite local group. And the girls are here as well. It will be a grand mix of great music and hot sex appeal.

The stage is set and later the bands start playing..suddenly your heart is pounding , secretly you wish you were the star….

@Faith what color is the jewel?

The world waits. . .

Emerald Green

@Faith Yes invitees is a real word, the plural of invitee so you are good on that one. Buy an island, I still hear Jeffrey Epstein's Island(s) are for sale! Who knows what you will find there and accommodations. Seen a YouTube video of someone sneaking on the island and recording video.

@tommyqwerty You think she wouldn't have a color coordinated plug?

Hellooooooooo Campers!

We have a full house. I was curious as to why the boys needed to borrow my truck today and to my surprise all my vehicles have been detailed and parked in the display foyer. So my Corvette, Challenger, Ford 250 Special edition, my 1200 Harley Sportster all clean and shiney. Color me impressed.

Music, dancing, drinking, good food, pizza, about a fifteen minutes speech from “Hot Boss on the Stage”. (I love Jeremy).

Tons of schmoozing. Even slow danced one son with the Shield Maiden. Yes even she arrived.

BEST PART OF THE NIGHT…

My Dad's best friend from College came with his wife. My Uncle Not Uncle Uncle Mark was here and he came up on stage and played two songs with me. We did Magic Carpet Ride and Some Kind of Wonderful. He played Bass. It was such a blast. And the old fart can still sing too.

We still have about three fourths of the crowd still jamming and drinking. Been a fun and wonderful night.

More later

TTFN

Hi Faith!!!!!,

Just wonderin'…. 'Any “Mount Gay Rum” in the till for the Party tonight??? Or is that reserved for the “After Party????”

Audentes, Fortuna, Iuvat!!!,

highwater

@highwater no not here but did have a bit of Angel's Envy Kentucky Bourbon. So smooth.

It's sooo early. Just checked my phone and peeked in on my security cameras. I think the body count at the condo was twelve. Here at the house in the burbs looks like eight maybe.

Only reason I'm up is to relieve myself and then went to the kitchen to leave a note for Trel to NOT start breakfast!

Go back to bed.

Mother, last night asked if I would be ready for church? The only thing that came out of my mouth was….really…

I expect @Miss_Arkansas will have her own review. She was having a good time..

I might not take time today for a follow up. I need to just relax and do football.

Well now that my head is clearer than yesterday just a brief update.

Yesterday, foot note: I do not decorate for Christmas. I decorate my Mother's house because my brothers are a bit lax about helping out. Which reflects in their Christmas gifts.

Magically a Lighted Christmas tree has spouted in my living room. And I found an evil elf on my shelf in my family room. This is not normal. And why has that vile creature appeared here has escaped me. I am looking at Trel and OM for some damn answers.

Now on a more cheerful note. Saturday night was a blast. My direct family had a good time. My fetish family had a good time. Those folks that work for me had a good time. I only had one run in with a male spouse who thought I was only trying to buy friends. I told him I know everyone by name who works for me and yet I didn't know him therefore he was either a lessor spouse or a gate crasher. I called Trel over and she told me he was one of my engineers husbands.

He was being an arrogant fuck. So I had Trel fetch her over and in front of him asked her if she was the primary income of their family. She was confused but said no her husband was. He got smug. I said by how much. She said maybe four thousand a year. I smiled…hmmm so roughly seven percent. Okay. Trel make a note she gets a ten percent raise January one. Then will be up for her normal increase at review time.

I turned to the couple. Have a great time. And I walked away. It's good to be Queen.

Now other than my Uncle not Uncle Uncle Mark playing music with me. My HIGH light was my littlest Shield Maiden and her family made it as well.

You may remember about my blog when an Angel enters your life. Well K announced…okay signed to me she was officially fifteen. And she was as dressed to kill as a fifteen year old can be with dynamite parental supervision. She hung out with me for about half an hour. I even set a monitor face down on the dance floor for her.

Her mother talked to me about some of her social changes. And now she was attempting dance by math and vibration. I told them I expected to be notified about every recital and special event. I won't miss it.

After my little speech I had her come up and had her sign that we needed to GET THIS PARTY STARTED!!!!

So many conversations. My friends from the Victorian Steampunk Halloween party just came up and bowed. I laughed. And then they wanted numbers for caterer, dj, band, effects people… that was crazy because they throw the over the top events.

We had six drones flying around and casting on big screens of things and people. I almost managed one of those European Underground club scenes. Lots of laser light and good heavy back beat later in the evening.

My company email has overflowed with thank yous and other stuff. This just felt right to do.

And for the first time in a long time I don't feel like I need to prove myself. I just relaxed and was me. With Trel not too far away encase any major issues creeped up.

Today it's cold outside. I have a fire in the fireplace and some chicken tortilla soup in the crock pot. No I didn't make it.

I'll talk about sex later…lol…

Well things are slowing down we the approach of Christmas and the advancing Snowmagedden. I've managed to secure enough supplies to survive the lame excuse from snow removal out here in the burbs. But allow me to return to the things of interest.

IF you ever get the chance to go to an event that Miss Faith is behind, check it out. I strolled in about sixish and already there must have been a hundred and fifty people there. I ran into her right hand person Marcy early on and she was looking well into the bar scene. And then I found others that I knew from the old days. There was some catching up to do.

The red headed goddess sneaked up behind me and I got to turn and see someone amazing with Red Hair and this amazing hunter green dress. Looking as inviting and imposing as ever. There was another redhead, I think, near her with an ipad checking lists and other things as well. She was amazing looking as well. What I absolutely love about things like this you see everything. People dressed to the Nines and others in Jeans and band shirts. And it didn't fail to meet my expectations. By seven before the food was served the place was full. It was noisy and so full of energy. The DJ was stoking the flames all evening. Lots of 70s Motown, well 70s and 80s. It was just a great vibe.

Now being bi-sexual means it is absolutely open season for, as Faith would say, hunting in a target rich environment. And then suddenly realize that I'm being stalked as well. So much fun. So many people.

And by the way the food was amazing ( god I am saying that way to much) the food was fine.

@Faith stole the night by playing Oprah. She was giving shit away right and left. I saw a table stacked with new IPads for employee's kids and kids of friends. And I mean stacks, over a hundred but I'm sure that is a low count. Again the new Red Head was checking things out and making sure people were finding places to sit and handing gifts out.

Faith was also passing out what looked to be envelopes to certain people so I imagine it was something special from the boss.

She actually gave a very entertain speech and kept it short. She had some great one liners and poked fun at herself for not handling the recession well. I just keep spending money like I have it. Then mentioned something about buying an island…lol

Something I did notice was that she didn't have an inner circle with her all evening. She normally travels in a pack or has her one or two persons. And maybe they were there but I just didn't notice.

Oh fuck. The coolest thing of all, there were fucking drones flying around and we could see on two big screens what the drones saw. It was so cool. You would be talking to someone and this drone would slowly approach and they were super quiet and then you would see yourself up on the screen. It was awesome but kind of scary. We were told that no actual filming was taking place and nothing would show up anywhere on the interweb from her or her team, under fear of death. But there were thousands of selfies taking place. The laser light show was awesome and the two bands where very good. Faith's all girl band was super fun. They where all dressed like Viking Shield Maidens in leathers and capes with wolf hair on them, I imagine fake but with Faith you never know. And the Queen of Mystery joined them for a half a dozen songs and an older guy joined as well and the pair kicked ass.

Oh and another cool thing. There was this young lady that joined Faith during her speech and the girl was introduced and signed a message that Miss Faith interrupted for us. About Getting the Party Started. And the crowd roared.

So yes it was a good time. And there were lots of places to meet people, take that for what it is worth.

And the last fun thing. On the big screens before the second band started was the last of Die Hard with Hans falling off the Nocagima Building and the place roared again. Yippy Kie Yay!

Sounds like one hell of a party @Faith and despite what you said, I think you certainly were the star.

Post 78…

Dear Miss Arkansas…

‘Love yer’ post!!!!!

‘Have ta’ say… yer' last comment about Bubba Willis…. Yippy Kie Yay!!!!………….. We'll leave it at that!! But I couldn't help say “The Word” that was the follow on to your comment in the movie!!! …………. Another good flick.. (did ya'll play it??) “The Good, Bad and Ugly!!!” for action… Eli, in the tub layin' it on the dude tryin' to get him, but Eli was faster….."When you have to Shoot, Shoot, don't talk!!!!" Sergio Leone was a Genius when it came to “ACTION!!!!!”

with a “CLICK!!!!!!!!!!!,”

highwater

So a guilty pleasure I discovered this evening while being hunkered down in -1° weather but a large fireplace. The Netflix show Wednesday.

Find me a goth girl like that to settle down with and you have a happy Dominatrix. This Jenna Ortega portrays the role very well.

This puts the love of my life, Sandra Bullock on notice.

And maybe it's just the Angel's Envy Bourbon talking.

Find me a goth girl like that to settle down with and you have a happy Dominatrix. This Jenna Ortega portrays the role very well.

Indeed. 🥵

This was one, extremely rare, Erotic reading session for me. Hoping to view more of your incredibly well- written contributions, in the not too distant future. Thank you, so much! Happy Holidays to You.

There are a few Redheads on here I would LOVE to spend some SERIOUS time with!!! 😜 But I'm not mentioning names, you know who you are. 😉❤️🌹🌹🌹

Redheads... What are you gonna do with them

Love them! I will say it again, Love them!

I have had more than one in my life and friends.

One I dated for over a year, one might say a mismatch as I am 5' 6" tall and she is 6' 1" as I had to pull her down to my level to kiss and hug her. One could laugh as I am the dominant and she towered over me. She was also quite entertaining with her dog imitations which were pretty good. Carrot top hair and guess the red hair genes were dominant as her mother side is Polish but her father was an O'Leary, yes, a direct descendant of Mrs. O'Leary whose cow did NOT start the Chicago fire. Yes, she did a have a bit of temper but not directed at me, she had a car that was breaking down and she would kick the heck out of it. I don't care if it is a redhead, blonde, brunette or person of color, you love the person who is on the inside, you just love them for them.

Too all those that take a moment to read my random thoughts here…

Merry Christmas and a Happy Holidays and to all the other ideologies that ebb and flow here.

Have a safe and wonderful day in just a few minutes as CST goes.

How often can you sit on your patio with no jacket on, drink Jack and coke, and it be December 29th in upstate Illinois?

I'm doing it!

Thank you, @Faith , for your indirect mention in the original post. Even if this quote wasn't directly addressed to me, (for my words in your reply to another post), I still consider it a privilege, the fact that they provided an inspiration for your original post. (Fortunately, I don't eat too many "masters and doms" for breakfast, as they are particularly indigestible). Know that, in an unobtrusive way, I admire you. I leave this part in Italian, not being able to know if the automatic translation, which follows, will do its duty correctly.

P.S. Somewhere in my attic, wrapped in an engineering studio cardboard tube, I have the complete exploded views of the Koensayr BTL Y-wing (Alliance fighter/bomber)

Was nice here in NW ILL. today, got up to 61, pretty windy though. But I'll take that any day in Dec here.

Yes, I know, it's early for this but I just wanted to wish everyone here a Happy New Year. I hope all of you that have parties and events to attend tonight have a great time but be safe and get home safe.

I, for myself, have no interesting plans. I just rolling with the flow. And if I stay home by myself that is absolutely fine with me. Just have a glass of Angel's Envy and turn off my hearing assist and watch the ball drop. That would be an excellent evening now days.

Reflecting, I understand I'm being maudlin here, my mind tells me I'm still twenty eight, my thoughts, at times, are of a horny sixteen year old, my body hasn't embarrassed me yet but now into my forties things are changing, damnit. But the fact remains I'm happy. Even with the groups I choose to hangout with. Those of us that are like minded and have the similar desires on the kinky and fetish side of life have a safe place here to gather and meet and chat. Never will I forget those electron friends I've made here.

Thank you all for making me think from time to time. Making me laugh, getting me horny, chatting with me through an orgasm. And even those of you who piss me off.

I wouldn't change a thing here.

So…. Once again…

Happy New Year everyone 💥💥🎉🫂👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩💥💥🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉